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    OK im pretty tough when it goes to most things. Im trying to figure out why I am deathly afraid of ONHERCAM.COM There is no pink allowed...and all i know is how to give a nude show. I am not an erotic dancer either, so im insecure about that. what should i do.... or should i just leave onhercam alone.....

    I was accepted about a month ago. never logged on.

    not to mention the girls are intimidatingly beautiful. {that was my main reason for joining...the fact they take pride in the girls appearance }

    please somebody give me a hug. and some COURAGE

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    I wanted to apply with them also but my only issue was the fact that I heard the traffic was very slow but I may still consider it when I get better internet service. The girls are very beautiful on that site but come on sweetie, I think you're just as beautiful and you have something new to offer to them, plus you got your own site so you can direct some of your traffic there.

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    Awwwwww hugs Pussy! Come play with us, it's SO much fun there. Ok things right now are slow as shit and I'm desperately trying to figure out how to make more money as I'm not sure I'm ready to go indy yet. Plus an indy non-nude (I really don't know how well that would work...) But you, you are a hustle queen. As for not being an erotic dancer, well...think of it as a challenge ya? OHC is really about building regulars. And it's an AWESOME community. I never hear about any drama, everyone loves everyone, blah blah blah, I effing love it there!

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    Don't be scared of the non nude aspect. I used to cam for CWH and when I first started I was like "wtf am I supposed to do to get these guys off if I'm not showing the snatch" but you really get creative....wear a bikini and oil yourself up, dance around, give ass and titty closeups, touch yourself under your panties etc...the options are endless. I've never been on OHC, so I'm not sure what their rules are regarding toplessness but I'm assuming you can go topless?

    But seriously, the guys who spend on non nude sites know that they're not getting snatch...they're a select group of guys who love the tease. So tease it up!

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    what boobs? i dont own boobs? just some tits.

    im going to try.... but i feel like im gonna look like the biggest jack ass trying to be sexy...lol

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    No you won't...ok maybe you will... but if you are I'm sure it will be super cute! Lol, give it a chance. What made you even want to try a non-nude site in the first place? What peaked your curiosity?

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    because when i get burnt out...i still need to make money...so i was hoping i can find a site i can relax and be sexy without having my legs wide open with a dildo up my ass....#justsaying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyplayground View Post
    OK im pretty tough when it goes to most things. Im trying to figure out why I am deathly afraid of ONHERCAM.COM There is no pink allowed...and all i know is how to give a nude show. I am not an erotic dancer either, so im insecure about that. what should i do.... or should i just leave onhercam alone.....

    I was accepted about a month ago. never logged on.

    not to mention the girls are intimidatingly beautiful. {that was my main reason for joining...the fact they take pride in the girls appearance }

    please somebody give me a hug. and some COURAGE





    Hey PPG,


    You will do fine Honey. I think you are really cute plus you have a kick ass but very adorable attitude. Don't worry about it you got it Honey and will do well.

    Lot's of Hugs and Courage going your way babe......
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    I had a little trouble with the non-nude thing at first, too. lol. I'm so used to baring the panty hamster. But, its really fun there. awesome forum. No free chat if you don't want to. Just do it! I likje selling vids on onhercam.tv, too.

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    I was really scared at first too, because I thought you had to have big tits to make money on onhercam, since so many of the girls do! I am a B cup though, and I've been doing alright on there.

    The non nude thing was weird at first, but it's easy after you do it a few times. I just pose, rub myself under my panties, shake my ass, talk dirty etc. Plus there's always the fetish guys that just wanna be yelled at or whatever

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    Ok...

    But how do you guys charge...you guys are some expensive non nuddies...lol
    what is our cut?

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    I do 1 99 a min for private and 4 99 VIP. It is kinda expensive...I always tell them we can do as much or as little time as they want if they complain about the price. I also mention that even though there's no pink, VIP is better because I get topless, oil shows, toys etc.
    My cut is 50%, it's more if you're exclusive to them.

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    Lol my PVT is $2.99 and my VIP $4.99 (@50%), and on CWH/NNC my PVT is $3.99 and my VIP $5.99 (@50%-70% to me) Yes, I am an expensive bitch and I don't even get topless. But hey, I'm hella worth it!

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    no nude pink?? Werid all guys want is nude pink lol bad business move!
    The world is full of anything you want if you just go take it! Just keep your hands off my kitty!

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    Actually its a killer business move and an awesome classy site!

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    I've actually sworn to not do another nude camshow. I am so done with nude/hardcore toy cam shows. I'm actually updating my blog right now to let my followers in on this decision. Am I afraid I'd lose money? No because I make good money as an escort and don't need to rely on camming income. It will be fun to see how this works out. I also will not do a show for anything less than $4 a minute. If they don't like it, they can bounce. You'll do just fine pussy.

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    me too. 2.99/4.99 on OHC. And us girls make great money there. It's a very good site with great biz practices.


    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Lol my PVT is $2.99 and my VIP $4.99 (@50%), and on CWH/NNC my PVT is $3.99 and my VIP $5.99 (@50%-70% to me) Yes, I am an expensive bitch and I don't even get topless. But hey, I'm hella worth it!

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    I would rather do toy shows on cam then excort, real sex with men no i could never do that i would think thats going to be a hard lifestyle for you.,. but i hope you atleast stay safe in the process seems dangerous.

    Cam money is good 200 to 500 a day seems great to me... but i guess it's all about what works for diff people.. good luck hun

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    lol....Maylaya will do just fine as an escort...

    and seriously that 200-500 you just mentioned, she already blows that in an hour.

    I already know if i didn't have an issue with being with multiple guys Id be on an outcall right now....

    you shittin me....lol

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    I do not like to do nude shows all the time. And while I made the decision NOT to join ohc at this time...{because i would die of boredom} ....
    I am opening my fetish and domination site...which i'm more interested in. I don't have to be naked, but I do understand what im doing, and fetishes are fun. So that's the path im going to continue to take. My fetish/domme costumers pay alot to see me, they want my personal items... I have quite the fetish following.

    Im sure being on OHC would have gave me a little more exposure...but I really don't need to be questioning myself on a site. Usually when I do that, It doesn't go well, so im not going to take that chance right now. I will stick to the things im used to, so i don't LOSE any money.

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    I'm on the same page ass Malaya and PPG. I enjoy fetish camming waaay more! The shows I normally have on IM now only consist of me fully dressed (tight clothing) showing off my figure but engaging in fetish camming. I love it and I'm never going back to fully nude and doing all the work .

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    ya im sure being a excort is more money hands down real sex will allways pay better but is it worth it?

    Real sex with guys? there are many bad things that could happen to you.. you going to have a body guard? Gun? I would not trust one sicko from the internet sex world with my life.. to close for comfort for me..

    I really hope you back your safety up 10 fold!!

    Im just concerned!! Trust me i understand wanting the money! Maybe if i could excort for girls lol then i would do it lol but us ladies don't need to pay for sex!

    Hope you make tons!
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    ^ Ok so many things worng with this post. Malaya, this one's for you girl.

    First of all Malaya is an experienced escort. Her screening process is very exact and she NEVER takes any chances with her safety or her health. On this board she is practically a sex work guru. She educated herself to make sure that does not fall into the questionable and unsafe risks that many girls do when in the industry.

    Secondly. What's all of this about women not needing to pay for sex? Women pay for sex all the time, that's why there are a bunch of non-gay male escorts running around getting paid.

    That is all I am going to say for now.

    Aria out.

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    Damn someone's always gotta say some shit about me huh? Sorry I've been too busy working. As some of you may know, I don't really "cam" anymore.. Well I really don't have to but just a few things..

    Quote Originally Posted by salemsexy View Post
    I would rather do toy shows on cam then excort, real sex with men no i could never do that i would think thats going to be a hard lifestyle for you.,. but i hope you atleast stay safe in the process seems dangerous.

    Cam money is good 200 to 500 a day seems great to me... but i guess it's all about what works for diff people.. good luck hun

    Buy a gun!
    You meant "escort" right? Well escorting is a lot different from what people may think. It's not what you see on TV. Yes it is not for everyone and I don't care if anyone disagrees with what I do for a living. There are more escorts on sw than you think.

    Sorry $200-$500 for me is a really bad day escorting. I'd cry my eyes out. Hell that's not even an hour of my time. Sorry babes I don't need a gun. You might be confusing me with one of your local streetwalkers or low class escorts. I am very low profile and I charge more than most and my clients are very prominent business and I just happen to enjoy their company very very much.


    Quote Originally Posted by salemsexy View Post
    ya im sure being a excort is more money hands down real sex will allways pay better but is it worth it?

    Real sex with guys? there are many bad things that could happen to you.. you going to have a body guard? Gun? I would not trust one sicko from the internet sex world with my life.. to close for comfort for me..

    I really hope you back your safety up 10 fold!!

    Im just concerned!! Trust me i understand wanting the money! Maybe if i could excort for girls lol then i would do it lol but us ladies don't need to pay for sex!

    Hope you make tons!
    Yes it is worth it TO ME and lots of others . I don't have to bust my ass to make $800 in 2 hours when the sex part of all this usually lasts for 15 minutes... if anything longer than that then Im shocked! I usually talk alot and umm.. eat alot (Most of my appointments start off at a nice restaurant) Are you kidding me? I'll take it any day. I spend most of my days getting glam and being pampered by my awesome regs. No they are not sickos? Sickos to you because you're completely clueless about escorting. You don't have a clue about it. Fear is only lack of knowledge. I've been escorting for almost 1 1/2 now and I've never had a "bad" date.. I've never felt the need for a gun.. ugh how ghetto! Maybe if I was a streetwalker then I'll consider a guy but I am NOT. I am an independent escort and go to drastic measures to screen all my clients. This is why I have been so successful. I work smart and play very safe (meaning I protect myself)

    VictoriaMae.com
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    Those are my associates.. I also have a website but of course I won't share it publically on this board (I did earlier this week and deleted it)

    I think we all need to educate ourselves before we start opening our mouths about things we don't know. Amen.

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    ^ Ok so many things worng with this post. Malaya, this one's for you girl.

    First of all Malaya is an experienced escort. Her screening process is very exact and she NEVER takes any chances with her safety or her health. On this board she is practically a sex work guru. She educated herself to make sure that does not fall into the questionable and unsafe risks that many girls do when in the industry.

    Secondly. What's all of this about women not needing to pay for sex? Women pay for sex all the time, that's why there are a bunch of non-gay male escorts running around getting paid.

    That is all I am going to say for now.

    Aria out.
    Amen again. Thanks babes!

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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyplayground View Post
    lol....Maylaya will do just fine as an escort...

    and seriously that 200-500 you just mentioned, she already blows that in an hour.

    I already know if i didn't have an issue with being with multiple guys Id be on an outcall right now....

    you shittin me....lol

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    I do not like to do nude shows all the time. And while I made the decision NOT to join ohc at this time...{because i would die of boredom} ....
    I am opening my fetish and domination site...which i'm more interested in. I don't have to be naked, but I do understand what im doing, and fetishes are fun. So that's the path im going to continue to take. My fetish/domme costumers pay alot to see me, they want my personal items... I have quite the fetish following.

    Im sure being on OHC would have gave me a little more exposure...but I really don't need to be questioning myself on a site. Usually when I do that, It doesn't go well, so im not going to take that chance right now. I will stick to the things im used to, so i don't LOSE any money.
    PPG: Amen to this.

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    Like I said I really wish people would educate themselves before opening their mouths about what they don't know. I have never even heard of an escort that brings a gun to an appointment. First of all, That is the most stupidest thing a woman could ever do. The weapon could easily be used on us. Fact of the matter is, Men are stronger than woman.

    LOL @ $200-500 a day. Out of all my escort friends. Hell even AudrinaN (sw member) would agree that that is a very shitty day. Let's see I can see one guy and make $1200 in 4 hours and $2400 in 8 hours. Alot of people think we see 5-10 men a day. Not true. It's all in the rate structure: For me being a date with me is around $850 for 2 hours I don't see anymore than 2 guys a day. So this is what I meant when I said I was very "low profile".. The less you charge the more guys you see. The more you charge the less men you see. Like an escort that charges 1k an hour wouldn't see 10 guys a day because she wouldn't be getting that much calls due to such high rates.

    So why how is this worth it? I'm at peace , I don't have to worry about rent because I can drive 2hours to Raleigh and make rent and MORE in one day effortlessly, I don't have to worry about a car note because my car is paid for ..ummm.. BOTH of them, I remember when I was broke and I'd go window shopping dreaming about the day I'd be able to afford things.. Nope not anymore I can walk into any store if I want it I get it, No more window shopping for me!M y daughter is well taken care of and she'll have a pretty sweet college fund waiting for her when she turns 18. I am doing this so she dosen't have to even THINK about getting into the adult industry when she's older however, I am having FUN while doing this. I have to admit I don't go to church on sundays but I do still give a significant amount to the church because HE has looked out for me BIG TIME (Yes I really do believe that)

    Just fyi .. My clients treat me way better than any guy I've ever dated. Some of these guys are flippin amazing! It's not something that can be explained only experienced

    It is worth it because I am smart enough to screen my clients. I am not scared of my clients instead they are scared of me! I am very safe. I get tested every 4 months to make sure I am healthy and that I am.

    Ok school's over.. LOL! Enough about me.. carry on!
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    At the risk of being taboo
    There is no difference between her escorting and the many girls I know that put out after a guy buys them a dinner and some drinks, except she has enough self respect to cost more the a meal at Chillies.
    The girls I know, and i'm sure you know them to if you haven't been one, don't do any kind of background check on their mate or take a gun to their first date. I never have done a background check for my boyfriend of 4 years, didn't do it a day after meeting him and probably never will as is the cast for almost every girl and the guys she dates/ fucks/ whatever. Every night at every bar across the countries people meet and hook up and it's not to say, oh well they are stupid so what she does is fine, I'm just saying she is doing much better then the majority of females everywhere.
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