I've dated black, asian, white and latina women. my favorite always goes back to my little high school girlfriend Natsumi.Damn she was cute,





I've dated black, asian, white and latina women. my favorite always goes back to my little high school girlfriend Natsumi.Damn she was cute,
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest



I understand where you are coming from (minus the kid situation), and I think a part of the issue you're facing has to do with the area of the country you live in. Maybe in time do a bit of traveling and explore other cities (Manhattan, Chicago, Los Angeles even Miami) and you'll find that the racial "lines" are not as heavily drawn as your current location of Atlanta.
I spent my teens to twenties primarily in the South East Florida area where I dated a pretty wide range of ethnicities. Now I live in Los Angeles and find that I attract far more white men than anything else.
Remember who you attract has to do with the 'vibe' that you exude so say to yourself internally "I'm a racially boundless woman who deserves the best person for me regardless of their cultural background or ethnicity" and watch what happens![]()




it's because they're racist (see white chicks as a status symbol/trophy/"fuck you" to white men), and because white women will usually put up with more bullshit than black women will.
i don't mean all black men. i mean the ones who like white women, but won't give a viable reason for it. or any other reason for liking you except that you're white.
i've had black guys dig me because we liked the same kind of music (metal, btw) and got along. and i've had black guys dig me because i'm white. the first see me as a person. the second are just racist assholes.
-love everyone but keep them far from your soul-





I'm watching Othello. black guys chasing after white women isn't a new cultural phenomenon! Shit, Shakespeare was writing about it 500 years ago!![]()
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
All the black guys who have tried to pick me up have all been assholes (I live in a Scandinavia so most of them are African origin). They'll openly look you from head to toe like a piece of meat and have a really irritating way of talking to you, like they are mentally licking their lips while talking (same goes with most men of Middle Eastern origin). The last one even had the nerves to say that (because I told him I was going to another country so I couldn't have coffee with him that week) I should get used to dating black guys because in that other country/city there are lots of blacks. Thanks, but I'll choose myself who I date, even if it's goddamn green aliens from outer space.
So I've decided that from now on when this type of guy approaches me I'll just say bluntly that I don't date black men because they behave like he does. And give a lowdown about how degrading it feels to be watched and talked to in that manner. At least I've done something unlike most women here who just put up with them in fear of otherwise appearing racist, or squirm out of the situation and are left feeling uncomfortable. Black women don't take that shit and those men don't behave like that at all with black women.
And I'm not saying that only black men behave like that. One sleazy Frenchie got a lowdown from me couple weeks ago. He didn't get angry though, but it was clear that the Romeo wasn't used to having a woman giving such a cold treatment.![]()




(I've actually haven't encountered one French guy I've liked. I just couldn't take them seriously).
It's the guy, not the race. You just gotta be on your toes and listen for 'signals' that he may not be a good guy.
I've always been attracted to model like blondish white guys and tall Asians. For a while I was into the 'accent'. Meaning Irish, British, Scottish, Australian or Welsh. That was all purely romanticism bullshit on my part.
However, I married my tall Asian. He was raised in Oklahoma. The one thing about Asians, they usually have gone to good schools and are really smart and know how to make a good living and pride themselves on it. Particularly, the Chinese and Japanese. I got me a big, tall Panda. Yup, he's Chinese. It's been over 7years. He still holds my hand and kisses me in public. I was just in the hospital for six nights. He was there every day.
I'm an Irish/American/ Hispanic. I tried dating Latin guys, but I just found that my values never really matched theirs.
I've never been into thugs (punk musicians and various other types of rock, yeah, for a while) but I could never fathom dating anyone w/ a serious record. I don't have one, why should they? I had fun playing w/ wild artists but in the back of my mind, i wanted someone with a good education and a family background I could relate to.
Sorry for the long post, but I hope the OP realizes that if she looks hard enough, there are good men out there.
As for being a mom, I do have a friend who is going through that. She chose to leave a marraige to a very successful man. (He's white/American, shes British/Chinese). She is uber hot and and very intelligent. She really wants a Jewish man. She's on jdate.com. She does not want another child. It's hard for her to meet men that are compatible with this, but she does know what she wants. So, I hope the OP has stuck to her decision to date other races and has found someone now.
(Formerly known as 'Korina')
I'm a Skittles girl, I'm open to dating every flavor of the rainbow. As a black woman in the SF Bay Area, I end up on dates with a lot of latino, white or asian men. However, when in Vegas, all of the international men come out of the woodwork. And don't get me started if I travel abroad! So I agree, it really does depend on what part of the country/world you are in because race is really less of a factor for a lot of men.
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