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    I got accepted to OnHerCam but I must admit.. I feel kind of inadequate compared to the other girls on the website. I don't have big fake boobs, pornstar ranking, a bangin' booty, or a perfectly flat tummy. I'm just rambling but it makes me nervous about going on cam there for the first time. I mean, why would guys come to me when the girl next to me looks like a Barbie doll?

    Second topic: When signing up for NiteFlirt, why do you have to put your CC information in? Or am I going to the wrong page?

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    #1 you need to be confident! Do your best to look the best you can, and sign on when your looking hot. The guys who are attracted to YOU will join YOUR chatroom! You must believe in yourself if you want others to believe in you

    Niteflirt asks for cc to sign up to prove you are over 18, I believe. It has been a while since I first signed on there, and I too, had concerns about using my card, but some helpful ladies reassured me that it is just part of the process!

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    That's the thing. Not all guys want the barbie doll look. Just look up the mature or granny models and you'll see- there's something for everyone's tastes.

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    exactly. I feel fucking inadequate as HELL compared to Gisele, Violet, etc. But, there are a lot of guys who are into my nerdy look or my red hair or pale skin, etc. Not every guy likes the blonde, tan, busty look. Just feel good about yourself and play off YOUR looks and attributes.

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    Hun seriously you will be fine, the girls have all KINDS of different looks and different bodies. Seriously, I'm probably the heaviest girl on the whole damn site, I DON'T have a flat tummy and I'm not a porn star. You'll be great, just have confidence, makesure your room is clean, have lots of everygy and just go for it!

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    These men love older women, short women, black, white, asian, latina, shemale, tall, big, small, animals, and I'm waiting for the day someone will ask to see a purple alien in private. Seriously


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    Tee hee hee purple alien, I think I'm going to go find one and make it pop up on my screen when people are being useless in my room...

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    Don't feel that way, you have a niche, it's just not blonde, busty, barbie doll. Maybe market yourself as girl next door, that's just as much in demand as barbie doll if not more. And especially if you're on a site where you're different than the majority, you gotta look at that as gold. A lot of times with girls (not all) who are absolutely flawless, they think they don't have to work as hard. Yes, looks sell itself.. but i've found with camming, personality and uniqueness sells more. You just gotta have the confidence. I go on cam every day, regardless of hair and make up done, and act and feel like i'm the baddest bitch there...your fans will see start seeing what you project.

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    These girls pretty much said it for me. Use what you got to your advantage. They obviously see you as a hottie to accept you on the site so go for it. What do you got to lose? I imagine those girl probably felt the same way at some point.

    I am on there as well and i'm not like any of them either. When i signed up I was just as intimidated as you are with all those girls on there. Not so much anymore cause they're all really nice and it really just pushes you to go for it looking your best. I kinda feel honored to work along side such beautiful women and obviously i have something to offer or they would have not accepted me. Think of it that way!

    To be honest, when i'm "window shopping" i always stop and look at the girls who aren't "barbie". The ones who have like dreads or just a whole other feel about them. "Barbies" to me are a dime a dozen, no offense. I much prefer to stand out then to blend in. Also "flaws" make a person more real and relate-able you know?

    Oh and i've watched girls like Giselle on cam before and they are no different from the rest of us. Sure she's stunning but she's super nice and works just as hard. So she's not really all that intimidating then you think about it.

    (If this sounds like babble i apologize, 1st cup of coffee has yet to set in)

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