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    Quote Originally Posted by naughtia View Post
    Sometimes I have to avoid these threads because I start thinking of all that money I used to make! (Damn you Kayla! ) The temptation is always there. It seems that people who know my past are always trying to get me to go half with them on an agency, book their calls, etc. I know so many aspects of the industry like the back of my hand so it would be so easy to jump in at any time. I had a weak moment and applied to a high profile agency recently as a booker but ended up turning it down when they called to offer me the job.

    I made myself a promise that anything I do in the adult industry from this point forward must be on the up and up, period.
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    Quote Originally Posted by neliana View Post
    Hey I get where you're coming from ^^ I used to escort, but in addition to just not being very good at it, the stress from worrying about the law was too much for me. I had trouble with the law awhile back, and after that I also promised myself it was only legal adult work from then on.

    But I totally know what you mean about temptation...tons of my friends are escorts. And reading this thread is soo tempting! I guess I'll just have to live vicariously through posters like KaylaM Lol
    What do you mean by "not being very good at it" ?

    Yeah only the smart and strong at heart can survive this business. I've never been in trouble with the law. I came close once but I pretty much talked my way out of it. Since then I screen the heck out of my clients .. Some guys have a problem with my rigorous screening process others don't .. I don't care my safety comes first!

    Thanks to Naughtia, My bodyrub business has found overnight success. I don't plan on quitting anytime soon but I DO plan on limiting how much I work.

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    BustyAmeera and Naughtia I fee like you two ladies do. I use to escort too but not so much now I actually did get arrested, for the first time in my life, and it was nothing I would want to re-live over again. I was scared, nervous, and wanted to cry.LOL But I still had to keep my composer and cool and navigate the situation as best as I can...But hey live and learn.

    I got me a good ass lawyer and plus I had looked up legalities on escorting/prostitution before hand so I was familiar with procedures and other things. But it was still nothing like actually being in the situation. But I do not have any thing on my record and I can get the arrest expunged after a year so it will not show up on my background check or nothing.....except the certain "officials" will still know. *sucks*




    However, if that was the case that I had a record from it, I take it like a woman, I knew what I was getting into too, so. Granted you can be in the business and never get caught but you can be smart as hell, and street savvy and still get caught up for something very lame, like in my case.LOL And you can still can get caught-up if they want you. That is why I made sure I knew the ins and outs as well as pros and cons of it....before getting in....






    I was still working a regular/ vanilla gig PRN and was still attending college all while I was escorting....but I had a lot of fun....Man, I love the money and I miss it like hell. That money can pay off all financial aid, help for start up cost for a business, plus more.....hahahaha



    I love reading Kayla threads on escorting and reliving the fun of it all......I know major Lame....I read all the escort blogs for their adventures very entertaining.....


    I am not out escorting....I am just trying to get my plan together. and with school, working, and other business endeavors I want to be thorough this time around......
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    Does anyone know about being a fbsm provider while working in canda?

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    What do you mean by "not being very good at it" ?

    I meant that I wasn't that great at dealing with the clients, or providing the whole "girlfriend experience". It was always obvious that I didn't want to be there and I had trouble getting repeat clients or good reviews as a result.

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    What do you mean by "not being very good at it" ?

    I meant that I wasn't that great at dealing with the clients, or providing the whole "girlfriend experience". It was always obvious that I didn't want to be there and I had trouble getting repeat clients or good reviews as a result.
    Oh yeah... that just means it wasn't for you. Maybe FBSM could work for you... having sex for money is not for everyone. ya know?

    When you're not getting good reviews or repeat clients... clear sign.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LuxDahl View Post
    KaylaM, if it wouldn't be too much trouble, I'm also curious about your website and would love a link to it.
    Me too, por favor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KaylaM View Post
    Too much drama on the board and that's not what I signed up for. Tired of reading cam stuff.. so let's talk about something different. This is for daredevils only and as you all know I am a big time daredevil. I just play smart and safe

    I worked as a massage girl before I gave birth and it was fun fun fun. The money was great until the house lady decided to move to miami. I've played with the idea but decided to become an escort instead (I'm too greedy). This is for those looking to get into the FBSM business. Read on....

    What is an FBSM provider: An FBSM provider performs a senual massage with a happy ending. Basically a massage with a handjob at the end. A sensual massage provider can make $1500 and up a week EASILY
    depending on how many men she chooses to see.

    What you'll need

    Massage Oil
    Massage bed
    Incall (Hotel or your own home (nor recommended)
    Prepaid phone (alternative:Google voice number FREE)
    Money to buy ads (no more than $150 a month) $150 a month is even too much
    money for FBSM advertising.

    What to charge : When I worked as an FBSM provider I worked in a parlor and the rates were
    $150 for 30 minutes and $200 for the hour. Strictly NO sex! What you charge is up to you. Research your market and see what other are charging. Wanna know what others are charging www.eros-guide.com.

    You might be thinking: Do men really pay for this stuff? YES they do! Google "FBSM" and see all you'll come up with. There are many men that aren't looking for "sex". They last thing they will do is hire an escort so what do they do? Settle for a handjob. They really view having sex with anotherwoman besides their wife as CHEATING.

    Is this illegal? Giving a "Bodyrub" for "donations" isn't illegal. Givinga"massage" for pay IS. What's even more ILLEGAL is the handjob. So you'd have to be smart and tactful in your advertising. If you are one of those people that are scared to get into the escorting business because you think you'll get arrested then THIS IS NOT THE JOB FOR YOU. Just like an escort screens.. FBSM providers screen to weed out LE and timewasters. Yes money is there but you have to be careful just like an escort is. Get it?


    What now?

    1.) STOP EVERYTHING YOU'RE DOING .. YOU KNOW THE BASICS RIGHT?

    Massage oil... massage bed... etc...

    Now..

    Learn how to screen ... there is a great article here>>>http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=143773

    Study this.

    2.) Research body rub rates in your area. are they $200 an hour? if so brand yourself VIP and charge $250 an hour.
    I do this now as an escort. I charge more than any black provider in the area and I'm constantly getting date requests. IT WORKS!
    Remember men want what they cannot have!

    3.) Invest in some professional pictures. Get on model mayhem and
    find a provider that will work with you on Tfcd basis. Tell him you want it for your online portfolio or something. You do not have to
    tell them what it is for. Before hand ask him if it is ok to use them online. TF means FREE. You are trading your time for prints or CDs.

    4.Start building your website. I use blogger for my escort site it's only $10 a year. Do NOT use escortsite.com.
    they are soooo tacky and attract undesirable clients.

    5.) Did you get your free google number? so you didn't. You can get it here https://www.google.com/accounts/Serv...entral&passive


    6.) Start advertising. Advertising: Backpage, eros, Open adult directory

    7.) Join social networks: Facebook, twitter, myspace and be active!

    8.) Learn how to screen... go back to your notes.. whatever you wrote.. Try it out on a friend (i mean the screening LOL)
    If you master anything Master this and you will be on your way.

    9.) When doing incalls... use priceline. You can do a 3 1/2 star.. it's same as 4 star on there. Do not do anything lower. You want to
    be in a place that attract a lot of businessmen where the front desk isn't so worried about what you're doing. When doing hotel incalls you will
    need a massage table so DO NOT bring it there please! You will only need a massage table if you're working in a vacation rental/apartment/house.

    10.) Remember you are an FBSM provider not a massage girl. Do NOT put that you are doing massages on your ad because you are not licenced and if you are... well bravo if you aren't DO NOT TRY IT! You do sensual body rubs.. sensual touch .. whatever NOT massages! You're also not there to fuck them. You're there to give them a handjob. Yes they can watch porn.
    NO they canNOT touch you and if they do.. charge $50 extra or whatever.

    11.) Save as much as you can. Have fun!

    xoxo,

    Kayla M


    You should write a book! I was wondering if you have a aim or yahoo screen name and if you would let me pick your brain?

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    You should write a book! I was wondering if you have a aim or yahoo screen name and if you would let me pick your brain?
    Yes Ma'am..

    Camwithkayla is my yahoo id.

    I love having my brain picked! Pick away! :-)

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    Ladies....I can share my site on via pm ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by $$WINTER$$ View Post
    Hi Kayla I don't know if you remember me we chatted via PM awhile back regarding escorting. I ended up sticking to dancing and have since moved to CO where its...bleh to say the least. Anyway this post was like a god send seriously this sounds right up my alley.

    My question for you is where do you think would be a good place to actually do the massages ugh i mean body rubs lol? Having them come to my home is just not an option with my two year old no way and 4star hotels seems like it would get very,very expensive. Do you think actually renting a studio space/apartment would be worth it? Also do you think there is a demand for this type of service in any city? Thanks in advance
    Yes boo I remember you!

    Well I'll be VERY honest with you... Using your home is not a bad idea. If you have a 2/3 bedroom? Y not? Honestly? I just started using my home again I just tell my customers that I don't live here. I even go as far as saying another girl that works with me lives here and I'm just renting "this room". I have never had a problem.

    Mind you I also have a 2 year old (I take her to her nanny or the sitter while I work)

    Another thing you can do is rent a room with another provider. Go on www.eros-guide.com look under massage and contact massage providers and ask if you can double with them. I would have done this but I'm too much of an independent to do such. However It is not a bad idea.

    Your avi says you're in Phoneix. Well Yes there is demand for this business (sensual massage) in Phoenix! I'm sure of it! I have lots of escort/fbsm friends there too :-)

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    and Yes I was once against one using their own home until I was educated about how to go about it and I think it is the smartest thing one can do especially if you have an extra room!

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    Ps. I took a peek at your escort site...are you really retiring? Dang body rub buisness must be good
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    Thanks for the info Kayla! How do you go about screening a provider you want to double with? Or can check her reviews somewhere? I just want to make sure I'm getting involved with someone reliable..which, yes, unfortunately only is yourself, but- I think to start it's a good idea like you said? Or you think indy is the way to go from the start? Sorry for all the newb questions

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    How do i sign up on ter ?? Is it 20 bucks for vip??

    Im trying to get some massage reviews

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    Quote Originally Posted by SALLY101 View Post
    How do i sign up on ter ?? Is it 20 bucks for vip??

    Im trying to get some massage reviews

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    Nope. I have reviews on TER and I don't even have a TER VIP membership. That membership is for the guys. Ask your clients to review on there. that's all.

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    How would I just look up the guy reviews on ter ? Someone said date check isnt good? Why does it say kayla banned

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    Yea.. Has anyone spoken to her??? Why is she banned???

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    Man I hope she's not banned, she gave the best advice.

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    ^^^ So true. If she is banned, she did leave her YIM screen name so you can always try and reach her that way.

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    It's Camwithkayla on yahoo and her msn has her real name in it .. wouldn't post that here :/

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    Hi ladies!!
    Where are all my bodyrub queens at??

    How is the business treating you? For me, so far so good
    I have a question, is anyone having success with "social networks" ie twitter, facebook, myspace for advertisement??
    I have a blog and advertise already and want to take it to the next level

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    I'm an indy FBSM girl who works out of my home. My guys where I live (Northern CO) are so paranoid that as soon as I try to screen them, they freak and never call back.

    Exactly how do girls screen for FBSM? I stop screening and have been making quite a bit but every once in a while I get worried about safety. Melissa

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    Okay, every city is different, in smaller cities money would be better, but in LA forget about it,

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    Quote Originally Posted by MelissaBlade View Post

    I stop screening and have been making quite a bit but every once in a while I get worried about safety. Melissa
    What?? Never stop screening!! Also why are you running it out of your real house? Thats just asking for psychos and stalkers to come knockin' You dont know these men so why should you give them so much trust knowing your real address when they cant even trust you to screen them?

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