**The poll itself is for the ladies so if you are a man please dont vote, but please DO contribute to the discussion.**
So in another thread, someone said that cheating with paid sex is less likely to damage a marriage. i agree with this because i feel like someone using an escort is less likely to get caught than someone with an emotionally charged mistress.
however, in the event that your SO is caught cheating on you, which would upset you more- if he had a mistress or if he paid an escort for sex?
also, we will assume it is an escort as opposed to an extras girl, because due to being a dancer him sleeping with an extras girl adds a whole different dimension. So an escort.
i didnt put an option that both would upset you equally because i feel then everyone would click that. I already know both options would upset you a lot, but think about it... which one would leave you angrier?
for me personally, unpaid sex would leave me angrier. i feel like if my SO paid for sex it would be because s/he was lacking a service from me. but if s/he went off and found another girlfriend then it would be me that s/he was unsatisfied with.



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So to actually go behind my back would truely hurt.




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