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Last edited by teaze; 03-22-2012 at 07:59 AM.
For us older guys slow and sensual is the only way to do a private dance.




What yoda said.
A fast, crankin' stage show can be fun & very entertaining.
But a fast, crankin dance on my lap will not be enjoyed.
^ Agree. Obviously, if an LD is slow and sensual that mandates more than one dance but that works for me overall. I won't let her play it to the extreme but I understand an adventure takes more time than a 3 minute song
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Last edited by FBR; 09-17-2010 at 08:15 PM.
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.



To be honest, I mostly notice her appearance, and am not too concerned about how well she dances.





Both or neither, it really depends on the dancer. I would say that you should dance on stage to whatever music makes you feel the most comfortable. Your appearance is important but the way you present yourself on stage-attitude and confidence and personality-is what will get me interested in buying dances from you.
ill have to say that both I like. I like watching a dancer move slow, and I love when they do pole tricks to fast songs. Hey im straight and a female but I love to watch these girls dance and give them money. They have guts to do this and i admire them for doing it. I have no issue giving them my money. They have to make a living too. Whats funny is I may be dancing really soon.
I like dancing fast to techno tracks on stage .. but in the private. I always dance slow.. See it takes longer.. it wastes time.. and at the same time it feels more 1-1 than a girl dancing to herself.... reading the customer is always good. You get less tired while dancing slowly and it looks more sexy as they can move their eyes to here to there. When a girl dances fast its like a race track to me.





Unless a girl can do things like back flips on stage in high heels then I'm not really impressed. I can literally only think of one woman who can do this.
Otherwise, I prefer seeing slow & sensual.
For featuring though the type of dancing that you are describing is what the clubs & agencies prefer to see.
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At my club, the dancers usually get two songs on the main stage before they move to a side stage. I think a fast first song is good to get some notice from passerbys and just to raise the energy level. A second slow and sensual song usually gives the dancer a better chances to sell me on some private dances though.





Faster dancing with fast grinding action can be fun after a couple of slow lap dances, but can be dangerous for two reasons: (1) coming down too hard and crushing my erect manhood, or (2) causing me to cum in my pants.
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Show me your best moves ! I'm a long-time customer who hates to have my ears assaulted by "music" that doesn't let the dancer cut loose and shake it. Long live (classic) rock-n-roll. That's what will 1st get my attention on stage: dancing around, floor work, pole work, whatever shows your assets off to best effect (also, if you smile & introduce yourself when I tip, I'll remember).
As for getting the private dance, unless the club is packed and it's now-or-never, you might have to come around and have a drink with me & get acquainted. Then, if we hit it off & I liked what I saw on stage, well, I don't know what you'll be like in the back, but only 1 way to find out, right ?




as a customer, i like energy but not frantic. i tend to like slower/sensual dancing, and am turned off by frenetic sexual dancing.
as a dancer, i always did slow to medium dancing. got a ton of compliments on it about how "graceful" I was and made a lot of money just for how i danced on stage (i.e. they didnt even want a show, just came up, gave me $50, said they loved my dancing, then walked away).
I think too many dancers seem to go nuts on stage and forget that some eye contact and sensual slowing down can work wonders.
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