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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    They are idiots for doing that. Strangely, I usually went after the ugliest and fattest guys because they knew they couldn't get to spend time with a hot girl without tipping.
    why are you responding so negatively to this guy's questions? Regardless of my reasoning or anyone elses' it is a valid question. When the room is full of guys and I just start or come out of VIP I am more likely to just go up to a guy who appeals to me while I am feeling the general vibe of the room. Not everyones hustle is the same and not everyone works the same way as you do. It helps to put me into the mood and get my 'mojo' working to flirt with a cute guy.

    Honestly, I have sat with hotties as long as they're not super annoying and are being respectful if the club is dead. And why? Because sitting with someone is way less annoying than sitting with no one with a scowl on my face. I will sit with people who have been nice to me or have bought dances for the same reason.

    also, I tend to go for the ugly fat guys as well. I danced for a guy who was so obese that he had to essentially lay down on the vip couch and I had to sit on his chest to dance for him. It was pretty fun. I even told someone off when we were walking by.

    asshole: wow talk about fat
    me: wow, talk about cheap assholes

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    Quote Originally Posted by luscious sadie View Post
    why are you responding so negatively to this guy's questions? Regardless of my reasoning or anyone elses' it is a valid question. When the room is full of guys and I just start or come out of VIP I am more likely to just go up to a guy who appeals to me while I am feeling the general vibe of the room. Not everyones hustle is the same and not everyone works the same way as you do. It helps to put me into the mood and get my 'mojo' working to flirt with a cute guy.

    Honestly, I have sat with hotties as long as they're not super annoying and are being respectful if the club is dead. And why? Because sitting with someone is way less annoying than sitting with no one with a scowl on my face. I will sit with people who have been nice to me or have bought dances for the same reason.

    also, I tend to go for the ugly fat guys as well.
    I'm responding negatively because of his other posts. It has nothing to do with him being a customer, because there are many good guys here. I never sat with guys who weren't spending unless they were regulars (and I knew they would).

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    Default Re: Question About Approaching Customers

    i go to older white men first but i approach everyone
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    I have certainly approached guys because they are attractive. However, that attractive was also coupled with other spending signs. I was always a bit shy of the big buff guido guys who looked like they might have worked at the male strip club down the street. Which was silly of me because they've called me over and totally spent money.

    To be honest, given two men in the club with equal spending signs, I would most likely go to the less attractive one because he'd be likely to spend more on me...although I've had handsome men spend a lot too.

    There is no one perfect criteria. However, attractiveness is very low on the scale of approach. And the appearance of "wealth" is what guys do to sucker stupid strippers to sitting with them for free just to drink nice champagne.

    If you see 2 guys in nice suits sitting drinking Dom, with tons of strippers sitting around, but no one getting dances...its because they are playing a game..for the most part. They can split the $300 cost, and get 2 hours of strippers flirting with them and trying to work them for some big ticket item. When in fact, they are spending less than they would on dances.

    This isn't always the case but I've seen it plenty because they will recruit waitresses to bring them girls to waste their time with, and the waitresses would constantly grab me to go over there (waitress gets a big tip and commissions on selling champagne).

    So yeah, fuck the appearance of wealth. Give me an unattractive 40 something married heavyset man in a polo shirt and dockers, an IT consultant who travels all the time to run his own business, and is bored, wants sexy company but not a commitment to sex.

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    I think every dancer's approachal reason is going to be different.

    ^^^And I agree, that is so stupid to just sit with someone because they are good looking for free. I know some girls that did that all the time then would carry on complaining they weren't making money. Well bitch, move! lol





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