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    I find the worst thing you can do is promise something your not going to fullfill. It's beyond a hassle and may start problems for you. I recall a girl telling me a story not that long ago. She had never had a champagne room. That night she met a guy who was super grabby, drunk, and mildly rude. He told her he would be her first customer in the champagne room but he wanted a little extra. She said he was very vague about the "extras". When they had got in the room, I guess he wanted them right away. She declined and he punched her in the stomach. All the girls that heard the story had the same reaction. It wasn't pity for her but rather a "that's what you get attitude". Always being upfront while also being sexy is your best bet. If you can afford to say no to bullshit customers and focus more on the ones that want a "stripper" then you'll be far more profitable. Good Luck!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SamanthaLasVegas View Post
    I find the worst thing you can do is promise something your not going to fullfill. It's beyond a hassle and may start problems for you. I recall a girl telling me a story not that long ago. She had never had a champagne room. That night she met a guy who was super grabby, drunk, and mildly rude. He told her he would be her first customer in the champagne room but he wanted a little extra. She said he was very vague about the "extras". When they had got in the room, I guess he wanted them right away. She declined and he punched her in the stomach. All the girls that heard the story had the same reaction. It wasn't pity for her but rather a "that's what you get attitude". Always being upfront while also being sexy is your best bet. If you can afford to say no to bullshit customers and focus more on the ones that want a "stripper" then you'll be far more profitable. Good Luck!!!
    eek! that's scary. jeez I hope she at least got her money and the bouncers kicked his ass

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    Yeah she did and she decided not to tell the bouncers cause she was in the wrong herself. That's my point though, the club won't be on your side if your doing (for lack of a better phrase) "ho shit". You can't tell the bouncer, "well I promised I'd suck his dick and now I won't so we're fighting!" Trust me, you can do this job without promising things. You just have to lay it on him sweet and sexy but mildly stern so he knows who's really in control in the strip club and it's you!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    i posted a poll about this a while back and have gotten into quite a few arguments with blues about this, but i also lead them on. honestly, these guys will only spend money if they get extras and extras kill the business. the only girls who will be profiting off of them are extras girls or girls who lead them into believing they are extras girls. I dont want the extras girls making money and i dont want the custie getting extras, so i put myself in the second category.

    that being said, my other rule is i make sure anything i say passes what i call the "undercover cop test." if the customer was a cop, could you get in trouble for solicitation? if you do an outright bait and switch and say yes, if you buy this CR i will suck your dick, well you could be arrested. and thats a flat out lie and will rile the customer up. its best to skirt around the question while using body language that might indicate otherwise and to try to distract them from the specifics. or perhaps says something that you mean but say it in a sarcastic flirtatious tone of voice. i.e. "so what happens there?" "oh, nothing naughty or dirty*wink wink nudge nudge*" to make it sound like you are obviously joking about nothing naughty happening when in reality, well you will be dancing naked which is naughty and dirty in some books, but not doing anything that is actually dirty by SC standards. and then later when they call you out on it, like the other posters said, play stupid. get all wide eyed and be like "oh why would you think that? we dont do that at strip clubs. im soooo sorry i had no idea what you meant." or maybe just walk away laughing . whatever suits you best really.

    that being said, if you are ever backed into a situation with a customer who you really cannot lead on without being explicit, i would tell him to go fuck himself. if the only way for you to make a sale is to blatantly say "i will do ____" where ___ is something you do not provide and is against the law, dont say it. at best it is unquestionably bad ethics, at worst the customer will be an undercover to arrest you or a raging lunatic to go apeshit on you when you dont follow through.

    also, a word of caution- before doing anything that could piss off a customer, size them up first. leading a customer on, although you have never outright lied and smart customers wouldnt fall for it, will piss off a lot of customers. you dont want to find yourself trapped in an hour long private champagne room with the hulk...

    I am going to start doing this. I lost countless lap dances on friday because of the extras customers coming up to me and then finding one of the extras girls at my club. I was getting so pissed because it would happen at least once an hour then I'd see the extras girl sauntering off into the champagne room with the customer I had JUST talked to.

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    I'm pretty up front about it. It's not worth the emotional hassle of dealing with a handsy whiny fuckface. I choose to work in clubs where extras do NOT happen, or on days where extras are impossible to get away with.

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    I wish I could choose to work in clubs like that They don't exist where I live, unless you count the no-money mostly-stage bikini bars....

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    I have to laugh at the customers who say "so-and-so let me do this, that, the other thing." i don't do extras, never have. I usually just laugh at these guys and say something like "Yes well, she lets everyone do that, hope your fingers/lips/penis don't fall off" then walk away.

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    for private parties, we don't have set fees for lap dances, our motto is "the more green, the more obscene" and i generally do a whole song for $20, half a song if they give me $10, etc. if a guy asks me "what will x amount of money get me?" and has a look on his face that he's clearly insinuating for extras, i just smile and say " a reeeeeeally good lapdance!!" in a clueless voice. then i grab their money out of their hand, give it to my bouncer, and give them a lapdance lol. 9 times out of 10 they enjoy the lapdance and dont complain but if they bitch about it i just tell them that im a DANCER and if they wanted MORE THAN A DANCE they should have called someone else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    ^ i'd agree, but like athena said, if they don't waste their money on me, they'll probably end up finding a girl who'll give them what they're paying for. and i just don't believe in letting guys buy pussy in a stripclub. asshole tax.

    I will play stupid with them for a question or two & see if they proposition me to do something illegal. If they do, I walk away & tell the manager - who will remove them from the club.

    I've worked at clubs where guys like this weren't removed, & if I know that the club won't remove them I will go work at a different club.

    Athena's technique DOES work, but there is a gamble to it. I want them to know that even asking about extras will mean they are removed from the club. I'm with Christy... I don't play that game. I had something like 8 guys removed from the club one night. Don't BS me & don't come into a strip club asking for something beyond a striptease.
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    ^ i've told managers that and the managers brought a different girl over. lol. so in that case, i'd rather i get the money and he not get what he wants.
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    I say "I'm sorry, I only let the first three customers who ask to have sex with me cum inside me without a condom. First come, first serve, come back tomorrow".

    The look on their faces is priceless.
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    ^hahahaahhahahahah omg thats a good one. nice!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laurisa View Post
    I say "I'm sorry, I only let the first three customers who ask to have sex with me cum inside me without a condom. First come, first serve, come back tomorrow".

    The look on their faces is priceless.

    OMG! This is HYSTERICAL!

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    I love to take money from these guys.

    Whenever I'm getting asked for extras... I smile and say very slowly and clearly in a suggestive tone, "I give a VERY good... dance." Like... you know... so it's clear you don't mean a dance.
    For some reason... extras guys immediately assume this means I'll do whatever dirty thing they're asking. Then when they get mad... Well. You said you gave a very good dance. Nothing more than that. It's their own fault for misinterpreting what you said.

    That or if they buy a dance and THEN start asking for extras during the dance... I'll just say "Not for a xxx dance..." to get them to upgrade to something more expensive... and then make sure to get CR/VIP money up front for when they get mad and walk out.

    Or if someone says "Can I touch you?" I'll say "Can I have $50?" take the money... and continue to not let them touch me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    ^ i've told managers that and the managers brought a different girl over. lol. so in that case, i'd rather i get the money and he not get what he wants.
    I've NEVER had that happen. However, you will note that I said if the customer was not immediately removed by staff/management, I would go find a different club - which is something I've done multiple times. I won't work in clubs that think it's okay to operate as brothels, nor will I pay to work at a brothel when I am a stripper not a prostitute.
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    There's one other slightly different tack to take..you can guilt trip them about the trouble you'll get into. In the 'old days' that used to mean the trouble I would get into from the managers and etc. for dirty dancing, but these days it would mean the legal trouble I could get in from the police.

    "Do you really want me to risk getting arrested?" or some such nicer variation. You might want to follow up with a comment about how ALE/vice whatever was in 'the other night' and now you have to be careful. Don't over-sell it, though, or you may scare him off. The point is to make him feel a bit guilty for wanting to get such a sexy lovely lady that is willing to get naked for him, in trouble with the law. "But I'll get as close/nasty/crazy as I possibly can.."

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    I usually hush them then say you ask too many questions. I say this with practiced innocent eyes and a small sexy smile. Then I lay out my hand for him to take while saying remember to pay ahead as i lead them to vip. It usually gives them a hint they want without saying anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laurisa View Post
    I say "I'm sorry, I only let the first three customers who ask to have sex with me cum inside me without a condom. First come, first serve, come back tomorrow".

    The look on their faces is priceless.
    Aww man, that's great!!!! Lmfao!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    idk, do you really think that the manager of that club in SD that we worked at would have removed these customers? the manager who made it clear that money talks?

    id say only 10%, if even, of the clubs that i have been to would probably have removed customers who were asking for extras. KOs might have been one. i remember when i was newer and more naive i did ask the bouncer of my club, who happened to be a police officer, to remove the creepy guy heckling me for sex. he just laughed at me and told me it was part of my job. Usually the club wants to keep selling drinks to the customer and will just tell you to find a new customer.
    One of the bouncers did remove customers for me there. The bouncers weren't making anything off the extras guys. As far as the manager, he wasn't the brightest crayon in the box... but he's no idiot either. While its obvious he will arrange things with customers he knows well & trusts, probably more personal friends, he doesn't want it in the club & was very clear about that. He has requested that dancers do LESS on stage than what's legally allowed so they are able to upsell dances, & many club managers aren't that smart. Also, while you saw things going on with the FL girls - the rest of us only suspected so we couldn't complain. The manager didn't know what was going on or that they were b****es until the very end, because no one complained. If you stay silent about problems you can't expect changes. The manager there is certainly money hungry, but he's found plenty of legal ways to get it without arranging to profit from entertainers doing anything illegal inside the club. I.e. While he could get in legal trouble for discreetly trying to pimp for OTC arrangements, he isn't operating the club as a brothel nor propositioning all the entertainers.

    As for KO's, I couldn't adore Jackie anymore for this! I don't recall if you were there with me the really bad night when every customer except the bachelorette wanted extras. Jackie ROCKS about getting rid of customers.
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    I'm pretty lucky - I work at a NO contact club where there are NO extras...and have been there long enough that when a new girl comes in and starts getting dirty, I make sure that I talk to her, then the DJ, then the manager, and then she gets fired. So I'm not competing with anything like that! But when they do ask for extras, I tend to say that I'll do it for $100 grand, because thats what I'd lose if I got fired...I'm always super cute about it, but I have no compunction about walking out of a dance (after I got the money) if the guy is handsy..
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    I'm pretty lucky - I work at a NO contact club where there are NO extras...and have been there long enough that when a new girl comes in and starts getting dirty, I make sure that I talk to her, then the DJ, then the manager, and then she gets fired. So I'm not competing with anything like that! But when they do ask for extras, I tend to say that I'll do it for $100 grand, because thats what I'd lose if I got fired...I'm always super cute about it, but I have no compunction about walking out of a dance (after I got the money) if the guy is handsy..
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    As for KO's, I couldn't adore Jackie anymore for this! I don't recall if you were there with me the really bad night when every customer except the bachelorette wanted extras. Jackie ROCKS about getting rid of customers.

    Don't fuck with Jackie! I miss that woman so much! although she did rip me a new one for threatening to call immigration on a customer when he grabbed my ass.

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    If a customer is asking me SPECIFIC questions about what I allow, or how much money he has to pay for a specific act during the dance, I assume that he is:

    a.) a cop

    b.) a PI (secret shopper)

    c.) cheap (most bang for your buck kind of guy)

    I don't care which one of those he is and move on, talk to somebody else. These kind of customers are not my target audience and I am actually tahnkful that I can find out so soon what they are after. This way I don't waste more than 1-5 min on them and can quickly seek out another customer to talk to and dance for.

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    ^ i totally agree.

    btw, the other night i was in the dressing room joking with another girl about how we'd rather trick a guy into wasting his money on us than get their money's worth with a prostitute. and this girl that i'd already suspected is one got this pissed off look on her face, then quickly got it under control again. she makes me sad, cos i can tell she's got a pimp. so she's fucking these dudes itc and probably otc, and she doesn't even get to keep the money.

    made me think of this thread.

    girls like her are the reason i'd rather just misleed guys who are looking for extras. most extras girls don't seem to keep that money. either they have pimps or dealers or something. but it's always a dude getting paid off the girl's work. it's them i don't want getting the money.
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