No they aren't, or at least some of them are not. They may pay lip service to the notion, but trust me when I say that at least 2/3 of them are hoping for the outside shot, and in the meantime they will do what they can to stay in the picture. Like I said before, women are much better at mentally categorizing men in the "friend" vs. "something more" buckets than guys are with women, but they know that if they vocalize these hopes that you will likely shun them.
So instead they will say crap like,"I understand that - at one point I wanted you for that, but now you are too good a friend. I could never do anything to jeopardize that." Sound familiar? LMAO - at least he couldn't until a scoring opportunity presented itself
Ah huh - or these guys are just less honest about their ultimate hopes. IMO you are giving them too much credit - they may know that it is not going to happen now but I would bet a dollar against a thousand that some of them are hoping that they eventually get the chance. I am 40 and you don't think the same stuff was happening when I was 22? Girls were as deluded about these guys' hopes then as they are now.
Watch, indeed, what happens when they get married, or even when you do. And if you DO get married, you may still not understand what is happening in the minds of your male friends but your husband sure as hell will

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