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    I remember back when I was 16, probably my first "real" fight. I was walking down the street and a car full of girls called me a hoochie. (Which, at the time, I probably was dressed like one.) I flipped them off.
    As I was walking back from the store, they jumped out and three of them jumped me. I got my ass beat.

    Around the age of 17 I got in a fist fight with my mom. This one I regret the most.
    I was coming down (off meth) and she touched my stuff. I told her not to touch my things. She ended up throwing my stuff. I threw the phone at her. We somehow ended up in the bathroom. I was in the bathtub. I grabbed the towel rack and the bar came off. I ended up defending myself with that.

    When I was about 18, I was working at Starbucks and gave away a muffin. Another co worker snitched on me, I got fired. I lost my cool and attacked her. I threw the straw bucket at this (at least 200+ lb) woman and spit on her. (Classy, I know.
    She filed charges later, and I had to go to some anger management class.
    Luckily, that was it.


    When I was 19, dancing at my first club, I got in a fight with another dancer. Another girl poured soy sauce in her locker and she thought it was me since my locker was above hers. She threw a stripper shoe at me, so I attacked her. The manger handed her her tooth and she showed me the door.

    Those were my only "real" fights I can remember.

    When I was 21, dancing at Treasures, I did hit a guy in the face with a shot glass. Got fired from there. They told me to pay back the $2000 they gave the guy, but I refused. I thought I was justified because the guy was a complete dick.

    When I was 23, I attacked my husband and ended up in jail for domestic abuse. Lots of drinking.... We've actually had a few fights. He has NEVER hit me, but I've attacked him. At the times, I believe I had reason to.

    I'm not talking about this because I'm proud of it or anything. I'm just curious if anyone else has ever had "fits of rage" or been in any fights?

    I'm actually a really sweet, nice girl. It really takes a lot to upset me. I guess when I lose my temper though, I lose it hard.

    Is anyone else the same way?? Anyone else have any battle stories?

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    I had some bs happen at a club in WV last January, where I was just in the mindset of "get the hell out of Dodge NOW". Even then I didn't swing a punch or anything. Jaycee was with me when that went down. Apparently the local dancers thought I was a pornstar, & I've NEVER done video work. They just decided they didn't like me, & it pretty much became gang mentality. They also heavily lied to management. There would have been no way that if the situation had gotten any nastier that I would have walked out of there okay. I probably would have either ended up in the hospital or dead. Luckily I am just a super calm person, & having Jaycee there helped me to keep my cool. The thing is that I told management before things got bad, & was ignored. I was also lied to by management after the fact as well, & ended up leaving the club. I'm still to this day dealing with issues because of what happened at that club... like having some huge trust issues with people & angry that the lies that these girls told were believed & the situation was not properly resolved.

    The only time I've ever actually hit another person was in junior high. I went out trick-or-treating with a friend & these guys from the school tried jumping us for the candy bags. Somewhere in me I sorted out my wits & threw a few punches. The boys left screaming & crying. They knew who we were, & never messed with myself or my friend again EVER. When I got home though my mom screamed bloody murder... my hands were literally soaked in blood. I'd broke all of my acrylic nails (I'd been wearing them since like 5th grade), so it was part my blood mixed with the blood of some of the guys that I punched. It wasn't pretty & hurt like hell to put the broken nails under water & clean up.

    Other than those two times the only other thing I've ever had happen was a girl that was new to the club & had her boyfriend in the club. I approached him for a dance, she came over & went psycho grabbing me by the arm & telling me to get away from him. I told the manager & the guy was kicked out of the club. The dancer was immediately fired.

    I'm sure if I really wanted to fight people I probably could have. I'm just too relaxed most of the time & tend to keep quiet. I'm not interested in fighting with people, I prefer to make friends with most people if anything.
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    Default Re: Have you ever been in a fight?

    The only time I ever actually swung on someone was when my cousin stole money out of my purse. She had it coming but i still felt sorta bad after. I'm a pussy I guess, haha.

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    I won't start shit but if I'm pushed far enough I will damn well finish it. If a friend is in a 1 on 1 fight I let her handle her shit. I would expect the same for me. If it turns into a group melee then I am gonna jump in for my friend. But ideally I prefer not to fight. I don't let any of these little bitches rent space in my head. I try to focus on work and not imagine using medieval torture devices on them.
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    too many times to count. i used to be a very belligerent drunk and had huge drunk muscles and a huge drunk invincibility complex. To describe how i used to be, i remember one time my friend and i were surfing you tube and he told me he found a music video that reminded him of me, and he brought up 'Smack My Bitch Up."

    the last time i got into an almost serious altercation: had my phones stolen and got very angry (already was hammered) tried to get back into the nightclub i was at to look for them, the bouncer said "they are lost forever, get over it, go home" and i flipped my shit and tried to fight him and had to have 2 friends hold me back. the bouncer was about 6 foot 3 and built. yea...

    ive mellowed out since that night.
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    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I've been in more fights than I can count. It used to be part of my job. And the one thing I learned about fighting is that black belts and ninja moves don't mean anything----it's all about hitting them first and not stopping until they stay down. Anybody that uses the word 'suckerpunch' in a bad way is somebody who has not been in enough serious fights to realize that it's all about reading intent and unloading first.
    That being said, these days I prefer to beat somebody without beating them.

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    I stopped fighting when I left school.....and even then it was rare.
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    Yeah, me too. I stopped fighting when I grew up.

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    Years and years ago. One fight in jail. One fight in the club. I only started one. Didn't mean to. Eh..that sucked.
    The club involved a rude customer and about 7 of us dancers.Wonder how it feels to say he got his ass kicked by strippers. But he did get one good hit in on me.

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    i've got this look i'll give people, and that usually resolves things.

    but i threw a punch once, at a guy i was seeing, who was drunk and talking shit.

    i've also been told stories of how i was when i was younger and would drink, but that's all hearsay because i was blacked out.
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    I had lots of scuffles as a kid. The only adult fight I ever had was with an ex-boyfriend. During the last volatile days of our relationship he sucker punched me and broke my nose. I broke his jaw in two places.

    I have always vowed never to start a fight....but I'll sure as hell finish one.

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    Too many. I grew up in East Oakland and was the token white girl. I never lost a one on one fight (well, except to a huge Tongan girl who was a sophmore in high school, I was only in the 7th grade at the time), but had a hard time to say the least when it came to 2+ brawls. It was usually started by certain groups of Asians. Most of the other cliques were cool.
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    I got into a fight with this girl up the street from me when I was like 13 and got my ass handed to me.
    I had to defend my ex boyfriend once and I beat that girls ass,haha. she just started wailing on him so I jumped over the bus seat and slammed her head against the window I think I was like 15 or something.
    I have had many fist fights with my step dad. He jumped on top of me and started hitting me so i kicked him into my wall and hurt him pretty bad,nah..I don't feel bad about that one.
    I fought with my mom once over an ex boyfriend. I drop kicked her across the room..she had two huge bruises on her ass for about 3 months. i feel terrible about that.
    Got into a fist fight with my brother once. His gf was very immature and I had had enough. She kept talking shit, I jumped up to hit her and my brother intercepted and tackled me. A few punches to his face later I gave up. Lol
    I used to play hockey as well,had a few scuffles there,nothing serious though.
    I got into a fight 7th grade. Some girl was trying to attack my friend so I intervened and got suspended for a month. Lols.
    A neighborhood boy was picking on my friend,so I punched him in the face..he didn't fight back though,so I wouldn't call that a fight.
    Me and my bestfriend have been friends for 16 years. You can imagine how many fist fights we've gotten into. I remember one time she pissed me off about something..I just remember reaching across and punching her in the eye..She cried and ran off.
    I've never really been into a huge fight..But I know how to defend my self,haha.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AudrinaN View Post
    Years and years ago. One fight in jail. One fight in the club. I only started one. Didn't mean to. Eh..that sucked.
    The club involved a rude customer and about 7 of us dancers.Wonder how it feels to say he got his ass kicked by strippers. But he did get one good hit in on me.
    Wow! would love to hear the story behind this one. How bad did he get hurt?

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    I got jumped by a chick when I was 16 because she said i was looking at her boyfriend. That's where I learned this life lesson. She came up in my face and me being a big shit talked at the time assumed she was planning on doing the same. I let her just come right up and punch me right in the face. I'm extremely lucky she was weak as hell because she landed it right on my nose. If she was worth a damn it would have broken. I just stood there shocked. I wasn't that type of person. I walked off and called the cops and she took of with her man. When the cops got there they asked me what I had done to deserve being hit.
    So i learned that if anyone ever comes within swinging distance I'm going to get the first hit in. Fuck shit talking.

    Only other fight I was almost in was when one of my friends got a little drunk and really pissed off at a bar when she saw a guy we knew (Who's wife had just given birth to his baby the day before) hanging all over a nasty swinger we knew. I don't mean nasty because she was a swinger, I mean nasty because she was nasty. My friend got pretty loud about it so the nasty chick tried talking shit acting like she was going to do something. Another shit talker. My friend was from Jersey and notoriously a tough bad ass so i don't know what this lady was thinking. The guys with us had to drag her away to keep her from fighting this chick and while they were dragging her away the bitch was stupid enough to try and look cool breaking a beer bottle open on the pool table. the dumb ass had to hit it 3 times to get it to break. It was funny. But anyways my friend got around the guys and went at this chick with the bottle and I started to run over cause I didn't want to see her get cut but our friends caught her again and dragged her out.... good times

    I would jump into a fight is i ever saw someone getting out numbered because it's just not right. I don't care what it was over.
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    The only time i've have ever hit someone was when i was in 1st grade, a friend of mines brother called me something and i punched him in the face. He shut up after that.

    Other then that, I never ever fought in my life. Never had to.

    (I would love to have you girls on my side though! Damn!)

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    I hate fighting but will if provoked. One of my most memorable fights occurred when I was 11. This neighbor girl down the street used to attack me all the time. My dad showed me how to fight like a man and told me next time she attacks me to fight back. One day I was next door playing with the neighbor and she came over starting a fight. I swung around and punched her in the nose, breaking it. Her mom (a bitch) went to the police station to complain and when the cop (who knew my dad) called my dad said she deserved it. She never attacked me again.

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    ^^ epic
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    I've been in many with my older sister. And my younger brother. I don't particularly get along with my sister to this day but I love my younger brother. And into a few with my ex. And he deserved every hit and everything I broke and more.





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    My street fights were all in my youth. Mostly defending myself against bigger, older boys.
    Frankly, I never won a fight. But I gained a reputation for being tough, simply because I'd fight anyone. I also agree with AngelKing. Using the element of surprise followed by a
    an overwhelming attack works. The only time a black belt would matter would be if the
    training included full contact, grappling, years of practice, etc, plus a full understanding of the notion, "Be ready for anything and everything." A black belt who deserves the belt and evades the surprise attack can make you pay for the victory.

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    I'm super tiny so when I used to go out drinking there would always be like one beligerent drunk that insisted on trying to whip my ass. Most of em didn't realize I climb a pole for a living. I've never started a fight in my life though. Girl fights are kinda trashy imo and in every instance but one I've gone out of my way to avoid them. The only time I didn't was when this guy kept stepping in front of my friend, trying to get her to go home with him and being all nutso. I walked over to make sure she was okay and the fucker shoved me! I knocked him on his ass with one punch in front of all his friends. Yayy for drunks having no balance. lol
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    I like to crank up the crime mobb and bust heads....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Angel75217 View Post
    I like to crank up the crime mobb and bust heads....
    we knuckin we buckin'...
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    No, i have to put on "Hit the bitch with a bottle"
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    Either kick ass or get ur ass beat was pretty much the way it was at the schools I went to. fighting went on during class atleast a few times a week , and shit would start flying. Teachers could not or did not stop fights. I got sick of going to a school where the emergency exits were chain locked to keep students from skipping. so I dropped out then went straight to college.
    I did learn one good thing though. There are no rules to fighting. Fighting dirty is fighting smart.
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