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    Default Re: A few standard questions on; dating - to tell or not and implants

    1) With dating, I won't tell guys that I strip. I only share what is absolutlely necessary. 2) Contact the Dr., Make sure he is board certified with the ASPS (American Society of Plastic Surgery). Also, look up the MD's license. That's public information. Ex) You can see if he has any malpractice suits. 3) Usually, after you email him, his patient consulatant will call you and answer your questions. 4) Most guys will just ask "Are your boobs real"? For some guys it's a big deal, some guys could careless.
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    my recommendations for breast implants :: become a member of justbreastimplants.com . def was essential for me deciding if i should get breast implants. you can even msg some of the highest rated p.s. in the u.s. find girls who fit your stats. girls who may be attending the same doc. .
    sooo mch info. you can't go wrong. hope this helps.

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    I usually bring up that I have implants. with my current bf i didnt mention it till date 2 or 3 but he said he knew. he apparently dated a few girls with implants and he said just by looking he could NOT tell they were implants but he knew cause of how they felt. But little did i know he LOVES saline implants. He likes that they are both firm yet still soft.

    Ive never had a guy not date me cause of my implants. I did have a guy once say big boobs were a waste (we still dated tho!) so yeah get them if u want them.

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    Default Re: A few standard questions on; dating - to tell or not and implants

    Also be aware that if you are thinking about using a NY plastic surgeon that there is a HUGE difference in pricing between 'upstate' and 'downstate' NY.

    As to potential pre-consultations, virtually every plastic surgeon has a website these days. Feel free to e-mail the doctor's office. It helps to include pics of yourself i.e. front, angle and side view of your boobs. It also helps if you know and can tell the doctor's office exactly what you are looking to have done i.e. 500cc saline implants over the muscle with TUBA incision or 400cc silicone implants under the muscle with crease incision.

    As to dating and implants, if you get them big enough the question will never arise ... but something else will LOL !

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    I'm not dancing now but I always tell new partners that I have danced, up-front. I like getting it out of the way.

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    Default Re: A few standard questions on; dating - to tell or not and implants

    I am struggling to tell someone new ( it's been a few dates now .. Don't really feel right about hiding it ). He knows I used to bartend / coctail at a strip club and didn't bat an eye at that. Plus he's agnostic ( not a super Christian which is common in my home area ).
    So ... I guess my protecol.., wait 3-4 dates first. I figure he has to get to know ME first before knowing ( besides.., I only dance twice a week usually ).

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    ^^yea I agree with carmen! I dont think you should tell a guy right away for the simple fact, traditionally the title Stripper is tainted in some ppl minds and I wouldnt want him to pre judge you before even realizing whether he would actually fall in love with who you trully are! I have a guy friend (plutonic) who is very shallow and have very high standards in women! He met this chic who he was sooo fascinated with and she told him and he never spoke to her again b/c in his mind dancers are fucked up w low morals! He never even gave her a chance! Dont get me wrong she deserves wayyy better! And as his friend I know what he desires in a woman and I thought she could have given it to him!
    On the flip side he's been knowing me for years! and when I told him I have been flirting with the idea he was like (laughing) "No, that's not for you. But if you want me to I'll show you some clubs you may be comfortable trying out."
    My point is, he immediately dogged her out without knowing or giving her a chance! While in contrary he sincerely knows me but has yet to pass judgement!
    Not saying every man is like that, but I HATE being stereotyped and could care less for judgemental ass ppl!

    As far as implants; I saw a thread on saving up for them and they were discussing this site called myfreeimplants.com where men become your fan and pay for them or something of that nature via internet!

    hope this helps

    p.s. also you dont have to tell everything in the beginning cus the guy may be a jerk. 3-6 mos down the line you may not even like him!

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    ^ well the ster. Types do exist for a reason. They came from somewhere you know? I figure my guy is smart enough to think case by case and not generalize.

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    Default Re: A few standard questions on; dating - to tell or not and implants

    i tell them i dance after we had the chance to get to know each other so he sees me as a potential gf he loves to hang out with first before accepting the shock or surprise that i actually dance.

    its more "hey i love spending time with you was so nice to go out again tonight. also i have a confession, i been waitressing at a strip club recently and have the urge to try it out..."


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    hey youre cute im glad were dating by the way i been a stripper the whole time




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