View Poll Results: Dancers, which do you often say or imply about your financial situation to custies?

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  • Better than it really is.

    8 36.36%
  • Worse than it really is.

    1 4.55%
  • Honest about it if asked.

    6 27.27%
  • "Didn't your mom ever tell you you're not supposed to ask about that?"

    8 36.36%
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Thread: Need to impress me vs. need to save me

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    Default Need to impress me vs. need to save me

    Dancers, please respond to the poll above. You can pick more than one option.

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    Default Re: Need to impress me vs. need to save me

    Because this is sw, I believe that the 4th answer will be the most popular.

    However I am curious what the real break down is for non tech savvy strippers. I feel like a lot of strippers seem to gain regulars with the pity hustle. I mean honesly, how else does an average looking girl who can barely speak English even though it is her first language break even? It's gotta be the pity hustle or extras. And I think most people on this site will know the type of stripper I am talking about...
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: Need to impress me vs. need to save me

    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    Because this is sw, I believe that the 4th answer will be the most popular.

    However I am curious what the real break down is for non tech savvy strippers. I feel like a lot of strippers seem to gain regulars with the pity hustle. I mean honesly, how else does an average looking girl who can barely speak English even though it is her first language break even? It's gotta be the pity hustle or extras. And I think most people on this site will know the type of stripper I am talking about...
    I always thought those dancers promised more to make money. I've used the pity hustle a few times but for the most part didn't. I mostly used the pity hustle (the very few times I did) when the club was dead, I needed to make house and I had heavy bills. Otherwise never had to.

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    I fucking hate the pity hustle. Never did it, and it makes me super uncomfortable to hear it as a customer. My preferred hustle was one that exuded confidence, unbridled sexuality, and fun.

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    Default Re: Need to impress me vs. need to save me

    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    My preferred hustle was one that exuded confidence, unbridled sexuality, and fun.
    That's the primary reason I enjoy visiting SC's, for the fun.

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    I always say better. Not just in money, in everything.

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    Exactly. Positivity is very important in sales. Maybe this is one of the reasons I didn't have many regulars. I never made anyone feel like I needed them or I needed any saving.

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    I hate discussing personal business (money, relationships, kids, car trouble, etc) when I am in a SC. I am there because I am having an escape from reality for an hour or three. I don't want to think about my troubles nor do I want to hear anyone elses.

    The fastest path to my wallet is to flirt with me outrageously and be hot.

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    ^^^That is exactly why I never discussed these things if possible with anyone in the club. Just let it be home stuff.





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    Default Re: Need to impress me vs. need to save me

    i dont use pity hustle. i have when i first started and it was dead and i began to panic. but noo theyre not gonna give you money. apart from the fact that they can sense your despiration, they would rather save you. take you to dinner, offer to move in with them, offer to drive you home but noo no money. they try to make you more of a victim so you stick around and be their at-home whore.

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