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    I would get something in writing. I would NOT change my love life for someone... he could either go to hell on that one, or I'd just do it behind his back. I wouldn't stop dancing either. Because instead of making the same as dancing... I'd just make double. More money, bigger cushion for exiting the industry.
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    You make a good point. This industry is all about maximizing profit, much like any industry, but in particular since we fight for our money as independent contractors.
    If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    Ultimately, this proposal smacks of mutual exploitation. But if the girl can pocket some quick cash ( or increased home equity ) before things go to hell it's an opportunity worth considering.
    I wouldn't do it, but I know a lot of people that have done a lot worse.

    For the record, there are decent guys that come into the strip club with legitimate job offers. This is not that!

    However, from what I've read, she has already crossed the line with this guy and taken so much from him already. He probably thinks he has her hooked and I wouldn't be surprised if she already said yes.

    I worked as a product spokesmodel at a health & fitness trade show, in a suit, for a few hours a day over two days and was well paid for my time. This job offer came from a custy, but when he approached me about it, he gave me his info along with a $20 bill, and did not dance with me. I only saw him in the club that one time.

    It turned out to be a blessing. He offered me a sales job because I had done so well at the show, but the product was a hard sell so I turned it down.

    Good luck with whatever she decides, but it sounds like he just wants eye candy on his pay roll that he can boss around and have sex with. His demands are unreasonable. She needs to get everything in writing on his company's letter head. Also, what about insurance? Let's be professional about this if a job is truly what she's looking for...

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    PA is a day job. Dancing is for nights/weekends. There is no reason she can't do both and if he says she can't he's obviously a controlling jerk. But if she COULD do both and make like 6k a week instead of 3k... well, that's a hell of a cushion. I would negotiate the hell out of that and make up some silly thing like... 'Oh I still want to dance cause all my friends are here and I'd miss them toooo much.'
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    The no boyfriend is the part that scares me the most.

    Controlling men with money are extra dangerous sometimes. I'm afraid she could end up in a body bag if he thinks she isn't doing exactly what he asks.

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    Update:

    She went to lunch and shopping with his current PA on Friday. The PA has had a job with him for 4 years the last two as his PA through his divorce and is older than my friend. She's leaving because she's getting married to a friend of his and no longer needs to work. She never has had a relationship with her boss but over the last year has accompanied him to some events. The PA told my friend that he is an awesome boss and is true to his word, but he does like my friend a lot.

    Friday afternoon he invites her out on his boat for Saturday along with some of his friends and she could bring some friends if she wanted, but needed to know how many so he would have enough food and equal amount of people. My friend brings her roommate and has the time of her life. The guy has his current PA with her Fiance and another couple and another single guy. She was sold on the whole situation after Saturday. They sailed around Manhattan and had a gourmet dinner on the boat which he put together. It was more like a date than a business trip and the only he touched her was to give her hugs.

    She decided to take the job and starts after labor day. He gave her $10,000 so she could take the next couple weeks off to relax. She is so thrilled not to dance any more.

    She made good money but had to work 3 day shifts and 5 night shifts and was emotionally exhausted from dancing. She realizes it's a gamble but it's the best opportunity she's gotten to get out of dancing. I asked her about the no BF for the first year and she's not worried, and she always wanted to finalize her divorce but never found a reason to do it. Her Ex husband lives out of the country. I'll keep posting updates as I hear. Sounds to good to me but my friend was so psyched when I talked to her last night.

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    Ahh good for her..

    I'm just not buying it

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    Nice one! You know the no boyfriend thing could be also because if a BF found out how much she were getting paid and where she met the boss... the BF probably wouldnt approve. Then the guy would be at square one again trying to find a new PA. Seeing the reason why the old PA is leaving.

    Again I stand by the fact she has nothing to lose. Getting a dancing job isnt exactly difficult. You walk in an can work that day. She just needs to make sure she stays dancer ready just in case and save as much of that money as possible.

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    I hope things work out, I hope she saves some of the $$.
    xoxo

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    Not to be on a downer but she should save some of the money just in case things work out, but good luck to her x
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    Quote Originally Posted by mayajaya View Post
    Update:

    She went to lunch and shopping with his current PA on Friday. The PA has had a job with him for 4 years the last two as his PA through his divorce and is older than my friend. She's leaving because she's getting married to a friend of his and no longer needs to work. She never has had a relationship with her boss but over the last year has accompanied him to some events. The PA told my friend that he is an awesome boss and is true to his word, but he does like my friend a lot.

    Friday afternoon he invites her out on his boat for Saturday along with some of his friends and she could bring some friends if she wanted, but needed to know how many so he would have enough food and equal amount of people. My friend brings her roommate and has the time of her life. The guy has his current PA with her Fiance and another couple and another single guy. She was sold on the whole situation after Saturday. They sailed around Manhattan and had a gourmet dinner on the boat which he put together. It was more like a date than a business trip and the only he touched her was to give her hugs.

    She decided to take the job and starts after labor day. He gave her $10,000 so she could take the next couple weeks off to relax. She is so thrilled not to dance any more.

    She made good money but had to work 3 day shifts and 5 night shifts and was emotionally exhausted from dancing. She realizes it's a gamble but it's the best opportunity she's gotten to get out of dancing. I asked her about the no BF for the first year and she's not worried, and she always wanted to finalize her divorce but never found a reason to do it. Her Ex husband lives out of the country. I'll keep posting updates as I hear. Sounds to good to me but my friend was so psyched when I talked to her last night.

    Is there any update to this situation? Does anyone know if the PA job worked out?

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    I would say go for it and just be cautious. Ya it MAY not work out but then your just back at the club the next night like nothing happened. Stripping isn't going anywhere. And if she doesn't have a BF now then she MAY not meet one all year, so it's like she actually giving up somebody. Even if she met someone, she could quit her "PA" job and be with him. Plus you said she LIKES him, so I don't really see why the "no bf" thing is so bad. Maybe if she had a guy in her life it would be different so I don't really see what she has to lose!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrina312 View Post
    If she's already making $2000 to $3000 a week. Then it doesn't sound that great. But, if she's ready to move on from dancing. It might be a good opportunity. I have seen girls fall for this. And, they usually end up regretting it.
    Well, 2-3K a week, keeping your clothes on and not being molested on by multiple dudes a night seems like a pretty good deal to me. Plus there's all the perks like paying her renovations and the cars.

    I say multiple dudes a night because I fully expect this guy to molest on her. There's no way he's setting her up like this and then not expecting sex.


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