This guy always comes in to see me, but he is a selfish prick and I kind of hate him, but don't have the heart to tell him. I am nice to him as always. But I say he is selfish because he'll try to suck out as much of my time with him (just sitting and chatting) on the main floor as possible, and then do four dances for $100, and in fact he wouldn't mind at all if I were to spend the whole entire 6 hours with him and only make $100. I always have to remind him after an hour (even two hours when it is slow) or so (I should do this after half an hour!) that we need to do dances and I need to keep moving along. Most guys who are considerate regulars will know that they need to do something after a certain amount of time, but this guy doesn't. ALSO a huge deal is that he pulls my hair during dances (I HATE IT and I feel like I'm already losing a great amount of hair on a daily basis because it is long and I refuse to cut it), and he tries to stick his finger up my bum.
The more I type the more I am hating him. I hate it when guys try to violate my boundaries but its also my fault for not punching in the face when he does it.
Also I email him almost every day. I am sick of it.
I can make so much more money without him around. In fact I try not to have regs because they just suck your energy out.
Other guys I randomly do dances with don't try to pull my hair or finger my butt or anything like that! Also less talk time.
But on the other hand, he is a really really nice guy, easy to talk to and makes me feel comfortable and I can say whatever I want around and with him.
However, he is determined to meet me outside of the club and is very prying into my personal life/personality, and wants to know more even though I tell him plenty.
How do I tell him that I hate him. He wants to know my schedule for the week. And am I wrong or is he a jerk. He is like in love with me too.




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