Ladies,
What's the most important personal quality you admire in a customer? (Let's assume here that generosity and tipping are a given.)
I've listed several options. If I've missed something obvious tick "Other" and specify in a post, if you like.
Courtesy/Respect
Sense of Humour
Easy/Relaxed Conversation
Grooming/Hygiene
Empathy
Good Listener
Other


Ladies,
What's the most important personal quality you admire in a customer? (Let's assume here that generosity and tipping are a given.)
I've listed several options. If I've missed something obvious tick "Other" and specify in a post, if you like.
I said "Courtesy/Respect".. I havnt worked this month. But I remembered my Aug was full of jerks and guys would play games with me while I just talked to them normally - nothing pisses me off more than this. Then they wonder why I walk away like a bitch cause Im sick of your shit! Ughh sorry. But yes, I do respect when a customer shows this, I can relax more and actually do my job right with them. Next comes "Grooming/Hygiene" which I cannot stress enough, working in a full-nude contact club.. if you smell bad, you wont get appraoched (by me)!





Respect is most important. I hated when customers thought because I was a dancer I was easy or a whore. Hygiene is important too because if you smell bad I have to hold my nose. Relaxed personality is also good. Being a good listener isn't really that important, and being empathetic isn't all that important unless it means they'll buy more dances.
I voted Respect, but I was between that and grooming. Grooming is huge.





I want to pick " all " except I'm less worried about good listener and don't really care if they talk about themselves most of the time.


Four days left for voting, ladies. No surprise that courtesy/respect is by far the most highly-valued quality so far




why isn't money on there?
but seriously respect and grooming are my top two





humor.
why? for me, humor leads to more money because im a funny girl and then we will click. and usually if a customer isnt super courteous but is humorous, a couple of humorous insults by me will put him in his place and lead to respect. and it keeps me from getting bored.
as far as hygeine, unless its absolutely repulsive it wont really phase me. you are talking to someone who went to burning man here and who likes to go camping a lot... idk dirt doesnt really bother me anymore.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.





sense of humor. yes respect/courtesy, hygiene , those are definitely a plus.. but I don't know. If I go up to a guy and try to be cute and funny and he's a dick, I can't sell myself. It totally deflates my balloon.





Sense of humor is a big one for me.




I voted courtesy and respect but would lump grooming and hygiene in there.
If you're respectful and spending money I can get past dirty clothes and smelly breath and BO.
So see courtesy can get you far.![]()
All those other things are nice, but if a customer is disrespectful or rude, it doesn't matter how clean or funny he is. I won't actually enjoy spending time with him.





I had thought that "Grooming/Hygiene" would have ranked a lot higher. Must have been a single answer poll.
I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

LOL! I'm surprised to not see other choices along the lines of...
Has over $1000 cash in his pocket and will spend it all on me.
Willing to max out his credit limit.
CEO of a fortune 500 company.
etc, etc.
My experience has been that courtesy and respect was the number one thing that dancers liked the most. I've always tipped generously, because I was having a good time with the dancer.![]()

It's a shame the poll is closed because I actually would vote for Easy/Relaxed conversation.
My favorite guys are ones who I can say anything with and feel completely comfortable with. These are the ones who I would spend hours with regardless of money.
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