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    Default Im not sure.

    Im having a hard time making money. I dont know if its bc the economy suxs or if i just suck. I work at one of the best places in my town and have only made 200 and than lost money the next monday. I go in tonight and hope I make money. Im kinda a shy person. Can anyone help me?
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    Default Re: Im not sure.

    without knowing anything about your look, the club, what you do, or anything, it'll be hard to help you.

    The most I can say right now is to look at Hustle Hut, and look into Strip and Grow Rich.
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    Default Re: Im not sure.

    i see you are in illinois.. are you near chicago? all i hear about chicago is high house fees and a struggle to make money.

    how much is the house fee at your club?

    if it is too high, you might want to call up other clubs and see if there is a lower one. the 'best place in town' might not equate to the best place for a newbie. if you are in a club with ridiculous house fees and cutthroat girls, it might be heard to cut your teeth as a shy newbie. and if it is a really nice club and you want to get comfy, try not to burn your bridges with it. but maybe a low key dive bar where fees are low and you can build your confidence up?
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: Im not sure.

    I'm stuck in a money rut right now so I can relate to how frustrating it is to go home with less money than other girls and feel hopeless.

    Pappilonluvr is right, we do need to know more info about you before we can give you any advice.

    How long have you been dancing? If you're a newbie, then don't beat yourself up about it, give it time. If you've been dancing for a while, you could be burnt out so switching clubs, taking some time off from work, or focusing on other aspects of the adult industry could help.

    You say you work at one of the best places in your city; what makes it the best? What kind of club is it - because it could be completely incompatible with your hustling style. Example: if you prefer the sit down longer approach to hustling, you might not do well in a "wanna dance" sort of environment.

    I'm also a very shy person in life as well, but that's why it's good to create a stripper persona. Tell yourself that you are a completely different person as soon as you step into the club. Work on creating a perfect image/persona. Do you want to be seen as a naughty girl next door, vampy seductress, etc. . dress and act accordingly. it's all an act after all and as an actress you can be anyone you want to be, you can be as confident and outgoing as you choose to be. it's hard to do at first, but it gets easier over time - I promise!

    Also, don't beat yourself up if you have a bad day. We ALL have bad days. Some of it does have to do with the recession and since that is out of our control, there is no reason to stress about it. Focus on being the best that you can possibly be at work - work with what you have. If there's only a handful of customers in the club, don't get discouraged, but talk to them instead and hustle them as best as you know how, because if you don't approach them, another girl will and you will be losing out on potentially a lof of money.

    Definitely read Hustle Hut and buy self motivating books (I believe there's a thread with a list somewhere on here of all the good books that have hustling/business advice); then there's Dancer Wealth which I hear is really good. Read Avalon's blog on that site; her advice is very valuable and trustworthy.

    Make sure to also relax. Do something nice for yourself after each shift, especially if you have reached your money goal. Get a pedicure, a massage, makeup - whatever it is that makes you feel good and more confident.

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    Default Re: Im not sure.

    Well where I work is a classy place. N im just not doing so great. Im a newbie. Its like I cant hustle the right way. Idk if its because im too shy or if Its just wrong environment. I know the place I wanna work im haveing a hard time to get a job there. Idk what else to do. My bf is tired of seeing me cry and be depressed. I feel like im not attractive enough. i just dont know
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    Default Re: Im not sure.

    i see you are in illinois.. are you near chicago? all i hear about chicago is high house fees and a struggle to make money.

    how much is the house fee at your club?

    if it is too high, you might want to call up other clubs and see if there is a lower one. the 'best place in town' might not equate to the best place for a newbie. if you are in a club with ridiculous house fees and cutthroat girls, it might be heard to cut your teeth as a shy newbie. and if it is a really nice club and you want to get comfy, try not to burn your bridges with it. but maybe a low key dive bar where fees are low and you can build your confidence up?





    The house fee is 60 on weekends and 25.00 during the day. I live in peoria. There are four strip clubs total. Only two are worth working for. I work at a classier place. Where the guys are picky and kinda up tight. Its not the confidence its more of I dont think im as appealing to these guys as I would for others at Big als. I wanna work at Big als. or this place called kappa cabanna but thats an hour away. Idk if its worth it. Ive heard great things about it.
    You hold my heart in thh palm of your hand. My body and soul in your arms. My feeling in your heart. Your my heart and life. The one I will love for an eternity. The one who reads my mind and knows whats in my heart. So lucky to have you and my boys. Ur sexy body burned into my mind. Your eyes make me weak in the knees. Your lips taste so sweet. My hunny and soulmate. Yours forever in a lifetime. Love you baby.
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