Sugar babies are companions that cleverly lead men on. Some have sex with men in which case to me that crosses the line into escorting.
Escorts are straight up sex for a fixed fee.




Sugar babies are companions that cleverly lead men on. Some have sex with men in which case to me that crosses the line into escorting.
Escorts are straight up sex for a fixed fee.




I had one that could have become a longer term one, and didn't demand sex. But I didn't want to do that to him, he's a lonely widower. He paid me money in the club, out several nights, took me on a trip, and paid me to "escort" him to social events. It was truly a no-sex deal. I even made him get separate rooms on the trip except for one in once, where the hotel was booked up, and we had to stay there for a wedding. 2 beds at least. Plus, he annoyed the crap out of me, so I didn't think I could deal with all the talking. The other SD, I had sex with, but he def. started out as a john.
So, it can go either way...but the ones that don't expect sex will have much higher emotional neediness. Sometimes its better to just go ahead and have the sexual relationship, so at least he understands that he is getting something for his money.
But yes, its technically escorting, who cares. Very improbably risk of bust because this agreement happens over some time and getting to know one another I'm pretty sure vice are looking to bust low-hanging fruit.




Really who cares enough to technically classify the shit? C'mon. Just say an escort/prostitute bangs multiple random men and a sugarbaby bangs someone who is like fuck buddy....and I've been courted by men who are in their early twenties. I really feel like only ugly chicks or old chicks...maybe even fat chicks are the only ones who care enough to get technical with this shit.
I'M A HUSTLA HOMIE!!!





1. You are sugarcoating it.
2. Sugarbabies just don't see ONE man. Some do but most don't.
3.) I have already copied and pasted the definition of escorts/sugarbaby in an earlier post so as you can see it is THE SAME DAMN THING.
4.) "Only ugly chicks or old chicks.. maybe even fat chicks are the only ones who care enough to get technical with this shit"
a. If it upset you that much then why did you post? As an escort, I get technical with it because this is my job. I have friends that are sugarbabies that DO EXACTLY THE SAME THING I DO but they get the short end of the stick because like I said being a sugarbaby is TIME CONSUMING (I have done both) We also get technical with it because this is SW noone forced you to click on the link and read this thread you did THAT SHIT on your own. If you're fucking for money and gifts, you're a professional ho! That's the bottom line.
b. I have my pictures all over sw's picture post section. I am 21 years old measurements 38d-24-34 and damn good looking. so I guess that excludes me from "old" "ugly" and "fat" PLUS I am a luxury companion/ escort, I doubt men will pay big bucks to fuck/hangout with me if I was "ugly". What's ugly is your attitude!
Oh and the other ladies that have commented.. I've seen their pics too and they're far from "ugly"!
Yes I am a professional ho. Anyone that fucks for money whether it's one man or 4 men or 20 men is a professional hoe. Sex for money is prostitution.. do you get it now?
Some people need to grow a brain and stop being naive. This is Stripper web not Sesame Street!
Gotta love angry people!





LMFAO! "I have been courted by men who are in their early twenties".. You're kidding me. You're so funny. So have I, but what was your point? Though I make it a known thing on my website that I will NOT see guys under 35 years old. My 21, 23 year old men were well behaved boys but I prefer to stick to older guys. You sound so naive my dear. Who gets technical with this shit? I've already explained that to you. Just remember smart people get technical. This is just what we do. We have brains so we think we analyze shit.. those that are PAID or trying to get PAID get technical just FYI so don't talk out of your ass. When you post, Post like you have a brain.
Anyone that has sex for money is a professional hoe/escort/hooker. Like I explained earlier, I know an Independent escort that has a 12 hour minimum date requirement at $8,000 per date. If she fucks 10 guys a year thats 80k a year. Is she a sugarbaby or an escort? She is a fucking escort. She advertises and men email her to see her. A chick meets a guy for Lunch at the Cheesecake Factory. They eat, have a little chat.. he takes her shopping afterwards then he takes her to his place and fucks her. Is she a sugarbaby or an escort? Neither. An escort advertises.. she didn't advertise to find him. She's not a sugarbaby because she fucked him. She's a prostitute.
Definitions.. AGAIN!
Prostitution is the act or practice of providing sexual services to another person in return for payment. People who execute such activities are called prostitutes.
A call girl or escort is a , who, (unlike a ), is not visible to the general public. Nor does she usually belong to an institution like a , although she may be employed by an . The client must make an appointment, usually by calling a . To assist with the security and potential health risks of this profession, some escort services offer assistance and information to those interested in becoming escorts, themselves.[]
Call girls often advertise their services in small ads in magazines and via the Internet, although an intermediary advertiser, such as an escort agency, may be involved in promoting more escorts. The less upmarket side of escorts may be handled by a . Call girls may work either incall, where the client comes to them, or outcall, where they go to the client.
Sugarbaby- a woman who provides companionship and/or sexual relations for a wealthy, older man in exchange for expensive gifts and/or money; a "gold digger"
Yes I will always get "Technical". This is why I have a brain and why I have been so successful a high end Independent escort. Those that don't' get technical are dumb and can't think especially when it comes to something like this because your post was .. telling. You can always look into non sexual escorting if you want to be a true sugarbaby. f'ing amazing!

Stripper Hacks, Malaya and Kylea2: Nice to see we have some smart ladies on the board. I follow everything you all post.

I had a sugar daddy once. There was NO sex involved AT ALL. I was a single mom and he just wanted to help me out financially. I was a week away from getting a new car when he got locked up and charged with murder. (It sounds kinda funny now,but then it wasn't. Freaked me the fuck out!!)
"Don't depend on me to follow through on anything....but I'd go through hell for you."





I too get technical and I've never been fat, ugly, or any of the other adjectives applied to people. I've been a stripper and a social escort but have never been (or have any inclination to do) escorting for sex. I don't look down on high class escorts, I just have no interest in doing this. I always tell people I never had sex for money only to stress I was a stripper, model but that's where it ends.
You bring up a point that I will often say to my friends that will tell me being a social escort or a stripper means being a hooker. One friend used to ask how I could be so "slutty" and take off my clothes for guys. I would tell her that she had no room to talk because while she never did anything in the adult industry, she would often sleep with a guy who bought her dinner. She once slept with a guy who bought her a necklace. Who's the hooker here, me or her? She hated that comparison but really true. Many of the same women looking down their noses at girls who work in the industry (whether it's sleeping with customers or not) sleep with men who buy them things which often makes them bigger hookers than those who truly are escorts.
Incidentally, I don't sleep with any guy right now whether one would buy me things or not. I've never slept with a guy because he bought me things. Maybe it's me but I get men to buy me dinners and rarely did they expect anything from me. I respect myself far too much to have sex with a guy because he bought me things, unlike my friends who think hooking is "disgusting" but have no qualms about doing things to guys (some relative strangers) because they were nice to them by buying dinner.


Hi, I just want to add... have any of you heard of the site sugardaddie.com? It promotes relationships between men and women who are interested in a "sugardaddie/sugarbabe" relationship. Ever heard of sites like this? I haven't paid their monthly fee yet to communicate with senders but I'm thinking about it...









Yep, but to them they think it's different. Of course it is, many of these women are being used by guys who'll just go on to the next girl while escorts know the story. Escorts know these guys aren't their boyfriends, but the girls giving it up for free often assume they are.





Exactly Kelly! Women fuck for free everyday! Sure fucking your husband/boyfriend for free is all fine and dandy of course BUT I know women that actually go to the bar and find men to fuck just for the hell of it. I mean......... Am I missing something here... If anyone's gonna be a slut.. they might as well be a SAFE / paid one! As an escort I know my clients are married. Do I care? Hell no. This is why we demand such high rates.. they're really paying us to DO them and leave/not bother them.. LOL!






Every high class escort I knew was diligent when it came to condom use, even for oral. The women I know who give it up for free often aren't because "he looks clean". I lurk at various dating message boards and all these people who sleep with people early in dating (often as early as first date) is pretty scary. There are always posts saying "I'm now pregnant by my one night stand" or "I got a disease after dating a month". I've NEVER heard of this when it comes to escorts. I had a friend who would sleep with any guy who asked her (for free of course). I actually told her that if she's going to sleep around, why not make money and sleep with wealthy guys. Her excuse was that some of these guys loved her. Yeah right. Guys that truly love a woman will love her whether she sleeps with them or not.
I'm actually bothered by these women who sleep around because many guys think all women do (I've heard online dating has become more booty call than actual relationships). I'm not bothered at all by escorts because they are doing a job and they aren't my competition in the dating realm.


Interesting thread![]()
So with that being the case, I thought I would add my own definition. This comes straight out of my Black's Law Dictionary, Third Edition, 2006 , page 448
marriage of convenience. 1. A marriage entered into for social or financial advantages rather than out of mutual love. 2. Loosely, an illconsidered marriage that, at the time, is convenient for the parties involved.
HMMMMM.....now THAT's technical...I even listed my source![]()





That opens a lot because I know many people who married for reasons other than love. For instance a relative married a guy because she was getting up there in age (42) and wanted a baby. I don't think she really loved her husband and she met him after a rebound romance. I could definitely see myself marrying someone I don't love for many reasons. It's nice to have a marriage based on love, but the reality is quite different.





@ AustinRox and Kellydancer: Yes those women are prostitutes too! Very well said ladies!
Just because we choose totally diff things to care enough to get technical about doesn't mean you have the right to insult my intellegence,so yeah way to show yours :-/ my point is who cares when at the end of the day its all in one boat to an outsider looking in. When I said only fat or ugly chicks care enough to get technical I was reffering to the outsiders,ya know.....the ones who turn their noses up at it,I def wasn't talking abt the chicks who are on here unless it applies to you. Any ways thanks tricks for caring enough to get technical about my opinion,ZING. U chicks need to get fucked or something ha! Lighten the hell up
I'M A HUSTLA HOMIE!!!




... fact or myth.. women can never get along...





My sugardaddy is Uncle Sam; Uncle Sam doesn't want sex, but my life in exchange of free medical, dental and cheap college, and only wants to spend time with me every other weened, and two weeks every year because I was a good girl when I dedicated my whole time to Uncle Sam awhile ago.
However, if Uncle Sam feels that he needs me for a while, Uncle Sam would give more money and would take me away for an undefined time period...again.
Get it? Hahahahaha. In other words; when you sign that line, you become a bitch for a few years, but is not a bad thing.





This is a good way to explain a sugar daddy/baby relationship. I had a hard time explaining this to my none stripper friend who wants to sign up on seeking arrangements. But once you give up sex, it is prostitution. I tried telling her that & she didn't want to buy it. LOL.
Malaya has said it well. Why can't some girls accept that fact?
I agree that if you're casually fucking, might as well get paid good for it and be safe about it. If I were more into casual fking, i'd go this route. The thing is, for me personally it is hard to find someone who I am attracted to, safe, & would pay well. I couldn't do it with someone who I am not even semi attracted to. Yes, I want my cake & eat it too. LOL.
BTW, this thread should be in the "other work" section. Not stripping in general.



Hey Malaya here...
Umm..
Your "intellegence" ?? At least learn how to spell it. You're not as smart as you think. Reffering? It's referring sweetie. Your grammar really SUCKS! If you don't care about what we think then don't post. Obviously you could learn a thing or two from all of us.
I don't need to get fucked.. I do it for a living. I get enough sex my dear.
Agreed!
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