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    Default Have you ever been turned down from a club?

    I've been really luckily to be able to get hired and start working on the spot at all, BUT ONE club!
    Spearmint Rhino in Vegas.
    They told me I could work the EARLY morning shift, like at 3AM....I cried.

    In a way though, I knew it was a good thing. I also knew I totally screwed the audition up because I went in a few months after my son was born. I was NOT in the best shape. Then what I wore to "model" in, was, UGH! I look back and wonder why the fuck I chose the outfit I chose.

    Other than that, I've been really lucky and grateful to have been able to work on the spot at every other club I've been to.

    What about you? Have you ever been turned down to work? Did you cry? Get mad??
    Or just not give a shit?!

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    One time I got pissed because it was a situation where I shouldn't be turned down. This club only hired those who placed in their amateur contest and according to them I came in fourth. However, I got a lot more applause than the third place winner, a big fat slob who was just on the stage shaking her cellulite butt. In fact she got a lot of boos. A year later I met the owner of the club and he told me the contest was rigged and he found out the house mom was hiring her "own" people (by this I mean Puerto Ricans). He offered me a job at the club but the club never reopened. Had the club not been closed down, I would have worked there because they got rid of the amateur contest.

    Another time I auditioned at a club and the manager told me I had a good chance. I called the next day and the other manager started making pig noises and calling me fat. I asked him since when is 5'7 and 120 pounds fat? This club liked very skinny girls. Another club told me they had too many "exotic" women (I have dark hair) but of course this same club had a bunch of fat blondes.

    The majority of clubs that rejected me were mostly based on the idea they had too many girls. Truth? Who knows. I know one club truly did have too many girls (they didn't charge house) and they rejected another girl who auditioned too, one who later became a porn star.

    If I was rejected for things like too many girls, but to come back, I didn't consider that rejection. In a few cases I did come back and was hired. When it had to do with things like my weight or my look, those made me depressed, like I wasn't good enough.

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    ^^^^ Wow that is unbelievable, they would make pig noises and whatnot. I am 5'6" and 130 pounds and every club I work at everyone comments 'how skinny' I am, it's so weird that my weight would be 'big' at another club! Wow seriously thats I can think. Where is this club with the super skinny girls? I would love to know, if not the club then the location it is in?

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    Quote Originally Posted by miamia4me View Post
    ^^^^ Wow that is unbelievable, they would make pig noises and whatnot. I am 5'6" and 130 pounds and every club I work at everyone comments 'how skinny' I am, it's so weird that my weight would be 'big' at another club! Wow seriously thats I can think. Where is this club with the super skinny girls? I would love to know, if not the club then the location it is in?
    The club is in Chicago. I understand they got rid of the manager, but still very rude I thought. If they aren't interested they should have just said no.

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    I have never been turned down at a club. However in my self deprecating opinion this is mostly because of the clubs I choose to work at. I want to audition at a new club in the fall but they have a reputation for pickyness. I know that if I was rejected I would be upset and probably cry in my car, haha.

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    nope i was allways hired on the spot.. clubs are easy if you ask me..
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    Default Re: Have you ever been turned down from a club?

    I've been turned down a few times mostly because I have too many tattoos. I don't give a fuck cause I'm gonna keep on "disfiguring" my body.
    Other clubs, I'm supposedly to chunky for at a size 3. I just laugh my ass off and try another club. I don't give a fuck. For every 1 club that turns me down 10 more will hire me. Sorry I'm feeling a little ornery right now.
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    There's nothing wrong with the 3 am shift at Rhino Vegas. Girls bank there every night during that shift and the club can be packed till past 9 am even on weekdays!

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    I traveled to another city with another dancer in her car. She was a few years older than me and looked worse for wear. The manager talked to us together and then he told us that he would accept me but not my friend. needless to say I was mad, cause SHE ruined my chance of gettin a job there.


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    Default Re: Have you ever been turned down from a club?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dyllan View Post
    There's nothing wrong with the 3 am shift at Rhino Vegas. Girls bank there every night during that shift and the club can be packed till past 9 am even on weekdays!
    I was gonna say... isnt that like the best shift? Ive worked at a few clubs where 3am was peak hour. I wish I coulda started at 3am in those places instead of sitting there bored between 10pm-2am. Guess it depends on the club, but vegas.. shouldnt that be when everyone is pissed drunk with money to spend...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dyllan View Post
    There's nothing wrong with the 3 am shift at Rhino Vegas. Girls bank there every night during that shift and the club can be packed till past 9 am even on weekdays!
    A lot of girls told me the early shift was fine. Just back then, I always worked days. So I could be home and sleep with my son at night.
    So when I couldn't get on swing shift, in my weird mind, it was because I was too fat.
    If I was still living there, I'd do the early morning shift now.

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    I am terrified to audition at Rhino, even after my boob job and nose job.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dyllan View Post
    There's nothing wrong with the 3 am shift at Rhino Vegas. Girls bank there every night during that shift and the club can be packed till past 9 am even on weekdays!
    That's what I assumed...

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    Default Re: Have you ever been turned down from a club?

    A general question: when managers turn you down, do they tell you why? Sometimes they'll say they're overstaffed but I feel like it's about me. I would love for them to just be outright blunt, cause it's gonna help us more in the end..

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I've been turned down a few times mostly because I have too many tattoos. I don't give a fuck cause I'm gonna keep on "disfiguring" my

    I'm with you on that one!

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    Yes I have been. At my current club the same manager refused to hire me for nights TWICE. But when I finally got to a different manager it was all gravy.

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    I've been turned down by supposedly the " best " club in a city and hired at " 2nd best " .... I was ok with that. I did botch that audition though ( very first club I auditioned at ... I was scared shitless ..... when they called the next girl to get ready for stage .... I walked offstage assuming they were booting me off and she was up right THEN ..... LOL ..... and I'm almost sure I could get hired now but who knows ) . It really doesn't matter anyway since you can always change your look / lose weight / whatever and go back ! I've even heard of girls getting hired through other managers just days after being rejected by an earlier one!

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    Also, it depends on the kind of club you're going in to apply for. For those of us with piercings and body mods we have to accept the fact that we may not get into every club we apply at. I accepted that as a part of having tats and piercings years ago.
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    yep here in chicago ive given up clubs because everytime it does not matter how cute my face is or how hhot my body is shaped... i always will have too many tattoos and thats the end of the convo or i get the you've been placed on the call back list excuse..really? why not be like ken from scores who will tell u about urself and keep it moving
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    Quote Originally Posted by crystalize View Post
    A general question: when managers turn you down, do they tell you why? Sometimes they'll say they're overstaffed but I feel like it's about me. I would love for them to just be outright blunt, cause it's gonna help us more in the end..
    Most of them were blunt. I've been rejected for not having the "right look" (I am a dark eyed brunette), my weight (though at my heaviest still wasn't a big girl), even because I looked "too wholesome" (this one was odd). I've gotten the overstaffed one too. One club sent me on a wild goose chase once. They were opening and asked me to come back with an evening gown. I did that and they said it wasn't appropriate. I actually went and bought a new gown and then they told me they already hired enough girls. Why didn't they tell me that before?

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    I'm not sure if this is rejection, regardless it didn't bring me down
    MBOT told me that I didn't have enough experience
    Told me to come back in month after working at other clubs
    But they hiring manager went through this whole spiel about how they really wanted me because of my looks, but were afraid that I wouldn't be professional due to my lack of experience
    I guess it worked out for the best because I hear girls are fucking in the club for only $100...not sure if it's true or not, but I heard it from an ex femBOT

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    Quote Originally Posted by salemsexy View Post
    nope i was allways hired on the spot.. clubs are easy if you ask me..
    Maybe some two bit clubs, try auditioning at Penthouse in NYC or Spearmint Rhino in Vegas then let's hear your input
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    There was one club in Brooklyn. I had a great audition, was the only to get on the pole, I thought I nailed it. Then the manager came on to me. Once i said im about my money i got the "we will call u"
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    There was only one place in Vegas that turned me away and they don't count.

    Not even worth a mention. Hee hee.

    And I turned around that night and started working at Rhino.

    So whatev.




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    I haven't been rejected yet but you never know. I've gained weight (even though I do exercise) so I worry every day. I'm 150 lbs at 5'4''. I've got a butt and thighs from being a figure skater for years. We'll see how it goes when I go for a dancer interview at a different club later today.

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