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    Duh in a hustle rut



    its been a shiiiiiiit week prob 400 in 3 days. like balls srsly.
    and low money means i find it hard to motivate myself to make more [i always find it easier to get motivated when i made heaps in a night, one more show, round to nearest 100]

    now approaching people even bums me out coz i know its gonna be the same bullshit questions and i find it hard to like act happy and enthusiastic or fun all the time....

    maybe i need some time off?
    i want a small holiday but coz its shit i cant afford it... and because i dont get a break i continue to do poorly.

    now what??

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    Default Re: in a hustle rut

    Can you take a break and find a regular temporary job? It does sound like you need a vacation.
    Don't you ever sleep?
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    Default Re: in a hustle rut

    Take some time off if you can. Otherwise how about trying a new club or traveling? Sometimes a new atmosphere can get you motivated to work.

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    Default Re: in a hustle rut

    You can treat yourself to a relaxing day for not a lot of money either. Lunch out / mani-pedi at home / phone and net off / go to garden with a book . Just some time to chill a bit may help a lot. Just whatever works for you. I regularly take phone and net free breaks where I just go to lunch/movie and wander around by own city and love those days.

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    Default Re: in a hustle rut

    Yeah, if you can, definitely take some time off.

    Other advice:

    Go to work with a "fuck it" attitude. Dance to music you love; music that makes you 'dance happy'. Hustle people on stage, while you're feeling the music. This way, it isn't obvious to others if people reject you. You look like you're just talking to someone. You can even use your stage time just to feel people out for dances, so that you have a higher rate of success when you hustle them off-stage later. Smile like a moron at everyone.

    As much as you can, try to take the pressure off of yourself to make money...

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    Default Re: in a hustle rut

    ^ i try n do that usually coz i hate approaching people so i do a lot of talking on podiums. im not really down for a new club coz this is the top one in my area and i dont want to have to worry myself about extras girls or my safety with crazy custies. yeah i need to better manage my money so i have some rent saved up for like a month.
    i bought a ballet leotard two weeks ago and still havent had the chance of using it
    im gonna try and look at some day jobs i think it would do wonders in taking the pressure off me every night.

    id rather runner away.

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