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    Default My head is spinning, how do you handle it?

    First I was wondering if other guys on Streamate can tell what other guys are saying when they are in Premium private?

    Second when I have 3 guys in my premium I am confused who to please.I hate when they all jump in at the same time.
    Today I had one guy who wanted me to keep my clothes on and blow him kisses for 8 minutes.
    Another who wanted me to strip lay back and play with myself
    And another who wanted me to turn around and shake my ass

    I tried to blow kisses and lift my top while turning around for the other guy but everyone had some kind of complaining. "don't undress!" "strip baby!" "turn back around luv!""Look at me and kiss!"

    I wanted to keep everyone in my room but I think the overwhelmed look on my face made two of them leave so I just stayed clothed and blew kisses lol

    How do you decide how to handle that situation

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    Default Re: My head is spinning, how do you handle it?

    Quote Originally Posted by carabella View Post
    First I was wondering if other guys on Streamate can tell what other guys are saying when they are in Premium private?

    Second when I have 3 guys in my premium I am confused who to please.I hate when they all jump in at the same time.
    Today I had one guy who wanted me to keep my clothes on and blow him kisses for 8 minutes.
    Another who wanted me to strip lay back and play with myself
    And another who wanted me to turn around and shake my ass

    I tried to blow kisses and lift my top while turning around for the other guy but everyone had some kind of complaining. "don't undress!" "strip baby!" "turn back around luv!""Look at me and kiss!"

    I wanted to keep everyone in my room but I think the overwhelmed look on my face made two of them leave so I just stayed clothed and blew kisses lol

    How do you decide how to handle that situation

    Great thread! Girl, I've thought the same damn thing when having 2 or more guys in a private session. If there's not a way to do what everyone wants, I usually go with what "private chatter #1" wants, because most of the time, even when a second guy does come in (I'm referring to when I worked on Internet Modeling), he usually will just take a quick peek (no hello or anything) and then leave. Plus private chatter #1 is the one more likely to stay a good amount of time in private video, since he's the one who actually discussed with you what he wants to do in pvt and paid the higher rate than guy #2. Some guys, who do wanna see you in private chat, will purposely wait til you've gotten a private show where some other dude's paying, and then that guy will make his way into private chat seconds later, because he knows that he'll only have to pay the cheaper "voyeur" rate. And you can often tell when a guy is doing this, because it'll be the same dude who never takes you to private chat on his own, but he'll sit there in free chat til he sees someone else got you in a show...then voila! Here he comes wanting to get a peek (at the lower rate).
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    Default Re: My head is spinning, how do you handle it?

    "paid the higher rate than guy #2."

    This really wouldnt apply for streamate bc every guy that comes into premium pvt pays the full rate, they dont get a discount bc other guys are already in there.

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    on streamate guys cannot see what other guys are saying, unless they are "SPECIAL" lol, i have few users who can see everything that guys say on there but i dont know WHY , VERY CONFUSING. but most of them cannot see the chat. If an user goes to premium he enters to a complete different chat window so he is not able to see what others say or see free chat anyways.

    when i have several users on premium and this happens allways on streamate! i allways try to warm (warn not warm lol) the guys on free before they enter pvt what i do and dont do on premium - exclusive chat, i have a copy paste text where i say:

    Important Info: Anal Play w/ Toys and other Special requests! ONLY in EXCLUSIVE chat.

    so i allways get those stay dressed shows in exclusive only and they usually stay longer

    i do take alot of adventage on premium when i have several users there, and all want me naked, i please the 1st one who took me pvt if the others entered and they already knew i was in pvt i ask them, do you like what you see? guess whats their answer haha... anyways, i do pussy only in premium... i save the rest for exclusive and that saves me from headaches

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    Default Re: My head is spinning, how do you handle it?

    Tell them that premium chat is group chat so you direct the action. Still interact with them, refer to them by name, flirt with them while you are doing your show. But you can't respond to requests every few seconds from multiple people. They must take you exclusive if they want your undivided attention.

    The guys that leave when they realize they aren't alone in the room are just trying to get an exclusive show at a cheaper price.

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    Default Re: My head is spinning, how do you handle it?

    Quote Originally Posted by missginger View Post
    "paid the higher rate than guy #2."

    This really wouldnt apply for streamate bc every guy that comes into premium pvt pays the full rate, they dont get a discount bc other guys are already in there.


    Oh, I thought Internet Modeling (studio for Streamate...lol) had a lower rate for guys coming in after the first guy, but maybe I'm thinking of another cam site.


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    Default Re: My head is spinning, how do you handle it?

    Ok.....
    This is what I have done in these situations.
    1. you should be scanning free chat ahead of time for guys who will take you in private. "Hey honey, you wanna get kinky with me?" Me: "Sure honey, what'd you have in mind." Guy: "I want a messy bj" Me: "Ok, but not everyone is going want to see that in prem chat, so if you want me all for yourself, you should take me exclusive."....Exclusive almost always follows.

    Ok, let's say you had a bunch of shy eager boys take you at once...
    2. Greet all of them right away, show off the whole package and ask if they can hear you? (This will weed out the peekers.) Slowly begin to dance, touch yourself etc. Get seductive! and say something like "I'm going to do a striptease, if anyone has any special requests please let me know." Always make sure to please good regulars first, or the first guy to take you pvt. If it's an odd/special request you pick the one most guys will like and explain to the fetish guy that he's a fetish, and you will have to do that in exclusive. 50/50 he will either stay and wait out the others, or he will take you exclusive when you are done.

    Again, this is an example of how I run my room. Take from it if you would like, and make it work for your room. Hope this was helpful....
    HUGS!

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    This is an excellent thread, and I'm sure this is something that a lot of cam hosts come across in private sessions. You've got guys who just want you to put your feet up to the cam, guys who just wanna "lick your ass" (lol), guys who want you to get dressed in certain outfits, etc. Different strokes for different folks!

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    Default Re: My head is spinning, how do you handle it?

    yeah hehe if you girls dont wanna waste time repeating yourself typing and typing... use audio or even better... copy paste messages with this program, i have been using it for long time now and i love it! its called key text
    its an amazing program you can set as many copy paste messages as you want, even if you dont want to type hi how are you 100s times in a day, you can use F KEYS to do so... if i get a chance i will upload it so you girls can download it for free, meanwhile you can check it up on goodle kisses

    ps, i use keytext and audio at the same time, so while im talking i paste several messages like, check my bio baby, or add me to faves guys find them very useful

    Dolly

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsJess View Post
    on streamate guys cannot see what other guys are saying, unless they are "SPECIAL"
    theres a button they press when they enter the room to either have their chat visible to everyone "other guys and u" or just you

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    Ty Miss! so its the guys that dont know how to be able to check what other guys are saying... i kept asking a guy who could see everything in the chat and he kept saying im a special user lol lol

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    OMG you guys are EFFIN AWESOME!! I was hoping this thread would be helpful to others too! I def should recommend my exclusive more for those kinds of things. I felt really defeated and embarrassed after that experience so now I will make sure to make a divide of whats appropriate for both privates. I want to know if the keytext thing is a free program? I would totally use that daily along with talking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carabella View Post
    OMG you guys are EFFIN AWESOME!! I was hoping this thread would be helpful to others too! I def should recommend my exclusive more for those kinds of things. I felt really defeated and embarrassed after that experience so now I will make sure to make a divide of whats appropriate for both privates. I want to know if the keytext thing is a free program? I would totally use that daily along with talking.
    Never feel defeated!!! Know that someone somewhere has been in your shoes, and has felt the same(Guilty!). I'm doing the same thing for exclusive. I try to keep my premium price close to my exclusive because I love the long pvts. The guys who are more mental in what gets them off. $ tastes sooo good! Let us know how it works out for ya girly.

    HUGS!

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    The way I handle it is, in premium (group) chat, I do *my* own sweet thing and the general clusterfuck is welcome to enjoy or leave. In exclusive (private) chat I do *his* sweet thing and fulfill any requests that are not unreasonable.
    Group = Your Show
    Private = His Show

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    Quote Originally Posted by missginger View Post
    theres a button they press when they enter the room to either have their chat visible to everyone "other guys and u" or just you
    I never knew about this. Does it go for free chat too, or just private?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TinaLayne View Post
    I never knew about this. Does it go for free chat too, or just private?
    um i really dont know, i never took a girl pvt to check lol. i only found out bc i registered as a guest before i started so i could see how they see things as there looking/talking to us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Troublegum View Post
    The way I handle it is, in premium (group) chat, I do *my* own sweet thing and the general clusterfuck is welcome to enjoy or leave. In exclusive (private) chat I do *his* sweet thing and fulfill any requests that are not unreasonable.
    Group = Your Show
    Private = His Show
    This is basically what I do too. I try to accommodate requests but ONLY if they are 1) not extreme and 2) willing to wait their turn. I'll get a bit domme and tell them that they NEED to be good boys and wait their turn to see what they want..and if they want to be the one to direct me all the time and see what they want WHEN they want..that is what exclusive is for. Thats why exclusive is more $$..because I am performing only for them and only what they want to see. If they are going to be part of the "orgy" (aka, group chat)then they have to wait their turn!

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    The Op was talking about streamate, but to answer your questions about Imlive, when you allow the voyeur option, the guys don't chat with you, and you wont even see them in your chat room. They are watching you from another site, and you only get paid 0.20 per guest!

    If a guy takes you private, and you don't want a bunch of guys in the private chat, just click the 3rd button in the control panel "room is private. click here to set room as public." Do this right after the 1st guy takes you private, and you 2 are alone. Most of them like to be alone anyway, and I see a lot of girls get bad reviews when girls have a lot of people in their room. On Imlive I normally do 1 on 1 privates. Streamate I do premium and exclusive, group, and 1 on 1.

    Hope you get it now. You should be able to raise your rate per minute by now up to 5.80 per minute.
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    Thank you so much! That's very helpful.
    Yes, sorry for threadjacking OP

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    Np hun, good luck to ya!

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    Quote Originally Posted by roast View Post
    Dumb (ok uninformed) question, I searched a bit here & in IMLive's forums and couldn't find the answer: does Imlive have exclusive vs premium? Last time I went on last week (super new there, still trying to figure it out/not sure if Ill stay), Id go into a private session and other people would ring the doorbell. I thought it was the voyeur cam (which I briefly enabled) so I let them in but the people who entered could chat with me.

    It was a bit chaotic (for me, at least, I'm still at 1 credit so it seemed like a lot to do with little return - "can you spit in a glass cup and feed it to me", "can you ignore me while you lay back and read a book", "oh what toys do you have?" "call me a pervert!" "can I call you a pervert?" "can you jerk off a dildo for me?" "i can haz baby oil?!"... I am totally exaggerating but you get the idea) I considered taming the masses, but decided to kick everyone out except the first guy.

    Then I saw they were all paying the same amount (my credits are still low since I'm new) when I checked my earnings and went o__0

    So I disabled voyeur cam. Same thing happened (except I let in two). I saw I had "live cams" enabled, disabled it. Logged out, logged back in... and they could chat with me still.

    Am I able to tell people to go to exclusive on ImLive? From other sites I've been on (niteflirt mainly) I'm used to being exclusive and being able to focus on one.

    Don't get me wrong, I am not averse to multiple people in my room if I have no choice but just want to be prepared. I am more jazzed about it when I have more ratings & a higher PPM rate... is there an exclusive option only on Imlive or do you need to be less of a newbie?
    I just re read your post. I think you were performing before going pvt? I could be wrong and forgive me if I am, but when you first click "start video chat" you are going directly into free video chat. I am assuming that since you are new, you have not met the required free video chat hours to opt out of free video chat. If this is the case then all those guys barking those orders at you are not paying a dime. You will not be in paid shows until you hear the doorbell sound. Some pple say that doorbell sound don't always work, so be careful! I just wanted to bring this up in case the option to have voyeur site was throwing you off. If in doubt email customer service, and hopefully they will explain what you need to know. Or just start a thread here if you can't find what you need.

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