As title says, my boyfriend has a 'crush' on another woman. It's someone he works with (he works nights I should add) and I don't think it's serious or anything. He's leaving his job this week, so I know it won't go further than just a crush. I know he feels guilty about it, and keeps apologizing. I guess you can't help how you feel....*shrugs*
At first I was really upset, and now I'm just kinda weirded out, y'know? I've never really developed a 'crush' on another guy while I've been with my boyfriend; I've only ever wanted him. I mean, I find other guys hot, but I've never been attached to their personalities or anything. I don't think it's in me to feel anything romantic for more than one person at a time.
So; crushes while in a relationship? Does this happen to anyone else? Is it normal? I'm not sure what to think. I'm past being upset, and only a teensy bit jealous...mostly I'm just perplexed.
This is in The Lounge instead of life support because it's not really support I'm needing...it's personal anecdotes/opinions. What do you think about the situation?



*shrugs*
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