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    I'm just curious how you girls are with new girls?
    Do you welcome them?
    Help them out?
    Or just ignore them?

    I can see at a bigger club just not caring because it's like a revolving door, but for the smaller more "family type" of club, how are you with new girls?

    My favorite clubs have always been where the girls welcomed me. Introduced themselves to me. Came up and tipped me on stage to make me feel more comfortable.
    I always try to do the same, just because I know how scary it is being the new girl.


    Soooo....how are you with new girls?

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    The club I work at now, is small, so mostly every girl knows everyone. Most girls ignore the new girl.. well they dont ignore but just dont bother noticing or asking. I dont usually bother them either, unless they ask me for help or know their new and feel uneasy.

    We only had one new girl that was actually new to stripping, The manager mentioned to me she was new, so I went to talk to her cause she looked uneasy... and I feel bad for her cause this girl is like... a damn zombie on stage.. she slouches, trips, drools, doesnt smile, her arms wave loosly and her egs are always bent. She went on stage the first time, our dj, manager, bouncers, mostly ever girl was laughing w/o trying to show it, then one girl told her she sucked.. and the new girl thought she was good. She comes back a week later, and goes on with another dance, a few of us tried to give her tips on how to look better on stage... hopefuy she took them

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    I'm always polite and welcome new girls. Hey we're all in this together and doing it for the same reason ... $$$$

    But as for me when I'm at a new club ... I prefer girls to leave me alone ... just don't be a bitch. I like being corgial ... smile, say hello ... but I don't like anyone asking me questions such as; where I'm from, how long I've been dancing, what other clubs have I worked, blah blah blah. WTF?! Is this an interview? I'm here to work and make $$. I'm not here to make friends. I like to keep things professional.

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    Well you know how I am with new girls _Avery_...LOL. I can't even imagine being a new girl. Strippers are scary people!! Which is why I've stuck at this club my whole dancing career.

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    Generally it happens one of two ways:

    1.) If the girl is brand new sometimes either the manager or another dancer ends up telling her to talk to me. In that scenario I end up losing a few hours making money to do "training". Basically I prep them up before the first time they go on stage, give them a lap dance so they get an idea of what other girls do, & give them a few opening lines for talking to customers.

    2.) She'll come into the dressing room & I'll say hello, introduce myself, ask her for her name, & ask if she's danced before. If she says she's brand new I'll tell her if she has any questions she can ask me. If she says she's an established dancer then I wish her good luck that night, & I head back to the club floor.
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    I just ignore em.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Well you know how I am with new girls _Avery_...LOL. I can't even imagine being a new girl. Strippers are scary people!! Which is why I've stuck at this club my whole dancing career.
    and I appreciate that!
    I'm so glad you were there, because I think it might've been different if you weren't.

    There was a new girl a few weeks ago and I felt bad because everyone was laughing at her on stage.
    She was a thicker girl, and wore Bridgette's dress...so it wasn't the most flattering. I would've let her borrow something, but at the time, I didn't have much.

    Wednesday night, there was another new girl and all the girls seemed to like her. They all went and tipped her on stage. Let her borrow stuff....so it's just weird some girls are accepted, some aren't. *shrugs*

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    That's just life ... some people are accepted, some are not ... some are nice, some are not ... and so on and so forth. Why? I just is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    and I appreciate that!
    I'm so glad you were there, because I think it might've been different if you weren't.

    There was a new girl a few weeks ago and I felt bad because everyone was laughing at her on stage.
    She was a thicker girl, and wore Bridgette's dress...so it wasn't the most flattering. I would've let her borrow something, but at the time, I didn't have much.

    Wednesday night, there was another new girl and all the girls seemed to like her. They all went and tipped her on stage. Let her borrow stuff....so it's just weird some girls are accepted, some aren't. *shrugs*

    Unfortunately, we do tend to chase out girls that aren't attractive in some way... I guess it keeps the club looking good?? Shallow, I know.

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    At my home club new girls used to get welcomed by the club and some of the home girls would always be really nice to them starting out. Anymore though they hire sooo many the club just ignores them, doesn't go over any rules or anything and unless they came with somebody they pretty much get ignored by everybody. Many clubs have recently been shut down at least temporarily (this year) so we had tons of girls come through, some really extra-dirty, and I think everybody just got a distaste for the new girls...

    We used to have a real "family-home" feel and now we have 3-4x more girls and lots of drama, stealing, and extras. =< poo

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Unfortunately, we do tend to chase out girls that aren't attractive in some way... I guess it keeps the club looking good?? Shallow, I know.

    ^^^ I always thought it was just the opposite... it seems like house dancers try to chase out the hotter looking girls because they are more of a threat to everyone's money.
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    I will say that my favourite clubs to work are clubs where I already know one, or a few, of the dancers... or brand new clubs where everyone becomes friends at the same time. I really don't like being the new girl at a club... even though with traveling it's pretty common.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    ^^^ I always thought it was just the opposite... it seems like house dancers try to chase out the hotter looking girls because they are more of a threat to everyone's money.
    haha I guess we just look at it like, the more hotter our girls are the more customers will come back...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    I will say that my favourite clubs to work are clubs where I already know one, or a few, of the dancers... or brand new clubs where everyone becomes friends at the same time. I really don't like being the new girl at a club... even though with traveling it's pretty common.
    I'm the same way. I hate being the new girl and feeling all alone.
    Which is why I was at my last club for so long.
    I'll stay at a club I'm comfortable at as long as possible. Even if the money sucks.
    Luckily, I'm getting more comfortable with the club I'm at now and the money is good. (Except for this week...lol)

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    I'm the new girl now, but for some reason they are curious about me. I've had girls randomly stroke my hair and ask if its a wig, or when I was eating sushi the other day they were fascinated that I was using chopsticks. :shrugging:
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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    I'm just curious how you girls are with new girls?
    Do you welcome them? Help them out? Or just ignore them? Soooo....how are you with new girls?
    I just ignore them, but that's what I do to everybody there. I come alone, I leave alone, and I work alone. I like to stay focused and keep to myself. It's drama-free that way...

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    I pretty much ignore new girls. I'll introduce myself, shake their hands, but that's where our paths split. I go to work to make money for myself. And with this recession, I'm sick of seeing so many new girls...so I don't expend any energy making them feel comfortable anymore. I'm not mean or anything; just ambivalent.

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    At my club (especially day shift girls!) are either pretty hostile to new girls or completely ignore them.

    I usually don't bother to introduce myself to new girls and make them feel welcome (but I'm not a bitch to them either; if they are asking for my help or advice I'll usually help them out).

    If they're cute, than I am MOOORE that happy to help them out I try to make them feel very welcome then.

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    I treat new girls the same as all other girls. I'm always friendly, make small talk in the dressing room or when it's dead, but I never get close.

    I am always pleasant and open to a few questions though. When I started, most of the girls made it a point to ignore me, or give me death stares, so I try not to be like that.

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    There's a few new ones at my work. We all hang out together sometimes, the new ones and us house gals. For the most part I like befriending them

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    i like new girls as they have less of an ego and they're generally seeking approval and acceptance. i hate girls with huge bitchy egos. i will be nice to new girls. i just like nice people. i'll be nice to anyone who is nice and doesn't seem cocky.

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    I tend to be cordial / nice ... but not overly attentive or taking a lot of time. Since I'm often the new girl ...I prefer the same approach too ( when girls are nice but have sort of a live and let live way of doing things ). I always sort of expect girls to just be bitches and am surprised when 95% of the time they aren't ! Then when I meet the the bitchy ones its just like ... see ... some strippers are bitches !

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    I'm always polite. I've worked at smaller clubs where the girls were absolutely vicious.




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    I'm polite and friendly. But I don't go out of my way to be nice anymore. Can't be bothered since there's too many. Right now we have a few that I really don't think belong at our club. Too trashy and not polished enough. I'm ignoring them and hoping my boss cans them before we get a bad rep for having ugly chicks.

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    ^^ That is so true. My old club used to be packed and was booking pornstars and features in the 90's in Toronto. It slowly went right downhill to the point that that ANYONE could get a job there. In the end many guys would walk in check out the girls and walk right out.

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