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    Ive been working at every club in my area trying to find one i like or feel comfortable at. Tonight I went into a new club I had started. It was very high contact but ignored it all my first night and just made money.

    Tonight however, i saw something i couldn't ignore. It was early in the evening and there weren't many customers. Sitting in a chair minding my own business, i look to my left and see a girl giving a bj on one of the couches to some nasty old man. This was not in a private area, it was in on the main floor where anyone could see. I went to the manager and told him what happened. I said "if u don't believe me check the cameras"....yes there were even cameras in this club.

    So the manager tries to tell me he didn't see anything, and that i would have to file a complaint w/the corporate office. I was stunned, why the fuck do they have cameras if they're not even watching them?? The girl was clearly giving a bj i even walked by and saw it for myself. The floor guys didn't do anything either.

    Then I went downstairs to get dressed bc at this point im fucking leaving, and some ghetto bitch says that I should "get off my high horse" bc some girls need to do whatever to make $$ and i should just ignore it. I told her im not that desperate, went upstairs and demanded my house fee back.

    I then drove back to my old no contact club and started working that night. The saddest part was, the couch dances were only $20.

    I was wondering if this happened to anyone what would u do in that situation? Do u think i shouldve just ignored it?

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    ^^^ I think you did the right thing on all counts. Sorry you had to go through that though.
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    a 'sign of the times' ... unfortunately. The club manager obviously knows that the club ... and perhaps himself as well ... are indirectly profiting from girls who are performing blatant 'extras'.

    Things are getting pretty bad when a customer won't even pony up an extra $50 - $100 or whatever to move that s$!t to a pravate area. But things are getting really bad when the club manager allows blatant 'extras' to be performed in the main club area ... which potentially puts every dancer at risk of a bust, and potentially creates customer expectations that every dancer in the club should deliver the same 'extras' they can see happening.

    The only thing that you did 'wrong' was bothering to talk to the club manager about this - based on the assumption that he didn't actually know that blatant 'extras' were taking place in his club, and based on the further assumption that he would put a stop to those blatant 'extras' if he did know. However, unless the club manager has brain damage, he already knows, and he is also probably collecting payola from the dancers doing blatant 'extras'.

    Welcome to the 'new normal' for profitable 'middle class' strip clubs !

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    That turns my fucking stomach! You did the right thing honey! And NO, you shouldn't have ignored it! If that other dirty ass skanky stripper wants to ignore it and work under those conditions then so be it. I can't see your face in your avatar but what I can see you're smoking hot! And you deserve to be in an awesome club! I understand that there may not be that many club opportunities in your area ... been going through that myself while I've been on the road and trying to find a place to call home. All I can advise you is to go through the club scene again ... maybe a club that you thought was not a possibility will turn out to be a great club for you. GOOD LUCK!

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    I feel u on this one. I remember at my old club I was giving this guy a set of three nude dances and his friend went with this other asian girl. Mind you, I am asian too. I was doing my dances, half way through I turn around I see the other dancer giving a full out blowjob to his friend. His hands were all over her, such a disgusting site. I had to shield my guy from seeing this. By the end of the three dances, he hands me $150 and as I got dressed the other nasty dancer got paid too. But she got handed a fifty dollar bill. All that for fifty dollars! My guy comes back and asks can he get that same deal as his friend did. He thought since we were both asian we would do the same gig. Sooo wrong! To be honest she didn't didn't need to do that to make money. Where the club was it be lucky if they ever had an asian girl. So I told him to go to other dancer and he did. As soon as I left, some guy approachs me for another dance. When I get back there, sadly to see she's giving my guy the blowjob. Oh there's no curtains to protect anyones eyes. So sad and so disgusted!

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    You did the right thing leaving that club, I went to a club on Friday and left after half hour because it was really dirty and I felt unsafe, theres no way I'd stay in a place like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    So the manager tries to tell me he didn't see anything, and that i would have to file a complaint w/the corporate office. I was stunned, why the fuck do they have cameras if they're not even watching them?? The girl was clearly giving a bj i even walked by and saw it for myself. The floor guys didn't do anything either.
    Or file a complaint at the police station & let them know you witnessed this first hand.

    I agree... go back to the no contact club!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    Or file a complaint at the police station & let them know you witnessed this first hand.

    I agree... go back to the no contact club!
    I was thinking about that but Im not sure they would take me seriously. The thing that really bothers me is that they have cameras, I mean dont they know that if they were raided all that shit would be on tape??

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    ^^^ I would be letting the police know the manager re-played the tape in the office too. It's just more incentive to report it!
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    in theory, i agree with contacting the police about this. in practice, it's a bit different. the thing is, if you report it and the club gets busted, dancers are going to have to go somewhere. then the guys who are used to just getting dances at your club will get more offers of extras, so they'll start expecting that instead of dances.
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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    in theory, i agree with contacting the police about this. in practice, it's a bit different. the thing is, if you report it and the club gets busted, dancers are going to have to go somewhere. then the guys who are used to just getting dances at your club will get more offers of extras, so they'll start expecting that instead of dances.
    ^^^ this. It's why I havent called a.l.e. on another club here in town; I sure as Hell don't want to see those nasty fucking whores at my club.

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    Sorry you had to go through that. I agree, you did the right thing. He's not only collecting money from the whores that give bjs, he has them service him as well. That's generally how those types of managers are. Its a good thing you quit too. If you hadn't, he would have expected the same from you sooner or later.

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    I think you did the right thing to leave. I remember in my old club I brought a guy into the VIP and we were really quiet. Then we heard a lady moaning, I looked over and there was a dancer having sex with a customer (she didnt know we were there). The management seemed to know about the extras but didnt do anything.
    Another night I asked a customer if he wanted a dance and he said he wanted the full shebang; then my friend asks him if he wants a dance, and again he said he wanted sex. I watched as he turned down loads of girls. Then I saw him talking to a girl - who then goes and asks the manager if he can turn down the lights in the VIP, to which he said yes. I overheard this and told the manager that that guy only wanted sex and thats why the lights needed to be turned down. Anyway the manager didnt seem to care and he just said she probably needed the lights low because she didnt shave!!!! Needless to say the club went downhill. The only time they seemed to check the cctv was to see if we took our clothes off onstage.
    Extras seem to be the norm in my city, and I wouldn't involve the police. I trust very few people with my information and address especially the cops.

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    Gross. I'm so sorry !

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    Since I live in Miami, I have to tolerate working in extras clubs, but that should be behind closed doors if anything. What you girls said is sooo gross! What's wrong with that guy who's getting a BJ in public? Ewww.... and again, if you're gonna do it do it for some real $$$. People are just stupid.

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    Definately the right thing you did, but unfortunately there arent many clean clubs anymore, and real exotic dancing has been desecrated. Such extras never belong in a public place anyway, whether a strip club or a strip mall.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post

    How do they even keep themselves protected from STDs? Do they put a condom over the guy's dick like escorts do or do they just . . .not care? And what do they do if the guy comes in their mouth? I'm seriously feeling sick just writing about it. I won't even let my husband cum in my mouth.
    I guarantee she was a drug addict and probably doesnt care about STDs or anything else except getting high. Im just happy im not that desperate!!!

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    Thats disgusting!!!! Deff the manager knew.. they know whos what or that. She probably gives him a nice tip at the end. His loss and her loss, in the end something will happen to them, or the club will be closed done or fined.

    I deff think you did the right thing. You let the manager know, it is illegal.. and THERE in public.. ugh! But he decided not to do anything against it. You did what you could, and I think you it was 100% good to leave.. if you saw that then.. who knew what you would see on a busier night? Ughh.. soo gross.

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    Some places don't have cameras but say they do.

    If girls need to give blow jobs to make money why would they pay house fee when they could be working for themselves?

    Totally stupid if you ask me.




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