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    Hey girls, I have been a lurker on this site for forever!! I just never realized there was Other Work section! I have been camming for about a year with NNC/NAC. I have a 2 year old that doesn't sleep threw the night so.. I never really got on a lot. Therefor never got promoted to CWH. Once I read more into the camming industry I see there is money other places also...I finally put my son into daycare so now I can cam during the day. I cant do nights still though :/. I am making next to nothing with traffic and guys that just want to chat. My dad passed away a couple months ago it was out of no where he had no life insurance nothing and money is very tight close to nothing and I have to now pay couple bills he used to help me out with and help my mom out with $$. I know you girls have secrets that might not want all to know so I beg that if don't want to publish help to me in a open forum PM me on here. I tried MFC yesterday during the day.. and well.. had 30-35 guys in my room but mostly basics and I made like 10$ in tips. (WTF!?) I tend to not be that good in free type chats, I dont come of bitchy but kinda boring but I think the guys think im easy.. I know I am not ugly girl, I am blonde , almost porn star looking LOL but I feel maybe I am just not camming at the right places, or the right places that have a lot of guys on during the day. I know I have the potential. What do you guys advise?? Any suggestions where I might fit in best?

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    Also I know its not the quality of my webcam i use the Logitech Pro 9000 one :/

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    Your problem: You're relying on the sites's traffic. You can't do that. Successful camgirls promote themselves. I can't tell you anything that has not been posted already HERE on sw. You need to search the threads and read all you can.

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    Hi Tara! You might need to promote yourself outside of these web cam sites. Do you have a blog? Do you have a Twitter Page? What about Facebook? Or even a YouTube Channel? The web cam sites do a good job of driving traffic to the site, but you need to be proactive in driving traffic to your room. Also in regards to free chat don't be so talkative. This might be your problem. Be friendly and approachable, but never spend more than one sentence or two on each guy that comes into your free chat. You are an attractive lady and all men should be paying top dollar for you to even recognize their existence. Free chat caters to the wanker crowd. Wankers never spend money. They are always looking to get off for free. The men who will take you private will not even waste your time in free chat. They'll just take you private. That's why you should never waste too much time and energy on the wankers. I hope all of this helps. I'm sure the other ladies will have more advice for you. Feel free to PM me if you'd like.

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    Malaya, girl did you notice that you and I offered the same advice at the same time. Nigerian girls RULE!!!

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    you girls are def right.. i have been starting to promote myself (twitter, promo vids, cwh blog (but i need to make my own blog)).. the only problem I just dont think maybe I am promoting myself for the right place at the moment? (NNC) And your right I may be saying too much or maybe even moving around too much for free chat, I will give that a try today and see how it goes @ MFC and EricaErotica for the compliment I must admit your a hottie also

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    Hi Tara! Also you might want to consider sites that do not have free chat. Some girls are good at hustling shows and others are not. And still other girls need to learn to hustle shows. You need to figure out which type of girl you are. If you are not good at hustling shows you can still make money in this game. You will just need to rely on self-promotion and sites that let you park it in nude chat and not waste time with motherfucking wankers. (Excuse my French!!! )

    Also sweetheart make your self interesting. I know that you are blond and have the porn star look going on, but don't kid yourself into thinking that this will get guys interested in buying your shows.

    I myself am African American (actually my parents are Nigerian). I am pretty attractive, but I am not the most beautiful woman or the most beautiful black woman in the world. But you know what Sweetheart? If you and I were in a club or bar I would have all of the white boys kissing my ass and buying my drinks before you probably could.

    I have NEVER been out with a black man. My husband is European in fact. People tell me all day that white boys don't like black women. They like blond Barbie dolls. Well, I attract white boys and have been since I was 12 years old.

    I drip sensuality and sex appeal. That's me in my avatar. But more than that I am interesting and highly educated. I can talk shop with lawyers, doctors, politicians, accountants, etc.

    I'm not your average woman. So my advice to you is stop being average. Make yourself interesting and unique. This is a personality driven industry. The girls who exude personality and charm will do the best. We are all in the sex game but the girls who will succeed at this are the ones that realize at the end of the day these men might be paying for sex but they are looking for companionship. Go online there are a million and one naked chicks everywhere. Seeing you naked is nothing special. He can see naked chicks for free on any of the free porn sites.

    These men are looking for a woman who they can relate to and who can relate to them. This is where the money is in the sex game. The girls who can attract the guys to spend hours a day or week with them. So think about your style and approach think about how you are different and interesting. Use these qualities to make bank, girl.

    I hope I do not sound harsh. I am honest to a fault. It irks me when girls think that being hot is enough to make them successful in the sex game. IT IS NOT!!!!

    That's all for now, folks!

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    Thanks Tara for the compliment!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ericaerotica View Post
    hi tara! You might need to promote yourself outside of these web cam sites. Do you have a blog? Do you have a twitter page? What about facebook? Or even a youtube channel? The web cam sites do a good job of driving traffic to the site, but you need to be proactive in driving traffic to your room. Also in regards to free chat don't be so talkative. This might be your problem. Be friendly and approachable, but never spend more than one sentence or two on each guy that comes into your free chat. You are an attractive lady and all men should be paying top dollar for you to even recognize their existence. Free chat caters to the wanker crowd. Wankers never spend money. They are always looking to get off for free. The men who will take you private will not even waste your time in free chat. They'll just take you private. That's why you should never waste too much time and energy on the wankers. I hope all of this helps. I'm sure the other ladies will have more advice for you. Feel free to pm me if you'd like.
    this. Right. Here ^^^^^ +10

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    no offense taken! I agree beauty enough is not enough to suck the $$ out of the guys personality and ability to hustle and talk is. I have decent personality but i can't hustle and talk anything out of guys. I am too nice at times. Im thinking about selling clips on the side, my goal would be to open up my own website and get guys to pay for memberships or shows off there, but I do not have much $$ to invest in it making a site just yet. I am still getting used to my free time now that my sons is in daycare I had him home all the time for 2 years, my big issue is obviously at 200$ a week daycare i dont have much time to waste (aka wankers on MFC ) I look forward to staying in this forum and chatting with all you

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    Quote Originally Posted by EricaErotica View Post
    Malaya, girl did you notice that you and I offered the same advice at the same time. Nigerian girls RULE!!!

    Hell yeah!!!! You know it!

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    btw im Serina on MFC and LoveTara on ICGIRLS/NNC

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    jUST ACT LIKE YOUR A CELEBRITY.... YOUR HUSTLE WILL START TO COME...HAHAHAHA

    i REALLY WAKE UP AS IF EVERYBODY HEARD OF ME...IM SO FULL OF MYSELF THAT IT WORKS (FOR ME)!

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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyplayground View Post
    jUST ACT LIKE YOUR A CELEBRITY.... YOUR HUSTLE WILL START TO COME...HAHAHAHA

    i REALLY WAKE UP AS IF EVERYBODY HEARD OF ME...IM SO FULL OF MYSELF THAT IT WORKS (FOR ME)!
    Damn good advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveTara View Post
    no offense taken! I agree beauty enough is not enough to suck the $$ out of the guys personality and ability to hustle and talk is. I have decent personality but i can't hustle and talk anything out of guys. I am too nice at times. Im thinking about selling clips on the side, my goal would be to open up my own website and get guys to pay for memberships or shows off there, but I do not have much $$ to invest in it making a site just yet. I am still getting used to my free time now that my sons is in daycare I had him home all the time for 2 years, my big issue is obviously at 200$ a week daycare i dont have much time to waste (aka wankers on MFC ) I look forward to staying in this forum and chatting with all you
    If you wanna sell clips on the side, that's cool because you also mentioned you wanted a site. If you create content regularly ( about 1 or twice a week), you will have a very decent amount of content for your viewers when u start it up!

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    My advice would be to just stick it out. Choose a few diff sites, and see what works for you. But put in the hours, because since you've said you haven't really put in a ton of time because of your son, now that he's away from the house, spend lots of time on cam because gaining a loyal fanbase takes time. Once guys know where and when they can see you, they'll come back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by spexyashleigh View Post
    My advice would be to just stick it out. Choose a few diff sites, and see what works for you. But put in the hours, because since you've said you haven't really put in a ton of time because of your son, now that he's away from the house, spend lots of time on cam because gaining a loyal fanbase takes time. Once guys know where and when they can see you, they'll come back.

    I don't mean to hijack the thread at all, but I recently also started on mfc
    Did you find that if you stuck it out you eventually managed to get regulars that stayed around, because so far for me it has been a lot of people in and out. I welcome people and talk when people talk back and conversate, but I've had a couple of people come in complaining that I don't talk, when not one person has even said "hello" in the first place themselves? I don't sit and look bored, I welcome the room, I keep it varied, but I'm not about to start a monologue for these guys, that's not what I'm there for. I'm pretty experienced in camming, but new to mfc.

    So far it just seems to be mainly rude people stating how I won't last because I'm not doing a), b) or c), in their opinion.

    I'm wondering if it just takes time to get the regulars that can help you support your room, or if you don't end up making a break for the top few rows in your first week, you're stuck in the depths of the freeloaders and it's not really going to work out for you $-wise..?

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    Hi!
    I've worked on MFC myself for maybe 3 or so months and I haven't been on recently.. probably because I just can't take it anymore.
    However, I did decently well there. My secret is be nice to everyone.. and I started to have regulars and people who were crazy crushing on me and spending a lot.
    Sadly I can't do that anymore because I am an impatient person lol and there is so much competition on there now. My methods may work for some people not all I've seen loud spoken girls on there and did very well for themselves too. Do whatever you feel comfortable doing! Goodluck!

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    How far down on the list do they put new models on MFC?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yuki* View Post
    How far down on the list do they put new models on MFC?

    Not too far, every new model starts with a camscore of 1000 just scroll down and check what people's camscore are and if it's around 1000 thats where the new models start. =)

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