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    Default Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    Many strippers when performing a private dance smack themselves on the bottom two or three times during the performance I wonder what message this sends.

    I mean, is she saying:
    1. "It's cold in here tonight, maybe this will warm me up"
    or
    2. "Bad motivation day - I need this to get me going"
    or
    3. "This guy looks like a spanko, so this should appeal to him"
    or
    4. "I've been meaning for ages to get in touch with my submissive side"
    or
    5. "Look how fit and toned my ass is"

    Maybe it's none of the above

    Maybe it's a combination of some of the above

    But we guys are easily confused. I think we should be told.

    Over to you, ladies...........

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    lolz
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    Because its hott HELLO!!


    I like it lol. And I like it when I'm getting a LD from another dancer and she does it. It's hott and sometimes lightens the mood if it gets too intense.





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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    usually i say its because ive been a bad girl lately
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    It shows that they have no idea about what to do on stage. They do that stupid ass slap to take up stage time.

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    I've literally seen & overheard customers asking dancers not to do this. On the other hand some customers (especially younger ones) LOVE this.

    Personally, I do cute playful little taps that are closer to the hips than on the bottom. In my opinion it just looks better & most customers aren't really into the rough bum slapping.
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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    Ya I do it but really only with the bachelor party crowd when theres like 4-5 guys in the dance. They like it. Especially if theres two girls and you spank each other. Id never do it in a one on one though. But I like being spanked anyway. I have a collection of whips unfortunately we are not allowed props at my work.

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    I sometimes do this ... but it's generally in a string of dances ... and it's just a couple taps .... I have to break out different things to do sometimes .

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    I really don't like this; it just looks strange and unappealing.
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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    I use to ask them not to do that. Then I started to just ignore it. If they ask me if it's OK to spank themselves, I just say "it's your butt".

    THEN there are the ones who want you to spank THEM. Some will offer it, and move on when I decline. Some will insist, then inevitably crab it's not hard enough.

    This is a big issue with my current favorite. First I tried putting my hand on her butt and hitting that hand with my other hand really hard. She gave that about a C-minus. Now she grabs my wrist and smacks her butt with my hand. I also lean over and kiss her butt at the end of the dances. She insistes on two kisses on each butt-check (total of 4). I think there are few if any dancers that are full-time submissives, a full-time submissive would get eaten alive. So you can offer to accept a little domination rather than providing it. Then you'll have some empathy for what dancers go through trying to keep custies from going too far.


    See also: boob squeezing, hair pulling, biting, pinching
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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    I could do without the spanking but it's not that big of a deal. I don't do anything to discourage it. Generally, a dancer will spank herself, turn and look at look at me with a smile. As a result, I'll smile back. She may think it's because I enjoyed it but it's just me reciprocating her smile. As long as I'm having a good time with her, that's really all that matters.

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    I don't like being spanked.

    I'll goof around with other girls though. Dunno how much anymore since the other night my friend smacked my ass and left a welt on it. I was walking around the club with an ice pack on my butt cheek.

    I never do it alone though, unless the guy wants me to.
    I do hear a lot of ass smacking going on in the LD rooms next to me though..lol

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    I don't like it either, in dancing or porn. It just doesn't make any sense to me unless it's part of a whole bdsm routine.

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    I dont like to do it.. and always feel weird about it. So I dont. I do like spanking but only if its my partner not a stranger and not to myself. At the club though, if Im dancing with another girl and its acceptable then we do exchange a few spanks for the customer.

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    I think it's hot. I'm a boob man but some of my faves over the years coincidentally have had awesome booties. A few work spanking into their routines.

    Some are just little taps ("look at my ass") but others do a pretty loud smack. They do the cupping thing to increase the volume.

    Some have insisted I take my turn. My technique is inconsistent, I tend to be more timid than them, but sometimes I connect just right and get high marks.

    One girl with an AWESOME booty was really into it. She seemed to like drawing attention to it and smacked herself regularly and insisted I do it too. She's the only girl that I would do "sneak attacks" with, where you spank them when they're turned away and not expecting it. She seemed to enjoy those as much as when she'd turn to me, assume the position, and say (in that cute Puerto Rican accent) "spank me, baby".

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    I look at it as an invitation to spank her ass while in VIP and they usually like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigmarv View Post
    I look at it as an invitation to spank her ass while in VIP and they usually like it.
    She spanks herself because she wants to spank herself, or because she wants you to spank her, or because she thinks you want to spank her. You spank her because you want to and you think she wants you to, because you don't want to but she wants you to, because you don't want to but you think she wants you to even though she really doesn't......

    Where's Athena, we need some heavy duty Game Theory Analysis.

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    Well call me spanky, but I like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Well call me spanky, but I like it.
    Your avatar looks more like Alfalfa. (People under 40: nevermind)

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    never understood why. never did it. used to give guys who asked me to do the stink eye.

    i think it looks stupid.

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    I'm seeing dancers do this more lately than usual....maybe it's in big demand where I club.

    I, however, am not a fan of it.
    Nothing like having a dancer slowly & sensually writhe all over you, and just when you are in your Zen place....a loud *SMACK* on her ass when it's 1/2 inch from your face. It's startled me enough to actually make me jump a few times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ilbbaicnl View Post
    Your avatar looks more like Alfalfa. (People under 40: nevermind)
    Sacrilege!

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    I am a new dancer yeah i do spank my ass when i dont have any moves in Vip or stage ... What can i do ... lol i can not do pole i can not do fancy floorworks i try to save time of off stage lol till i learn new things i ll spank a while sorry

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    They do it so you don't have to.

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    Default Re: Strippers Who Spank Themselves - Why?

    Quote Originally Posted by ilbbaicnl View Post
    She spanks herself because she wants to spank herself, or because she wants you to spank her, or because she thinks you want to spank her. You spank her because you want to and you think she wants you to, because you don't want to but she wants you to, because you don't want to but you think she wants you to even though she really doesn't......

    Where's Athena, we need some heavy duty Game Theory Analysis.
    Well she usually just turns the other cheek and says, "thanks, please spank the other one." Which I gladly do.

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