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I emotionally/bored eat also. But I'm going back to dancing soon sooooo less time to eat and more physical activity!
Also, do tell about the Tonalin... How is that working out for you? I think I need a supplement of some kind, definitely.
On my way to being the Bitch Goddess of your dreams... or nightmares.





I don't get emotional eating at all.. When I'm sad (not mad) I just pray..... then go shopping! That always helps me! I guess that's really not a good thing either.. LOL!





It has conjugolated linolic acid (usually found in Safflower oil) that attacks abdominal fat. It also helps to clear up oyur skin and leaves you fresh faced, which is great because I wear so much makeup for work.
Also damn, now you have me wanting to work towards being a profession Domme again. Do outcalls (no way I can afford a dungeon right now). No sex, (opposed to escorting) charge big bucks, cause I think I would be like the only pro in town and well, I'm effing hot and deserve big bucks... I'd charge like $300/hr





Heh that's just for starting out. I will be the only pro-domme in my entire city, or at least the only one that advertises. Supply and demand ladies. I'm gorgeous, experiences and the only one... bring.it.on, lol.





I want to charge 300 an hour as well... but I'm starting at 200, since I don't have a full kit yet. I figure I'll raise my rates by 25-50$ as I learn,grow, and get more equipment
I will be doing outcalls until I can afford a dungeon. I think boobs come before the dungeon though, for me. I eventually want to have a total space to cam/Domme/shoot in, complete with stripper pole, spanking benches, St. Andrews cross, etc.
On my way to being the Bitch Goddess of your dreams... or nightmares.





Oh yeah that would be freakin sweet! Who the hell needs a full kit to start out with? It's all in how you work it baby girl. Im going to collect on my way. Plus a sub friend of mine gave me a kick ass idea of how to collect gear from the sub clients as I go.





Awww thanks Malaya. Yeah I am a total have my cake and eat it too person. I want to keep my boyfriend and I LOVE being a domme. And as a Domme I could actually charge MORE keep it ALL, keep my bf and NOT have sex with ppl.





Do what's best for you hun. You already know my thoughts on this but I'm starting to learn that not everyone thinks like Malaya.. I'm just a freak I guess.. LOL!Do what you feel is right. However, do it and be the best at it.. If you're great at it (Being a domme) who knows.. you could maybe start demanding higher rates sooner than later. Just don't put HIS needs before yours.. Be smart and take care of yourself. I have always said that we (women) should never be broke/without. Keep that in mind. Whatever you decide, Good luck!





Hehehe, his needs before mine... I am the Queen of the Loophole! That's why I am camming and a Domme and he's still trying to figure out how it all happened. It's about finess. If I can get MORE money for doing LESS then why the hell not? I'm a good Domme, hell I'd go so far as to say that I'm a great Domme (thank you background in councelling and psychology!). And as a pro-Domme I can keep working long after I would have been kicked out of the escorting game. If I can still marry the man I want to marry and make double the money I would have made doing something where I would have to give him up... well to me this is a no brainer. I am a selfish bitch. I want my man. I want my money. And I want my power.
Malaya you are full of amazing advice and always so supportive of my choices and I want to thank you for that. You say that you would give up escorting for your husband, well my man is pretty damn close to being my husband, as in I'm on his medical, I'm his beneficiary (yes leagally on paper), there is a ring on my finger, he calls me his wife and we are just saving up for our dream wedding. I call him my bf and not my fiance because I refuse to let him offically propose (it's really a formality but whatever I want the romance) until we have the money for the dream wedding because I don't want a super long engagement while we are saving up. I know I'm wierd but I have this image in my head and I'm making him stick to it,lol.
So yeah, I'm trying to figure out a compromise for the man I plan on spendng the rest of my life with. But it's fair to me because he compromises for me to![]()





Eh as much as a money hungry bitch I am ..Screw a dream wedding. I'll take the Courthouse and we can do the fancy schmancy stuff later. I guess everyone is different. Hell Im definitely not the one to wait on that dream wedding. I want my man regardless even if he put aluminum foil on my finger and we got married in a hut (yes I said it). That stuff shouldn't matter when it comes to "love". I don't believe in giving it all up for "boyfriends" I feel like if a guy really wanted you and only you then he would agree to marry. I love how you always throw the fact that I said I'd give up escorting for my hubby LMAO.. Girl hell yeah! I feel he deserves at least that! I haven't always felt this way but I guess cupid shot me and made me think twice.
I'll say this.. My man can put a ring on my finger all he wants but until I see it on paper that we're married then I'll continue working as an escort. He can call me wife all he wants and move in ..it wouldn't change anything. I am very wary of men after previous relationships lol. Everyone is different of course.





Hahahaha, oh he's not the one digging in his heels I am!![]()
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