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    When I hustle I Hustle hard. there is no other way. Afterall, although we work in a social scene, we are at WORK. One strategy I use that has helped me hit my daily goal is to stay out of the dressing room when the club is "dead." I sit at our "dancer's bar" with a drink, cell phone out of site. You never want to look to busy for a custie.
    Two nights ago, all the girls were in the dressing room bitching about how dry the club was. I freshened up and proceeded back to the dancer's bar. A custie walks in I watch from the corner of my eye. You don't want to appear to thirsty so don't run up to him like a crazed groupie. You will not capitalize. Men can sense desperation. It feeds there ego. instead of a possible lap dance you will only get sympathy singles.
    Times have changed. There was a point where men came and marveled over the women. Now, they feel as though they have the upper hand. By not letting him see desperation, you are sending the signal that you enjoy what you do, instead of needing to do what you are doing.
    Back to the bar. I let him get comfortable with his drink, let him get his change, and go the greet him after two sips. I always approach with a smile but being a natural perky 36DD that's where there eyes go first. Game face on flirt, dance a little, lots of eye contact. Then upsell. By the time my fellow dancers are coming out, I'm heading to the lap dance room with glares of hatred.
    During the custie's entire visit he is focused on me. He feels the tension of the other girls and is not interested in them at all. While I'm on stage, another girl could be sitting right next to him he's focused on me. What are your strategies in a Dead club?
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    sorry for typos rushing to dinner!
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    Don't count your money until the end of the night... it wastes time & can de-motivate you.
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    ^ I want to try and have the self control to do this ! But I can't seem to. I always try to bump it to the next $100 mark and like to know what I have. I'll try this though sometime soon.

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    i do better after counting my money as well, because i always try to make it to the next hundred.. and when i am anxious to do so i usually do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tarahdice View Post
    When I hustle I Hustle hard. there is no other way. Afterall, although we work in a social scene, we are at WORK. One strategy I use that has helped me hit my daily goal is to stay out of the dressing room when the club is "dead." I sit at our "dancer's bar" with a drink, cell phone out of site. You never want to look to busy for a custie.
    Two nights ago, all the girls were in the dressing room bitching about how dry the club was. I freshened up and proceeded back to the dancer's bar. A custie walks in I watch from the corner of my eye. You don't want to appear to thirsty so don't run up to him like a crazed groupie. You will not capitalize. Men can sense desperation. It feeds there ego. instead of a possible lap dance you will only get sympathy singles.
    Times have changed. There was a point where men came and marveled over the women. Now, they feel as though they have the upper hand. By not letting him see desperation, you are sending the signal that you enjoy what you do, instead of needing to do what you are doing.
    Back to the bar. I let him get comfortable with his drink, let him get his change, and go the greet him after two sips. I always approach with a smile but being a natural perky 36DD that's where there eyes go first. Game face on flirt, dance a little, lots of eye contact. Then upsell. By the time my fellow dancers are coming out, I'm heading to the lap dance room with glares of hatred.
    During the custie's entire visit he is focused on me. He feels the tension of the other girls and is not interested in them at all. While I'm on stage, another girl could be sitting right next to him he's focused on me. What are your strategies in a Dead club?
    You're lucky you work at a club like that. At mine, every girl is by the bar or at a table with a drink waiting for a customer to walk in. If you sit back and wait for him to get comfortable with his drink, he will already have another girl in his lap (at my club sitting on the guys lap right away is the norm). I found I have to get way more aggressive in these times and I don't have a choice.
    But yes, it only takes one guy to make your night, so a dead room can totally be great money.

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    I focus on smiling like a fucktard when it's dead, simply because that's usually the last thing every other girl in the room is doing. I look around the club and always always always have a very pleasant look on my face. If anyone walks in, I'm smiling. Not maniacally or anything, but I focus on projecting happiness.

    If someone walks in, I try to immediately catch the guy's eye, even if the vultures get to him first. Oftentimes just my smile is enough to catch his interest, so the vultures don't really interest him as much. That way, later, I know he has seen me, so I can drop a line like "Finally we get to talk!" and he feels we have already had a connection.

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    Quote Originally Posted by teaze View Post
    When guys say that they aren't looking for lap dances that night, I'll say, "I could tell you weren't going to buy any dances, but I just wanted to talk with you anyways." 90% of the time they hand over $20-60 just from that line. Guys love the idea that someone thinks they're special.
    Really? That's awesome! Do you ask for a tip or they just hand you $$? And how long do you sit w/ a custy like that before leaving and not waste any more of your time?

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    ^^^ Good questions.

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    teaze...that's the best i've EVER heard...NICE come back

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    Quote Originally Posted by teaze View Post
    Nope I never ask for tips in clubs. By not asking, guys are more likely to give you larger tips because they think you're not out for their money. I normally spend 3min. or less asking people for dances but on slow nights I talk for 5 minutes and use the above approach. I've learned that the more you treat guys in a "I've never met someone as interesting as you" special way, the more easy it is for them to empty their wallets.
    I'd have to say you've got the magic touch! I've tried this technique ... many many many times ... doesn't work for me ... guess I don't have game or they can tell I'm full of shit ... LOL.

    Thanks for your response. I'm sure every dancer who reads this will find this helpful

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    Quote Originally Posted by teaze View Post
    When guys say that they aren't looking for lap dances that night, I'll say, "I could tell you weren't going to buy any dances, but I just wanted to talk with you anyways." 90% of the time they hand over $20-60 just from that line. Guys love the idea that someone thinks they're special.
    Exactly. 99% of guys have enough money for at least ONE dance.
    Even if they say they don't...

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    If someone walks in, I try to immediately catch the guy's eye, even if the vultures get to him first. Oftentimes just my smile is enough to catch his interest, so the vultures don't really interest him as much. That way, later, I know he has seen me, so I can drop a line like "Finally we get to talk!" and he feels we have already had a connection.
    i like that,,its a great way to get a custies attention,,and keep it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by teaze View Post
    When guys say that they aren't looking for lap dances that night, I'll say, "I could tell you weren't going to buy any dances, but I just wanted to talk with you anyways." 90% of the time they hand over $20-60 just from that line. Guys love the idea that someone thinks they're special.
    i might have to use this one.
    I Feel Like A Million Tonight,,
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