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    You know how they have the saying ROB's - rip off bitches? I am inventing a new saying R.O.G.s - rip off guys. Over the last year I have run into a lot of ROG's.

    If you go to a restaurant and the waitress says let me tell you about our specials. Today we have a grilled cheese special it cost $6.00. The custy says that sounds great and the waitress says ok grilled cheese it is and writes down the order. Then the guys eats the whole sandwich and when the bill comes he says- I'm not paying because I did not ASK for this. Even though he AGREED to it and ate the whole thing.

    I always tell the custy how much a dance is and I only start dancing when a guy agrees to do the song. It really pisses me off when I do the whole song and they try to pull the I did not officially ASK you crap. No you did not ASK. You AGREED and that is why I danced for you. I'm sure most girls have dealt with ROGs in their early 20's, but I have had ROGs in their 40's and 50's try to pull that crap over the last few months. I have had ROGs try to deal me down on my price by pulling the I did not ASK, I only have $10. I have also had two guys try to get part of a dance for free. So there I am taking off my clothes and dancing because he said yes that sounds great and part way through he says no I don't want the dance. Well you should have said NO. How hard is that? It's only 2 letters. You still have to pay me. You think your going to get a bunch of free part dances you gross scum ROG! Hell no! I always tell the bouncer.

    I will never force a dance on a guy who says no because that is what ROBs do and no matter how many ROGs I come across I will not become a ROB.
    It's just really bothering me because I used to only come across scum like that maybe once or twice a year if even. Has anyone else seen a high increase in ROGs lately?
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    YES! Tuesday.
    Club was dead so I didn't have much of a selection and there were 3 black young guys playing pool. There was already 1 other dancer over there so I headed over. Hung out for a bit and then me and the other dancer started asking for dances. THe other dancer took 2 of the guys so I asked the last guy he said he was 'just chillen'. I responded with well the other guys are going so we might as well too since he had noone to play with anyway. He said ok. I let him know it's $25/dance. After I did the first, I asked for another he said "its whateever u want, ma". I let him know after this dance it would be "$50", he agreed. I do the dance and after asked for a 3rd, he declined. He gets up and runs out of the room when I asked for payment. He didn't want to pay me because I never 'asked' and he never said yes. FUCK THAT. I got a bouncer and he was forced to pay. He even claimed that he didn't know the dances were $25. He got dances with another dancer prior to me so he was sooo full of shit. It really upset me. UGH.

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    Lol... I had a " runner" once. He literally hauled ass out of the club over 60$. I was pissed but it was kinda funny to see a grown man run out of an establishment to avoid payment. Wow

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    I've been so lucky to never had this happen to me.
    There was ONE time were a guy SAID he paid me, but he didn't. He was drunk. I had just started my shift and kept my money on my ankle. No money there. His brother ended up paying me.

    If I get the vibe that they're not going to have all the money, I'll get the money BEFORE I dance. After 3 dances, I usually collect the money and then continue dancing.

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    This shit just blows my mind that it really happens to us!

    So far I've only had a bad experience once. I should have known he would be a fucking douche bag ... he was a young obnoxious prick during the magic convention this year in Vegas. Granted it was only $20, but it was the principle. That's what I get for going out of my clientele base. Lesson learned!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    There was ONE time were a guy SAID he paid me, but he didn't. He was drunk.
    Drunk customers tend to annoy me. I walked away from three of them last night. If they are too drunk to be able to open their wallet for the waitress & take out their money then I don't need to be dealing with them.
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    I can't stand drunks in general. Once they get to slurred speech, I just want to slap them in the face!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    Drunk customers tend to annoy me. I walked away from three of them last night. If they are too drunk to be able to open their wallet for the waitress & take out their money then I don't need to be dealing with them.
    Yes! Since I can no longer really be "on their level", I feel the same way. Especially when they're with all their friends. They obnoxious, rude, cheap.
    Although, some of the drunk guys don't know what's going on.
    "Here, here, take this $20, dance for my friend..."
    his friend isn't even there...so I don't have to dance....or it'll be a $50 or something.
    Which, I never use to do, but honestly hasn't got me anywhere. For now on, like so many girls have said, that's my tip. Unless they ask for change...

    (Soooo many times I was honest with guys. Telling them they only owed $20, and they handed me $100 not knowing. Then not even getting a tip for the dance.
    that's a different subject though....)


    but yes, it just sometimes depends on HOW drunk they are or WHAT kind of drunk they are..lol

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    I have had this happen when I danced. One time (in Astoria OR) the guy was just the last straw and (with the club owners blessing) I called the cops. He had been trying to get me to go back to his hotel so i knew exactly where he was staying and his room number. Yeah...he got arrested. Over $20. AND he was only there on business so NOW he has to explain to his WIFE why he has to go back to Astoria to go to his court date.

    The cops even gave him the chance to pay me when they went there and he STILL refused. They were pissed on my behalf too...it was awesome.

    Hope he enjoyed his evening in jail over $20. Worth it to rip off the stripper now asshole?

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    Where I work we have to get paid upfront and Im glad so I don't have to deal with this.
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    Wow seriously!? What a loser who would go to jail over 20 bucks?? Just pay! I've worked at some pretty ghetto clubs where the security would search/beat up a guy sometimes if he was refusing to pay, one guy kept claiming not to have the money he owed a girl, turns out he had like 300 bucks hidden in his socks!
    I had on guy try to run down the street, security chased him and almost got him, then went to his friends who were still in the club and got the money from them. They all looked pretty embarrassed and pissed about picking up the tab for their loser friend!
    I usuallu get paid upfront to avoid this now, especially if the guys is young or really drunk.

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    I have been dancing on and off for seven years and I encountered my first two R.O.Gs last Monday. One owed me eighty dollars. His friends were refusing to pay. I told them to give me sixty and I wouldn't get the bouncers involved. I don't remember what the other one was, but I used the same "don't want to get the bouncers involved" line and it was paid in full....also by someone else! Probably about sixty dollars.

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    Never happened to me. But Damn about the guy going to jail over 20$ ahah wow. I was close when I thought the guy didnt have cash on him. He was on something... he was looking at the wall but its someting was there and he would always smile and go "yea..........." So I told 20 a song, Illl stop you every song (since your fucking high on something!) We got to the 3rd song, and he started amost being weird and as if he didnt want that 3rd song. So I stopped him and asked in a really slow tone "Do you have 60$?" He pulls out his ID, and a credit card.... thats all he had. I was like shit, I hope this guy has money in his credit card cause he sure looked like he didnt! He ened up going to the ATM with a 10% charage, which most guys freak over about. But that was the last time I started going to weird highed up guys.

    Also one girl was telling me, if something like that happens. take anything of theirs of value, watch, cellphone, ring etc.. ID to make him come back and pay you or such. If the bouncers did not help.

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    that's exactly why I don't like using lines like "you want to keep going right?' as a way to get more dances, cause I'm just too scared I'll end up not getting the whole amount. I always specifically ask and if I'm not sure if they really said yes I ask twice, I guess I just don't want the trouble. I've had rip off guys before, but always for $20 dances and I always got the bouncer to get it.

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    I had a professional ball player walk on out 50$.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ivygirl View Post
    I had a professional ball player walk on out 50$.
    LOL that's sad

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    I only get ripped off when I dance for drunk guys, on nightshift. One of the reasons I don't work nightshifts anymore

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kisca View Post
    Also one girl was telling me, if something like that happens. take anything of theirs of value, watch, cellphone, ring etc.. ID to make him come back and pay you or such. If the bouncers did not help.
    Good idea. One time a stupid little punk did not pay me for 3 songs. I grabbed his glasses off of his head and told the manager. His friends wound up paying and I gave the manager the dumb little punks glasses to give back.
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    I've been ripped off a couple of times.
    Last time was YEARS ago but it was stupid funny money and the guy said he paid with his credit card and the waitress had my money. Liar. 900 bucks he ripped me off for. I hope he gets cancer that eats his insides.
    Second time was not long ago and the guy just refused to pay me for dances because I wouldn't go out with him. Sorry man, not a dating service! He refused to pay me the 40 bucks he owed me and walked out. funny, I ran into him at a nightclub one night and gave him the look of death. He totally freaked out and "smoke bombed" Couldn't find his sorry ass.
    I get hagglers ALL THE TIME, guys who try to give you less because they're "so cool and they'd cut me a deal if they danced for me" umm no, you're broke and also corny as f*ck so pay me.
    In the words of "Goodfellas": F*CK YOU, PAY ME.

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    I had this happen once. I was dancing for a guy and I asked if he wanted another. He said yes so I did one more.
    I had already explained that dances were $25 each when I first sat with him.

    Anyways, when the second dance was over I told him he owed me $50. He actually said " I owe you 25, you asked me if I wanted another and I said yes but you never said I had to pay you for it"

    Then he called me sneaky and conniving and said I tried to rip him off because that's what all strippers do. He also said I must not be too smart but that he was in university so he was obviously smarter than me ( I'm a student as well)

    My 6'5 manager came by and told him to pay me and he ran out ( he tried to exit through a door that doesn't even open anymore and has a board across it before finding the right door haha)

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    Wow It's amazing how ignorant ROG's are. lmao
    We could put these stories together and do a show called ----Americas Dumbest ROG's.
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    9 times out of 10 I will make the guy pay first. And I always make them pay towards the end of the night when they're drunk and probably don't have any $ left.
    The only way I keep doing dances is if I saw in his wallet that he HAS the $.
    But i do like the idea of taking something they value if they don't have the cash. Bastards.

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