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    Question I need help.Not a newbie yet but may be.

    I havent started dancing yet, but Im considering it. Im super scared because i danced for a day and an older gentleman fingered me n nothing was done about it.It freaked me out bc I felt i wasnt in control. I was new and didnt know what to do or take upper hand. I have a job and they recently cut me to 2 days a wk. Now Im considering dancing. My bf supports my decision and I have a family to support. I dont want my bf doing all on his own. I just dont know how to overcome my fear and get on that stage again. Can anyone give me advice or help me in anyway?
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    Hey i am a newbie too.. really if anyone tries to finger u again dont be nice tell them if u do again i ll break your fingers or pls do not touch my crotch or kitty otherwise i have to end my dances with u... Not everyone will be same ,u have to deal with assholes sometimes sometimes not... u will be fine in time... if u arent comfortable with anythin tell them right away. or give air dances stay away lil bit dont get closer.

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    Its nice to know I can be in control. Just scared id get in trouble with club management. I want to dance sooo bad, but im scared my fear will get the best of me. ur post helped though. thank u

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    No hunney u wont be in trouble especially with management. They have to protect u at the club and deal with perverts. U can tell the bouncers if somone bothers u. U tip bouncers and bouncers work at club for protectin u from any kinda pervert ass guy or dangerious things. U pay bouncers bills and this is his job as well. Tell customers right away , dont worry. go back to club make your money pay your bills. time is important your missin lots of quick cash right now!

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    Wear your make up put your shoes on and go to your club and tell all of us how it went later.... go get your moneyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

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    Default Re: I need help.Not a newbie yet but may be.

    welcome to the forum and please check out some of the stuff in the newbie boards too! there is TONS of valuable information in there

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    Get paid up front & if anyone tries anything walk out of the dance.
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