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    I am an option giver.... I have never been the type to tell someone they are going to get a dance or to grab a hand and pull them to VIP. But I do have a problem assuming a negative. Like a guy standing up I'll say" so you are gonna just stand there all night?" instead of " I know you would much rather come have fun with me than stand there all night". I know what I should be saying but at times when there are soooo many customers the real me just slips out. I have been getting better at giving options that make me money such as " are you ready for a dance on the floor or are we going straight to VIP"? But I would like to work on lines that assume the sale. Im aggresive with my target group but with other custies I sometimes lose my hustle a bit because in the back of my mind I feel like they probably wont spend anyway. How can I fix this?

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    maybe just a little mind trick on yourself- i"ve been doing this one the last week and it's been going REALLY well - when i approach i'm thinking that this guy is a special friend/customer of mine, how we're going to get along really well, almost like we're catching up again. it helps me to be friendly rather than seeing it as an agressive situation and every customer as a challenge, or going in defeated - "they won't spend anyway'. of course it doesn't always guarantee the sale but i have noticed it makes a real difference - by thinking we're already friends it makes the whole process somehow more natural and getting a dance feels subtly like a natural progression. it's been working for me!

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    Default Re: How to STOP this

    Quote Originally Posted by Pure View Post
    I am an option giver.... I have never been the type to tell someone they are going to get a dance or to grab a hand and pull them to VIP. But I do have a problem assuming a negative. Like a guy standing up I'll say" so you are gonna just stand there all night?" instead of " I know you would much rather come have fun with me than stand there all night". I know what I should be saying but at times when there are soooo many customers the real me just slips out. I have been getting better at giving options that make me money such as " are you ready for a dance on the floor or are we going straight to VIP"? But I would like to work on lines that assume the sale. Im aggresive with my target group but with other custies I sometimes lose my hustle a bit because in the back of my mind I feel like they probably wont spend anyway. How can I fix this?
    Story of my life! I also think 'oh, he won't like me anyways' just cause he's not my target group and I also have a big problem hustling those guys. I tend to be too friendly and carry on a regular conversation and then don't know how to conver tit back to dances. But just this week, I've been trying more of 'you look like you're ready for a dance now', either after I've been talking to them a little or not. Surprisingly it worked really well. I also noticed, the more you touch them, the better anything works. I am also anti-pushy and don't like the contact, but even a little shoulder rubbing helps, while asking. I also say: I give really dirty dances with a wink. I get why you might not wanna say that but it works really well for me because I look kinda innocent and classy so I need to somehow trick them into thinking they'll get their money's worth or something. Basically, always ask. You'd be surprised.. Hope I can help!

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