Hi! My name is Becky, I'm 22, and I'm a (pro-sex pro-female) escort working in Toronto.
Many of my clients like to do dinner dates ending at back at the hotel, with a stop at the strip club in between. I always have a difficult time finding a girl who is willing to dance for a couple, and have to ask the waitress to send someone over for us. I always encourage clients to get at least 30 minutes with a dancer, and we never leave the club without spending at least $300 (hey, sex industry should support sex industry), usually much more.
I do 2-3 strip club dates a month, and I'm starting if there's a better way to go about doing this. Tipping the waitress to send someone over doesn't let the client choose the dancer he'd prefer, so we're spending less time there than we could be. Also, most clients prefer a little bit of hustling chitchat before going back for dances. I have a favourite dancer that I will text if I know I'm going to be at her club, but she can't always be available and many clients prefer different strip clubs, etc.
When we do find someone, she is usually dancing for me, rather than for the client. I'm certainly not uncomfortable with having someone dance for me (um, yes please!) but in this circumstance it's meant to be about the guy.
So my question is two-fold... ought I to tell the dancer I am an escort? Would that change the nature of the dances? How can I do this subtly without making anyone feel uncomfortable? Stripping is tough work and I just want everyone to make as much as they possibly can, without weirding anyone out.
Secondly, why don't more dancers approach couples? We're looking for an extended length of time (last time I went with a client we spent 4 hours and $2000+) and very low mileage. Is there something I can do without resorting to the waitress? Is there something I might be doing that discourages girls from approaching us? I don't think I look like an escort, aside from being significantly younger than my clients, and I'm usually relaxing, having a drink, and enjoying the stage show. There's never anything negative about my posture and I'm the first one to applaud something onstage.
The problem is 230934753487x worse if it's me, a handful of clients, and another working girl or two.
In advance, I really appreciate your taking the time to respond and help an exasperated hooker out!
Becky
PS. Mods: I'm not sure if this is meant to be here or in the Customer Section, if so please move my thread accordingly![]()



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