When I hustle I Hustle hard. there is no other way. Afterall, although we work in a social scene, we are at WORK. One strategy I use that has helped me hit my daily goal is to stay out of the dressing room when the club is "dead." I sit at our "dancer's bar" with a drink, cell phone out of site. You never want to look to busy for a custie.
Two nights ago, all the girls were in the dressing room bitching about how dry the club was. I freshened up and proceeded back to the dancer's bar. A custie walks in I watch from the corner of my eye. You don't want to appear to thirsty so don't run up to him like a crazed groupie. You will not capitalize. Men can sense desperation. It feeds there ego. instead of a possible lap dance you will only get sympathy singles.
Times have changed. There was a point where men came and marveled over the women. Now, they feel as though they have the upper hand. By not letting him see desperation, you are sending the signal that you enjoy what you do, instead of needing to do what you are doing.
Back to the bar. I let him get comfortable with his drink, let him get his change, and go the greet him after two sips. I always approach with a smile but being a natural perky 36DD that's where there eyes go first. Game face on flirt, dance a little, lots of eye contact. Then upsell. By the time my fellow dancers are coming out, I'm heading to the lap dance room with glares of hatred.
During the custie's entire visit he is focused on me. He feels the tension of the other girls and is not interested in them at all. While I'm on stage, another girl could be sitting right next to him he's focused on me. What are your strategies in a Dead club?



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