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    Default Re: Men rating girls as numbers?

    ^ Hey ya they are talking about looks. Guys use this all the time, not just in the club. Im guessing you don't spend a lot of time with guy friends. I do and let me tell you they rate almost every girl they meet. It would be like we usually call guys, "hot = drool, cute = alright looking but probably boyish, sexy = I want to bone him".

    Back to in the club though. I have definitely worked with 2s! You do not need to be hot to be a stripper and some places will hire anyone. And yeah a 10 is usually model hot, but it could also be relative to the club. They might base it off the hottest girl there.

    Ratings are dumb because they are completely subjective. My husband laughs when his friend rates his girlfriends. He will be like "Shes a 7" and my husbands like "so a 4 at my standards". Every guy has different tastes so I wouldnt pay any attention to it. Its just boys being boys.

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    One time I turned a guy down and he told me I was a "4" as a burn. I just laughed
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    Default Re: Men rating girls as numbers?

    This is new news to you ( the 1-10 thing?).

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    Yeah I actually moved to the US from London england, I really haven't caught any guy friends there rating girls. Though they will use terms like that girl is "fit" for very hot, and minging for very bad.

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    Singingswallow - I'm guessing you must be quite young ("fit" and "minging" are younger words). The numbers thing is by no means confined to the US, it's an "out of ten" score and quite common. But as Jessie says, i's all very subjective. If you haven't danced before or for very long then don't allow a chap's opinion too much weight, just keep a banaced view of your personal appearanc and adjust accordingly to ensure you maintain your wage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post

    Ratings are dumb because they are completely subjective. My husband laughs when his friend rates his girlfriends. He will be like "Shes a 7" and my husbands like "so a 4 at my standards". Every guy has different tastes so I wouldnt pay any attention to it.
    Yip. My number has been through the spectrum. I've been called a 10 on various occasions and I've been called a 7 on various occasions. And everything in between. I'm sure men have thinked I'm much lower as well, though they were polite enough not to say that to my face.

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    urban legend has it that the 1-10 rating system originated at Scores in Manhattan ... and is thus referred to as the 'Scores' scale. Under the original 'Scores' scale, any girl judged to be a 10 was an instant hire, any girl judged to be a 9 was a 'think about' before hiring, any girl judged to be an 8 would not be newly hired ( and if already working at the club would be 'talked to' about dieting or otherwise improving her physical presentation ), and any girl who was judged to be a 7 would be fired ( or recommended to a more 'downscale' club ).

    Obviously a lot of things have changed in regard to Scores, as well as with the Manhattan club business model and resulting hiring / firing decisions, over the many years since the 'Scores' scale was first rolled out ! For example, these days certain clubs would much prefer to hire an '8' who is willing to provide club customers with 'extras' than to hire a '10' who isn't willing to provide much of anything in the way of customer contact - because the club will earn far more money from the VIP rooms sold by the '8' but not sold by the '10'.

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    it's something I just laugh my ass off about. A guy said I was a "7.5"....hey..at least I am apparently better than a seven...just not quite an 8.

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    guys always tell me I'm like an 8/9 and when I ask what it would take to make me a 10 they're like I don't know

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    i hate to be the cunt here...but seriously...why are we still talking about this lame "scoring scale"? we get it. guys are dumbasses who can't appreciate a beautiful, smart woman whenever he sees her.

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    I actually like the number/number/letter scale. first is his body, then face, and a letter for his personality since that's more vague.

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    one mans 4 is another mans 10 and vise versa. *shrug* it's the same with women. there are plenty of dudes whom a friend of mine had thought were a "10" and I would say more like a 3 or 4. eye of the beholder.

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    Most guys I know (white and/or latin guys) usually give me a 9.5 or 10, but the black dudes usually rate me with a 7. Asians usually give me high numbers too 'cause I'm such an otaku.





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    Remember beauty is subjective. One man's 10 is another man's 2. .

    I've found that positive affirmations
    "I'm beautiful. I'm beautiful. I'm beautiful"
    In my head has a profound impact on the way men respond to me in general.

    All I'm saying is don't let the whole"rating" thing get to your head in the future.
    Just a warning I'm not saying that it will.

    It's so immature to begin with.
    Real quality men can find beauty in just about every women.



    Anyways... I bet the guys here are going to go crazy for your accent .
    Lucky girl!

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