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    I know legal escorting is paid companionship and NO sex ... but I also know that escorts are actually having sex w/ clients. Ok I get it w/ the biz. But what I'm curious about is ... and don't mind my naive question ... but are there any escorts on this board that have clients that ONLY want companionship and NOT have sex?

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    Isn't that called social escorting? I would be open to that but can't find much on the topic. PM me if you find out anything, please.
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    ^^ I've never heard the term "social escorting". Hopefully we'll get info in this thread ... or maybe I'll be lucky and someone will pm me. Will let you know.

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    Me too! Halp! I've resorted to trying to find sugar daddies who are just into this arrangement-but most of them aren't..so hopefully someone has some info !

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    Not trying to be a kill joy, and I am no expert in escorting at all....but you have to keep in mind that while your "Date" may say No sex involved..... you have to expect that the majority of those men do indeed intend to have you in the sack for later. Step lightly here! I would imagine the "No sex guys" are already familar with the veteran escorts, who do know the ins and out of the business/taking safety pre-cautions etc. Not all that glitters is gold! M aybe look into sugardaddy.com??? I have heard of some girls getting payed just to keep him company on the phone, and the net. Anyhoo, just my opinion. Not trying to put doubt in your ears, just want everyone to be aware. Research, research, reasearch. Good luck to all!!!

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    ^No, you're totally right. Most guys DO want more than just company because in their minds "what are they paying for then" (a gorgeous young girl's company that you wouldnt ordinarily get, thats what..) but it is very difficult. I've tried the sugar daddy sites, and almost EVERY profile says something about "wanting intimate fun" with their sugar baby, but it IS possible, just difficult. Wish there were a bigger market for it..was hoping there would be another way besides going through 50000 bad ones and finding maybe 1 good one lol.

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    Good luck to all.
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    Yeah I know it's just wishful thinking that there are some guys out there strictly into companionship and not sex ... but can't blame a girl for wishing

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    Heck, you have to even consider that they may pay you for the date, and to be a friendly companion. But they will likely expect you to be a friend in return for sex. "Friends can have sex too, right?" Sooner or later be it days, months, years a man will expect you to have sex with them. Only a small percentage would NOT want to have sex with a pretty young thing. I'm just trying to give you the male point of view. I would hate for someone to watch a movie or something and think they could get a man to pay for everything, no strings attached. I would view escorting as something you can't just jump into and hope it all works out. Maybe start off with giving massages, build up a client list. Etc. Anything is possible, but you have to hustle for it. Be alert girls....learn the game before you start.
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    Social escorting is alive & well.

    Check your local laws. Some cities just require you to have the escort license. Some require that you have an escort license AND work for a licensed agency. Many cities also require you to turn in monthly reports of who you saw, how long you spent with them, what you did, and how much they paid you to the local police department. A few cities also require both the escort & the client to sign a contract stating that their will be no act of prostitution, & those contracts commonly require the escorts legal name & address or the address of the agency to be listed.

    I often see these social escorts at philanthropic events & other large social functions. When Craigslist still had the adult gigs section men from out of town regularly posted looking for dinner dates or a lady to show them around town.
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    ^^ I loooooong time ago I had a customer from the SC that I use to go out to dinner w/ ... paid dinner and sometimes a movie ... and yes, eventually he wanted sex. Needless to say I stopped going out for paid dinners and movies ... just couldn't bring myself to have sex w/ that guy.

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    I'm going back to Vegas to live and I doubt social escorting would work in that town ... but who knows ... couldn't hurt to look into a legit agency once I get back.

    Thanks so much for your input Kylea! Good to know social escorting is alive & well.

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    At least it's good to know it IS possible still! I guess it also depends what area you're in. I do miss the craigslist adult gigs because I did find a few guys like Kylea said that just wanted to go out with a pretty girl for the night. Luckily around here there's no license needed, but then again, not a very good market either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunshine16 View Post
    At least it's good to know it IS possible still! I guess it also depends what area you're in. I do miss the craigslist adult gigs because I did find a few guys like Kylea said that just wanted to go out with a pretty girl for the night. Luckily around here there's no license needed, but then again, not a very good market either.
    I've seen those ads on craigslist and often wondered if they were legit.

    I wonder where those guys are posting now?

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    I did legal escorting and it was for social events. No sex involved at all. One guy hired me once a week for social events, as well as to come over and hang out with him. Never sex, never mentioned. However, like I mentioned before I never worked for an agency or anything else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I did legal escorting and it was for social events. No sex involved at all. One guy hired me once a week for social events, as well as to come over and hang out with him. Never sex, never mentioned. However, like I mentioned before I never worked for an agency or anything else.
    Awesome! Do you mind me asking how you found your clients? I heard eros.com is good.

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    ^^^ I tried advertising on Eros for private dancing, but I don't think I'd recommend it. You'll be competing with too many girls offering prostitution.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    ^^^ I tried advertising on Eros for private dancing, but I don't think I'd recommend it. You'll be competing with too many girls offering prostitution.
    Yeah my understanding is Eros is mainly about prostitution ... looked like there's some Domme work too but not sure if that's just a kinky version of prostitution.

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    Most of them were customers from clubs I danced at. A few actually came from my bachelor party service. They called and asked if I did escorting (I was in many of the ads). I said depending and they explained what they wanted. I told them upfront no sex. I thought about advertising but decided against it because people would think I offered the other escorting.

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    I regularly have guys that call or text me about social escorting from my ads for private dancing. Some guy today just offered me $3,500 to hang out with him. I turned it down & told him he could get a list of licensed escorts from the city clerk... I even gave him the phone number to call.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Most of them were customers from clubs I danced at. A few actually came from my bachelor party service. They called and asked if I did escorting (I was in many of the ads). I said depending and they explained what they wanted. I told them upfront no sex. I thought about advertising but decided against it because people would think I offered the other escorting.
    That was cool your party service hooked you up for escorting and didn't expect you to have sex w/ the clients ... sounds like a very rare experience. Good for you girl!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    I regularly have guys that call or text me about social escorting from my ads for private dancing. Some guy today just offered me $3,500 to hang out with him. I turned it down & told him he could get a list of licensed escorts from the city clerk... I even gave him the phone number to call.
    That's a hell of a lot of $$ to turn down. Your gut instinct must have been telling you to pass him along. Always better to be safe than sorry.

    Since Eros is not a good place to advertise for private dancing, do you mind if I ask you were you advertise? PM me if you're more comfortable w/ that instead.

    I really need to get the private dancing going when I get back to Vegas. My only concern is not having security and who the hell knows what could happen to me alone in a hotel room ... need to figure this out.

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    That was cool your party service hooked you up for escorting and didn't expect you to have sex w/ the clients ... sounds like a very rare experience. Good for you girl!

    Thanks for your help
    It was the agency I owned so I spoke to the customers. But yeah I let them know upfront there was no sex, and social events only and that they paid me for any expense I incurred getting there such as parking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AdventureBaby View Post
    That's a hell of a lot of $$ to turn down. Your gut instinct must have been telling you to pass him along. Always better to be safe than sorry.

    Since Eros is not a good place to advertise for private dancing, do you mind if I ask you were you advertise? PM me if you're more comfortable w/ that instead.

    I really need to get the private dancing going when I get back to Vegas. My only concern is not having security and who the hell knows what could happen to me alone in a hotel room ... need to figure this out.
    He probably would have been fine, but I have multiple clients that I'm seeing this week & from the sounds of it he really wanted a "party call". I don't know how familiar you are with the terminology but a "party call" is when they want you to sit around with them talk - usually drink & do drugs. Besides the fact that my license is for private dancing (not escorting), I don't do drugs & I rarely drink. I could have still taken it as long as I did dance for him at some point... but really those aren't the type of appointments & clients that I like. I can afford to be picky.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    He probably would have been fine, but I have multiple clients that I'm seeing this week & from the sounds of it he really wanted a "party call". I don't know how familiar you are with the terminology but a "party call" is when they want you to sit around with them talk - usually drink & do drugs. Besides the fact that my license is for private dancing (not escorting), I don't do drugs & I rarely drink. I could have still taken it as long as I did dance for him at some point... but really those aren't the type of appointments & clients that I like. I can afford to be picky.
    Not familiar w/ any industry lingo. Good to know what "party call" means because I'm in recovery (just made my 1 year Aug.27) and that's a gig I would NEVER be able to accept ... would NOT want expose myself to that type of situation.

    Nice to see how busy you are ... gives me hope that I can get that going too! I love inspiration from hot intelligent women

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