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    Default Re: Menage a trois: Oui ou non?

    I love 2 women...my issue wasn't a 3some..more about a woman wanting to see 2 men have sex or be apart of that. Like I posted above this isn't the first time I've heard this but I just wanted to know what was the attraction. Thank you for your response...I asked because I wanted to understand not to judge or get a reaction.

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    Default Re: Menage a trois: Oui ou non?

    I love them, but also couldn't do it with someone I was really committed to. I have enjoyed being the extra girl with a number of married couples, though. It doesn't evoke any of my stupid jealousy, and it makes me feel good to be temporarily brought in to a relationship like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    I love 2 women...my issue wasn't a 3some..more about a woman wanting to see 2 men have sex or be apart of that. Like I posted above this isn't the first time I've heard this but I just wanted to know what was the attraction. Thank you for your response...I asked because I wanted to understand not to judge or get a reaction.
    The idea of two men doesn't really do anything for me, but I would think the appeal to many women, would be very similar to the appeal two women has for most men, if that makes any sense.
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    Yep, not suprised. Not trying to say we are all like this, but I think bi women in general are less jealous. I mean, how can I get mad at my guy for staring at a hot chick, when I'm staring too? It's just a fun little thing to do together! I like pussy, he likes pussy, it's all good. I'm certain I'm his fav little slut and that is all that matters to me.
    Exactly. I am also never ever tempted to screw around on openly bisexual girlfriends, and instead having sex with other girls has in the past turned more into a team sport that has brought the relationship even closer, rather than tearing things apart.

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    Not trying to say we are all like this, but I think bi women in general are less jealous.
    This is my experience as well, purely anecdotal, of course.

    That said, I find threesomes to be logistically challenging and occasionally distracting.
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    I have only had one threesome but it was brilliant, it was ffm. I had an oportunity to have a mmf one but I turned it down. Looking back now I can't help but think, whyyyyyy??? Whyyyy did I turn it down, as one of the guys was someone I had already slept with and is still the morst gorgeous guy I've had sex with. God he's gogeous... Anyway, I still want to try a mmf threesome I think it would be great. I love two guys together, I just do and I'm all for making it an Aria sandwich!

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    I am very turned on by two gay men together, partially because I'm asexual. (If the guys are gay, then they're only interested in each other and not interested in me).

    I love bi men as well.

    And I respect the shit out of men who are neither bi nor gay-identified, yet can enjoy a little experimentation in lieu of a MMF threesome. If straight women can get down with the puss, then I don't see why straight men should be any different in regards to the cock.

    Though I think it takes a very secure, open-minded, and mature man to do this.

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    Default Re: Menage a trois: Oui ou non?

    Call me insecure, close minded, and immature....but you can count me out of that.
    Pussy = OUI
    Cock = NON

    not that there's anything wrong with that

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    ^ As long as you don't judge others, we're all good here.

    It's other members' homophobic, judgmental, bullshit rhetoric that I have a problem with.

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    ^^I don't think that makes you immature or closed-minded. You're just straight and not comfortable being that up close and personal with another cock. I would probably feel the same way about naked women if I wasn't bi.
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    Quoted from Unbeleavable: I love 2 women...my issue wasn't a 3some..more about a woman wanting to see 2 men have sex or be apart of that. Like I posted above this isn't the first time I've heard this but I just wanted to know what was the attraction.

    The attraction to watching two men have sex or be a part of that is pretty much identical to the attraction to watching two women have sex or be a part of that. It's hot for those of us into it. I actually own as much gay porn as "straight" porn- which nearly inevitably includes girl-on-girl, but whatever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    And I respect the shit out of men who are neither bi nor gay-identified, yet can enjoy a little experimentation in lieu of a MMF threesome. If straight women can get down with the puss, then I don't see why straight men should be any different in regards to the cock.

    Though I think it takes a very secure, open-minded, and mature man to do this.



    No judgement intended, but finding two truly straight men eager to make contact with another man's cock might not be the easiest task. In truth, the simple thought of it is quite unpleasant for me and I think that many straight men share the feeling.

    While obviously some straight men participate in MMF, in the limited instances I know about the guys involved paid careful attention to avoiding sword crossing or other male to male contact.

    But I am no doubt far from the most enlightened male and wish everyone nothing but success in finding whatever they are looking for in their bedroom romps.
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    ^ I still find judgment inherent in what you're saying, despite your claims that you don't judge. There is a MASSIVE difference between saying that something "isn't appealing" to you and saying that it's disgusting, gross or otherwise.

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    I took out the yuck emoticon in order to avoid any appearance of judging others. Its original inclusion was simply an honest gut reaction relating solely to the thought of personally engaging in that type of activity, not intended to characterize others or their preferences.

    I suppose that there are plenty that might find some of my preferences equally unappealing. But I do stand by my comment that finding two truly straight men eager to participate in that way may be difficult as strong and unenlightened reactions are common among our particular type.

    But to each his own and I truly hope that everyone finds what they are looking for.

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    I never had a 3some & don't think I would, but damn I do love seeing men sexing each other. lol. I saw 2 guys at once, giving this one dude head outside of a gay bar & I thought was the hottest thing I ever saw!!!

    They were young and good looking(of course, gay men are always the hottest).

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    Oh god I still have to see Brokeback Mountain, I am DIEING to see that movie after all the hullaballoo around it. And I'm not a big porn watcher but my bff and I have decided to have a girls night and just find a ton of great gay porn, lol. Just wine, pizza, cheese pretzles and lots and lots of gay sex, lol, yaaay! mmmm boooys....

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    ^ hawt!

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    I approve of an and all threesomes. Sounds hot and awesome Tempest! I've had many, all sorts of configurations, and will have many more.

    But I've never done one where the 2 guys messed with each other. Although I think its hot to watch men fuck in gay porn, I would prefer that I get ALL the attention with multiple men.

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    Two bi stripper gals in a hot tub, lots of oral going on (to them only) by me and by them to each other; they didn't seem to want to get me off even after I got them off about 4-5 times each. It still was fun but over too fast.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    Never did one.
    I had a chance but i just couldnt bring myself to. (kicks self!)
    Also had a little X rated play w/ me and 2 girl friends in a back of a car after going to a SC, but there was no sex. Pretty freakin hot none the less.

    I love hearing/thinking/seeing it but personally at this long point in my relationship we're past that "door". We've talked about it quiet a few times and we both agreed we have no need for it. Maybe back in the beginning of our relationship, now not so much.
    I would definitely do a FFM one though.
    I also know a guy on my SO's team that's bi and i'm oddly attracted to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Call me insecure, close minded, and immature....but you can count me out of that.
    Pussy = OUI
    Cock = NON

    not that there's anything wrong with that
    Meh. Two or more guys at the same time is my biggest fantasy. But every guy I know feels the same way you do. They think a threesome would be great if it's with two girls. I think dp and gangbangs are things that only happen in porn because regular straight guys never want to try.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    Meh. Two or more guys at the same time is my biggest fantasy. But every guy I know feels the same way you do. They think a threesome would be great if it's with two girls. I think dp and gangbangs are things that only happen in porn because regular straight guys never want to try.
    You just need to find the right guys

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    Mmmmm, this thread still makes me smile

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    I've been involved in several FFF threesomes, and it was asses & elbows everywhere. Someone coulda put an eye out!

    But in all seriousness, they were awesome, sexy fun. Would love to do it again, but my SO would frown on it, I'm sure.
    I've been invited to several FFM events, but turned them down. No sausage on my menu, thank-you-very-much!

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