Hey
I've been lurking around this amazing community for a few days, and I feel like I know you all already! I'm hoping to get a little advice from some wiser people than me, if anyone has a minute.
I'm thinking pretty seriously about getting into a SD/SB relationship with a guy I know only from the internet -- to be honest, I answered an ad of his on Craigslist. Which is creepy, I know. But he's well spoken and sounds like a great guy so far. He's divorced with a couple daughters in college.
We've been emailing back and forth for a few days, and so far I genuinely like him. He's quite a bit older than me, but that doesn't bother me, and he's not bad looking. He's offering $1-2,000/month plus various presents (cash and otherwise) for two evenings a week dinner and "intimacy", depending on our schedules. From what I'm reading on the threads I could find here, this is a little low -- but it's a lot of money for me. So I'm thinking I'm willing to go for it and see how this thing goes.
What's bothering me is that he wants to pick me up in his car and take me to his house right away. He's not overly insistent on it so far, but he's not picking up on my hints that I'd rather meet him somewhere public, either. There's no way in hell I'm getting into a car with some stranger from the web without meeting him first, but is there a good way to be insistent without being rude? And should this be setting off alarm bells, or is it pretty typical behavior?
And do you think I should hold out for a bigger allowance? I'm listed on a website specializing in these relationships as well, and have a couple promising responses there, too. When I mentioned that my cel phone was broken, he immediately offered to buy me a new one without having even met me, so that sounds good...but I need to know if this sounds like a good idea to the more experienced women here.
Any other thoughts or advice are much, much appreciated as well! Thank you for making up such a fabulous, and needed, site.




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