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    Default Re: MEN: How can you tell when a girl isn't interested in you?

    Some people just can't take hints, and for the life of me sometimes I don't know why. If I'm reading a book, with headphones on, and not making eye contact with anyone I'm not really hoping someone will distract me, but I've still had a couple guys try to strike up a conversation then. And then they get their panties in a bunch when I try to go back to my book. Likewise if I see someone doing that, I don't assume that they want to get in my pants.

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    Default Re: MEN: How can you tell when a girl isn't interested in you?

    men love a chase so the more they feel you make them chase you the more they like you.

    So if you want them to back off act really needy and scare them off..

    Needy is not sexy and thats what i do when i want a man to go away.
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    I'm gonna tell my neighbor that I think my biological clock is ticking and that I'm DESPERATE TO GET PREGNANT.

    It just sucks because it really really seems like you can't 'just be nice' to the opposite sex. So many of them(men and women alike I'm sure) mistake general courteousness and politeness for interest. Like, glancing at a guy and murmuring a 'thanks' when he holds a door for you suddenly puts a bull's eye on you and he thinks you are ready and willing to date him. To completely avoid this crap you have to basically be a complete bitch. And then guys label you as 'stuck up' when really it's just for the sake of trying to get from Point A to Point B without getting asked out and harassed left and right.

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    i dunno, guys hardly ever pursue me. when i look at my friends and who seems to get hit on the most it's the ones who are friendly and approachable. i, however, am on the opposite side of the spectrum. maybe it's because my natural resting face is a bit bitch-like or i get nervous and shut down. but if it's a guy i'm really not interested in i pretty much ignore and they get the hint (with the exception of one creeper, it took a good 2 months of ignoring for him to get the hint)
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    If some baristas started giving blowjobs along with their lattes, those not willing to do that would have a hard time getting custom. Same. Deal.

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    Maybe next time try giving em a punch in the balls, like an uppercut but from a kneeling position.

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    Once they get a restraining order, it's over.

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    Default Re: MEN: How can you tell when a girl isn't interested in you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    It just sucks because it really really seems like you can't 'just be nice' to the opposite sex. So many of them(men and women alike I'm sure) mistake general courteousness and politeness for interest. Like, glancing at a guy and murmuring a 'thanks' when he holds a door for you suddenly puts a bull's eye on you and he thinks you are ready and willing to date him. To completely avoid this crap you have to basically be a complete bitch. And then guys label you as 'stuck up' when really it's just for the sake of trying to get from Point A to Point B without getting asked out and harassed left and right.
    OMG this! I can't smile at someone when they pick up something I drop, or hold a door open for a guy without him thinking its an invitation to fuck me! It's so irritating. Men just let their dicks do the walking and talking and think "She glanced my way, she must want me". It's irritated me to the point that I keep my sunglasses on when I'm on the subway to look less approachable.

    I've even tried glaring at men who try starting up a conversation with me! Nothing works once they notice I have tits! Nothing!



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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    Nothing works once they notice I have tits! Nothing!
    Yeah, that can be hard for us to deal with...lol...

    I know you're irritated...sorry...that statement was funny

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    Quote Originally Posted by salemsexy View Post
    men love a chase so the more they feel you make them chase you the more they like you.

    So if you want them to back off act really needy and scare them off..

    Needy is not sexy and thats what i do when i want a man to go away.
    Well, I'm glad you try to give us the benefit of the doubt that we guys aren't total pigs. Thanks anyway, but we are total pigs.

    Typically, when a guy meets a woman for the first time, and she looks good to him, he'll scope her out for the possibility of a hook-up. The badgering type guys generally have near zero conscience. If they see a needy girl, they will think they can rush her into sex, and then walk whenever the neediness gets too annoying. Yes the neediness makes her less sexy. But, this is a partial list of what guys like, from most to least:

    1. Good sex
    2. Bad sex
    3. Breathing

    If you could convince the guy you'd just gotten out of prison for killing a guy for breaking up with you, your strategy would work. But I think that's about the only way.

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    Default Re: MEN: How can you tell when a girl isn't interested in you?

    I hate this and I blame many sources, including self help books and websites. For some reason guys think if they pursue you that means you'll be interested. While it CAN work, rarely has it worked for me. Not to mention I am generally friendly to people and some guys think that means I'm interested. I've told certain guys I had no interest, yet they kept pursuing. Several guys were especially bad and would send me flowers and others gifts, then got mad because I told them right away I wasn't interested and they could have used the money spent to pursue women interested.

    Speaking of this, why is it the guys I am NOT interested in pursue me? I like a certain type (never married nerds without kids) and get the types I DISLIKE pursuing me (fat guys, dads, sports fanatics, etc). It's almost like they are trying to "convert" me to say that they can get who they want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
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    Speaking of this, why is it the guys I am NOT interested in pursue me? I like a certain type (never married nerds without kids) and get the types I DISLIKE pursuing me (fat guys, dads, sports fanatics, etc). It's almost like they are trying to "convert" me to say that they can get who they want.
    Being a nerd, I have to ask, what's to like about us? A nerd is a person with an obsessive or near-obsessive interest in a or some scientific/technical topics. Unless your are into that/those same topics, what's the attraction?

    Not all stupid guys are badgerers. But all badgerers are either plain stupid, or are far enough into the autistic spectrum to not get why badering is stupid. Since there's a strong correlation between nerdhood and being in the autistic spectrum, there are nerd badgerers. If you haven't found any, maybe you're not hanging out in the right places.

    If you want a nerd, learn enough about their particular obsession so you can half-way understand when they talk about it. I assume you mean you want something serious with a nerd.

    Fat guys, dads, sports fanatics, doesn't the cover about 98% of guys? In Italy the guy pinching your ass is probably an Italian.

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    Being a nerd, I have to ask, what's to like about us? A nerd is a person with an obsessive or near-obsessive interest in a or some scientific/technical topics. Unless your are into that/those same topics, what's the attraction?

    Not all stupid guys are badgerers. But all badgerers are either plain stupid, or are far enough into the autistic spectrum to not get why badering is stupid. Since there's a strong correlation between nerdhood and being in the autistic spectrum, there are nerd badgerers. If you haven't found any, maybe you're not hanging out in the right places.

    If you want a nerd, learn enough about their particular obsession so you can half-way understand when they talk about it. I assume you mean you want something serious with a nerd.
    Nerds appeal to me in many ways. First off intelligence turns me on. Being a smart person myself, I hate stupid people. Second, their stereotypical look turns me on. Can't explain why. Also, the nerds I have met are into serious things and aren't the sleeping around type.

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    Fat guys, dads, sports fanatics, doesn't the cover about 98% of guys? In Italy the guy pinching your ass is probably an Italian.
    Yes, and this is why I dislike 98% of all men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    I ask because I hate when men I have given NO encouragement to keep trying and trying to go out with me. I don't want to have to be a bitch because they're men that I have to see again but it seems like they can't take a hint. So I'm curious, what actually lets you know that a girl just plain isn't feeling you?
    You HAVE to be a bitch. Not interested looks exactly the same as playing hard to get from our side and you can't pretend that every single love story you see and hear about is nothing but a variation on "she said she wasn't interested but i kept pursuing her and then she finally said yes and we have been married for 50 years". I'm sorry but that's just the way it is, you just gotta get over caring what a guy you are not interested in thinks of you and be a bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Nerds appeal to me in many ways. First off intelligence turns me on. Being a smart person myself, I hate stupid people. Second, their stereotypical look turns me on. Can't explain why. Also, the nerds I have met are into serious things and aren't the sleeping around type.
    I guess I wouldn't make the cut as a nerd by your standards, as I'm a fat guy and a man whore. You should clarify you're not into the "booger" nerd sub-type.

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    also, as someone who often is pretty oblivious to come ons, obliviousness works great. at least if you can work the good girl angle. if you're a hard partier, it's harder, but still can be done. it also works when an older guy spends a lot of money on you and expects sex. and in many strip club situations. see also: naivete.

    like the guy's your neighbor. well, easy. he's your neighbor. neighbors don't screw around. you don't screw around with your neighbors. you're off limits. if he hits on you, act like he's just trying to make you feel pretty or that he's joking around. joke back. he may as well be your brother.

    this comes naturally to me, but once i've figured out what's going on, i continue working this. why fix it if it ain't broke, right?
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    Default Re: MEN: How can you tell when a girl isn't interested in you?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Nerds appeal to me in many ways. First off intelligence turns me on.
    You don't have to be a nerd to be intelligent.

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    Being a smart person myself,
    I hate when people say this lol.

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