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    So I searched the threads and nothing seems to pop up that would help, though I thought I did see a thread on it a while ago (sorry if there is) but, I normally don't do blackmail with financial dom, and was asked to. I'm not sure how to go about it..I know there's the legality of it, and some dommes have a contract to sign? Should I do that? Anyone with experience in this please help!

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    I'm not sure what you mean by "blackmail with financial dom." Is he requesting you to roleplay a blackmailing situation?

    I'm not a pro domme, so I might not have much advice. . . . Consider this a bump if you want.

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    ^yes, lol. Using blackmail + financial domination as a pro domme

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    Lol, Miss Amatuer Me would probably tell him that if he wants to worship you he has to strip dow, put the ball gag in, and put in a butt plug. Then I would take "pictures" and threaten to give them to his coworkers and religious leader. . . .

    But this is just me having fun with the idea. I have no clue how it's supposed to go down. XD Good luck!

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    Not a bad idea lol! It is a lot of fun, I just never have done the blackmail part before, but hm, I'm excited lol. Are you making a site also? (Pm me if you want lol)

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    *Le sigh* After watching this thread flounder about and gasp desperately for breath I have decided to give you a hand. Blackmail is one of my favs so might I suggest...

    Get him to give you the login info for any of his networking sites, Facebook etc,and his email(s)

    then

    Take photos of him in HIGHLY compromising positions that you find highly entertaining (otherwise darling really what IS the point?)

    then

    Give him a payment deadline and amount. If he does not pay up on time or the full amount start mailing around afforementioned photos of him to his contact list. Starting with the most innocent (but still hella embasassing) and working your way up to something downright mortifying every day that the payment doesnt arrive.

    *eg. A photo of him trussed up with a ballgag in his mouth and a giant cucumber up his bum wearing a wonderbra, maybe some lotion (improvised cum) on his face and a sign around his neck reading "I am Mistress/Goddess/Lady So and So's Filthy whore man bitch"

    Heh, that's right, I'm sweet but get me in Domme mode and I will fuck. you. up.

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    Heh, just went back and read all previous posts and saw that EZ basically just covered this. Heh, wonderful, nice to know I'm not the only devious one,lol.

    Anyway at least now you know how to actually go about it.

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    Yeah, we'll see how difficult he wants to be, he's being hesitant about sending info which makes me think he's bullshitting.

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    I have not played with blackmail yet... I'm chicken! Like what if someone sues you for harrassment! I suppose they couldn't, since it's consensual and all... but it still scares me. I've toyed with the idea though, oh yes... I love finDomme guys anyway. So much fun.

    Also... if you're gonna do this... do your research! Actually, that's all aspects of Domination.

    If he's hesitant about sending info he's probably a faker. I have a lot of finDomme guys that just want to talk about the idea and never do it. I get one guy that messages me once a month on fetlife asking to serve then I tell him what to do and he runs away like a little girl. Meh. Happens. Punishing him would just give him whack off material, so I ignored his ass since I found out from another Mistress he does this to everyone.

    Oh yeah, beware of Fartslave. That's his name. Save your effort.
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    If he is super hesitant I call bullshit, but if he is willing to send info to every single Domme he talks to I also call bullshit!

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    Thanks Harleigh Oh I've definitely have done my research its just the blackmail I've never done and is sort of hard to find any info on details, besides the definition of it. Ill look out for fartslave lol! There seems to be a lot of fakers on a lot of the domme sites! Do you do distance also or just RT?

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    Thanks Harleigh Oh I've definitely have done my research its just the blackmail I've never done and is sort of hard to find any info on details, besides the definition of it. Ill look out for fartslave lol! There seems to be a lot of fakers on a lot of the domme sites! Do you do distance also or just RT?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    If he is super hesitant I call bullsh
    it, but if he is willing to send info to every single Domme he talks to I also call bullshit!
    Very true but how do you know that fine line?

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    Instinct my dear and equisite wit.

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    For instance, this very moment I am speaking to a supposed money slave that just got in contact with me. I spoke to him before and hated him. He annoyed the hell out of me. But who knows maybe it will work this time. I am older, wiser, more heartless when it comes to men and their money. I will not allow him to raise my blood pressure. If it doesn't workout and I don't get a cent out of him I won't be bumbed. because I am going into this EXPECTING him to be a lieing sack of shit. I am skeptical. But I am also bored and willing to see where this goes.

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    Wow somehow viewing this on my berry I totally missed the huge post you wrote Aria, sorry! Thank you so much funny enough, I sent him an email a few hours ago with almost to the T of what you said as well lol so ill see what happens when he responds but seems like an awesome start! He said he's worried about being banned from his accounts, which I said was not my intention-its just to check up on things when he least expects. We'll see I guess!

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    Oh no worries hun. Yeah BDSM is all about the trust. And when it comes to money it's REALLY hard to trust people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunshine16 View Post
    Are you making a site also? (Pm me if you want lol)
    No, I'm not, that's one area of this industry that I'm staying away from. I save that for my, ahem, personal life.

    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Heh, just went back and read all previous posts and saw that EZ basically just covered this. Heh, wonderful, nice to know I'm not the only devious one,lol.
    Aw, shucks, it was nuttin'. . . .

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    I've been doing online and I'm starting to offer RT sessions soon. I have to build up my kit. I'm waiting on a shipment from stockroom.com right now. A sub from another city gave me a nice little tribute to start things off.

    Yes, it is hard to trust people re money... soooo many insta-Dommes! Soooo many fake subs! This is why I want to build a reputation that's solid so I can have the trust of my subs-to-be.
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    Insta-dommes (I refuse to capitalize their 'd') especially financial ones are basically the ultimate piss off of the BDSM world...

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    This is true. I may be new to the professional world, but I've spent years in the business/lifestyle as a model, occasional sub, bondage freak, and violet wand fan. Did I mention I like violet wands? Yeahhhhhh.

    I've experimented with my own pain for years... I used to be a bodypiercer and had like... 20 something piercings myself. I've done play piercing and know the high that comes with it. I think knowing both sides and experiencing pain and humiliation before helps you understand what the sub feels/goes through. Also, if you are doing pain play etc... there's a lot of adrenaline involved and you need to know how to safely bring them back down afterwards.
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    what's an "insta-domme"?

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    Someone who has no training or lifestyle experience who jumps up and says 'Hey I'm a dominatrix!!' They also may not have any real desire to be in the lifestyle or enjoy it, they just want money.
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    ^ Word up to that! It's like "Excuse you? I worked HARD for my Queen Bitch status and now you think your going to waltz in here with your chipped black nail polish and Hot Topic shirt and call yourself a Domme? " Where the hell is my studded paddle when I need it cause SOMEBODY'S gonna get a hurting. I'm not gonna say who, but SOMEBODY...

    Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harleigh HellKat View Post
    This is true. I may be new to the professional world, but I've spent years in the business/lifestyle as a model, occasional sub, bondage freak, and violet wand fan. Did I mention I like violet wands? Yeahhhhhh.

    I've experimented with my own pain for years... I used to be a bodypiercer and had like... 20 something piercings myself. I've done play piercing and know the high that comes with it. I think knowing both sides and experiencing pain and humiliation before helps you understand what the sub feels/goes through. Also, if you are doing pain play etc... there's a lot of adrenaline involved and you need to know how to safely bring them back down afterwards.
    I agree, I'm new to the professional world but really DO love it, everything is a learning process though. I'm more/always been into bondage and humiliation, but thats just me

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