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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Yeah I don't know we will see what happens. The cool thing about Carman is that $200 is def the highest I have seen girls getting agency wise so far in Canada (other than Pacific obviously) as most agencies I see CHARGING $200/hr. Booo. As for my size I'm just wierd. I'm too big to be average and too small to be bbw. It's not something I'm really worried about as my curves are kick ass it's just getting my tummy tone back that is being a real bitch.
    Simple! Workout more, eat less! You could also pop some Adderrall to curve your cravings and give you more energy and focus to workout longer and harder. Incorporate a diet of low to no carbs and in 4 weeks time baby you will be KILLER!!!!! Good luck my dear! xoxo

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    Ummm, thanks? Lol, Babe, my last job was as a weight loss coach, I'm all over it, my stomach is already getting it's 6 pack lines back,lol. Thank you for your support and advice though. I was just being stupid cause I had been emotionally eating a lot lately and felt crappy. But i'm back to running and doing my crunches eating healthy and taking my Tonalin, yaaay. Hehehe I said "sloppy" but thats just cause I was all menstral and super bloated to sad total poochy tummy. The rest of my body is totally toned I just had to stop being lazy wait for my stupid menstral bloating to go down and get back to my ab workouts.

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    I emotionally/bored eat also. But I'm going back to dancing soon sooooo less time to eat and more physical activity!

    Also, do tell about the Tonalin... How is that working out for you? I think I need a supplement of some kind, definitely.
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    I don't get emotional eating at all.. When I'm sad (not mad) I just pray..... then go shopping! That always helps me! I guess that's really not a good thing either.. LOL!

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    It has conjugolated linolic acid (usually found in Safflower oil) that attacks abdominal fat. It also helps to clear up oyur skin and leaves you fresh faced, which is great because I wear so much makeup for work.

    Also damn, now you have me wanting to work towards being a profession Domme again. Do outcalls (no way I can afford a dungeon right now). No sex, (opposed to escorting) charge big bucks, cause I think I would be like the only pro in town and well, I'm effing hot and deserve big bucks... I'd charge like $300/hr

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    It has conjugolated linolic acid (usually found in Safflower oil) that attacks abdominal fat. It also helps to clear up oyur skin and leaves you fresh faced, which is great because I wear so much makeup for work.

    Also damn, now you have me wanting to work towards being a profession Domme again. Do outcalls (no way I can afford a dungeon right now). No sex, (opposed to escorting) charge big bucks, cause I think I would be like the only pro in town and well, I'm effing hot and deserve big bucks... I'd charge like $300/hr
    $300 is a very realistic goal for a High end domme given that the going rate for dommes IN America is $200.

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    Heh that's just for starting out. I will be the only pro-domme in my entire city, or at least the only one that advertises. Supply and demand ladies. I'm gorgeous, experiences and the only one... bring.it.on, lol.

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    I want to charge 300 an hour as well... but I'm starting at 200, since I don't have a full kit yet. I figure I'll raise my rates by 25-50$ as I learn,grow, and get more equipment

    I will be doing outcalls until I can afford a dungeon. I think boobs come before the dungeon though, for me. I eventually want to have a total space to cam/Domme/shoot in, complete with stripper pole, spanking benches, St. Andrews cross, etc.
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    Oh yeah that would be freakin sweet! Who the hell needs a full kit to start out with? It's all in how you work it baby girl. Im going to collect on my way. Plus a sub friend of mine gave me a kick ass idea of how to collect gear from the sub clients as I go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Heh that's just for starting out. I will be the only pro-domme in my entire city, or at least the only one that advertises. Supply and demand ladies. I'm gorgeous, experiences and the only one... bring.it.on, lol.
    Go for it hun. Gorgeous+Great personality= More money! I don't regret raising my rates at all for work! I cannot complain at all! Always charge what you think you time is worth!

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    Awww thanks Malaya. Yeah I am a total have my cake and eat it too person. I want to keep my boyfriend and I LOVE being a domme. And as a Domme I could actually charge MORE keep it ALL, keep my bf and NOT have sex with ppl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Awww thanks Malaya. Yeah I am a total have my cake and eat it too person. I want to keep my boyfriend and I LOVE being a domme. And as a Domme I could actually charge MORE keep it ALL, keep my bf and NOT have sex with ppl.
    Do what's best for you hun. You already know my thoughts on this but I'm starting to learn that not everyone thinks like Malaya.. I'm just a freak I guess.. LOL! Do what you feel is right. However, do it and be the best at it.. If you're great at it (Being a domme) who knows.. you could maybe start demanding higher rates sooner than later. Just don't put HIS needs before yours.. Be smart and take care of yourself. I have always said that we (women) should never be broke/without. Keep that in mind. Whatever you decide, Good luck!

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    Hehehe, his needs before mine... I am the Queen of the Loophole! That's why I am camming and a Domme and he's still trying to figure out how it all happened. It's about finess. If I can get MORE money for doing LESS then why the hell not? I'm a good Domme, hell I'd go so far as to say that I'm a great Domme (thank you background in councelling and psychology!). And as a pro-Domme I can keep working long after I would have been kicked out of the escorting game. If I can still marry the man I want to marry and make double the money I would have made doing something where I would have to give him up... well to me this is a no brainer. I am a selfish bitch. I want my man. I want my money. And I want my power.

    Malaya you are full of amazing advice and always so supportive of my choices and I want to thank you for that. You say that you would give up escorting for your husband, well my man is pretty damn close to being my husband, as in I'm on his medical, I'm his beneficiary (yes leagally on paper), there is a ring on my finger, he calls me his wife and we are just saving up for our dream wedding. I call him my bf and not my fiance because I refuse to let him offically propose (it's really a formality but whatever I want the romance) until we have the money for the dream wedding because I don't want a super long engagement while we are saving up. I know I'm wierd but I have this image in my head and I'm making him stick to it,lol.
    So yeah, I'm trying to figure out a compromise for the man I plan on spendng the rest of my life with. But it's fair to me because he compromises for me to

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post

    Malaya you are full of amazing advice and always so supportive of my choices and I want to thank you for that. You say that you would give up escorting for your husband, well my man is pretty damn close to being my husband, as in I'm on his medical, I'm his beneficiary (yes leagally on paper), there is a ring on my finger, he calls me his wife and we are just saving up for our dream wedding. I call him my bf and not my fiance because I refuse to let him offically propose (it's really a formality but whatever I want the romance) until we have the money for the dream wedding because I don't want a super long engagement while we are saving up. I know I'm wierd but I have this image in my head and I'm making him stick to it,lol.
    So yeah, I'm trying to figure out a compromise for the man I plan on spendng the rest of my life with. But it's fair to me because he compromises for me to
    Eh as much as a money hungry bitch I am ..Screw a dream wedding. I'll take the Courthouse and we can do the fancy schmancy stuff later. I guess everyone is different. Hell Im definitely not the one to wait on that dream wedding. I want my man regardless even if he put aluminum foil on my finger and we got married in a hut (yes I said it). That stuff shouldn't matter when it comes to "love". I don't believe in giving it all up for "boyfriends" I feel like if a guy really wanted you and only you then he would agree to marry. I love how you always throw the fact that I said I'd give up escorting for my hubby LMAO.. Girl hell yeah! I feel he deserves at least that! I haven't always felt this way but I guess cupid shot me and made me think twice .

    I'll say this.. My man can put a ring on my finger all he wants but until I see it on paper that we're married then I'll continue working as an escort. He can call me wife all he wants and move in ..it wouldn't change anything. I am very wary of men after previous relationships lol. Everyone is different of course.

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    Hahahaha, oh he's not the one digging in his heels I am!

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