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    Question Fetish Customers!!!

    Hey.. so another thread that i posted inspired me to start this one.

    Ladies, especially those who are good with fetish customers, how do you find the fetish guys? A lot of fetish guys are normal looking people who need to have it brought out from them.

    And Guys who have fetishes, what is your fetish and how do you choose a girl who will help you enact your fetish? Do you find her? or are you shy and does she have to make you feel comfortable or maybe find out for herself?

    For me personally, i will often throw in some discussion of kink in the conversation if it seems appropriate and if it gets a positive response, then i will press the matter further. And i will do things during a dance, like maybe scratch a guy on the back of the neck, and if he seems to be very into it then i might find out if he likes pain or kink. i am good at finding guys who like pain but not as good at finding guys who like the other fetishes. A lot of girls seem to attract the foot fetish guys, i wish i could find them. its rare that i get these. last night i got a boot fetish guy, he mentioned that he liked my boots and it seemed to be more than an aesthetic complement, so i probed further and found out that he had a boot fetish.
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    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
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    A few ways. For instance when I've gotten a fetish guy it was usually alluded to right away. You can't always tell unless you ask. I've had feet guys, hair guys (had guys who paid me to brush my hair because they loved long hair), armpit guy (this was gross) and a few guys that paid me to smack them. In the past I've also advertised for these guys, in particular feet guys because I love having my feet massaged. The guy I love (the guy I refer to as flakey) is a foot fetish and how it started was he asked me if he could massage my feet. It revolved to him sucking my feet and getting off to this (this btw happened long after I left the club).

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    I wonder if I just don't get these guys since I work in such small clubs.

    Do you usually find fetishists in big clubs, where people are more anonymous?

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    I have a fetish for erotic clothes - stockings (specially fishnet), garter belt, latex clothes (dress, mini skirt, or lingerie), body stockings, corset, stilletos, dom boots, etc. I also like any outfit (usually black and gothic) that makes you look like a dom.

    Fetish clothes will definitely get my attention.
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    I have a few different fetishes that get me going, but absolutely love when the dancer has her hands on my throat. I do like pain and find that isn't that hard to figure out who is into that since a lot of dancers will go for the nipples sometimes. I'll usually say something like "it's ok to do what you want with them" After that the fetish discussions usually get going.

    One way I have found myself deciding which Dancers might be more fetish friendly is if they are wearing a collar of some sort. Nothing scientific, but find when they have one of those choker collars on, they are more than not open to fetishes.

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    I've tried to lure foot guys into the club via craigslist ads, but it didn't work.
    I emailed a few a few months ago and nothing panned out. I was dissapointed 'cause I love having my feet massaged and would like to figure out how to lure them. I don't really think many of them pay women to rub the feets because so many women enjoy it. I think they probably just run the idea by their women friends and most of the women are like "hell yeah " ( regarding a free foot rub ).
    I remember a guy in college doing this to my roomate and I . He got access to all kinds of hot coed feet, but never paid . By the time we figured out he was surely getting off on it, we didn't care. He gave a seriously good foot rub.

    So basically .... I would LOVE to learn how to get feet guys, but I'm also good at dom type stuff too.

    My issue is that I get confused easily if I don't know exactly what they want. I don't want to get caught in ackwardness of me not quite doing what works for them , but them not saying anything. I'll have to get better at probing.

    We had a leg guy in the other day. I thought that was cool. He bought dances from the new girl though ( who just got fired ). He should have bought them from me instead.
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    I tend to get foot fetish guys... but I think they are really attracted to the fact that I get pedicures. I've also had the armpit fetish guys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    And Guys who have fetishes, what is your fetish and how do you choose a girl who will help you enact your fetish? Do you find her? or are you shy and does she have to make you feel comfortable or maybe find out for herself?
    I don't usually seek out the dancer and go get her, I wait for her to come to me, but I'm lazy. Yes I am shy about telling girls about some of my fetishistic desires, some I am not shy about.

    Fetishes:
    Stockings (not fishnet) and high heels: not difficult to find dancers in these. My favorites will usually go change if they see me.

    Muscular backs, thighs, and calves: Again, not too difficult to find girls that are kind of muscular. climbing to pole has its benefits Don't like boots cause I can't see her legs or feel them.

    Spanking: More of a problematic fetish to enact in a public dance area, but I have met a few dancers willing to climb over my lap. I don't just slap girls on their asses to see what they will do, the few who are into it have always asked me to do it first.

    Other fetishes I'll keep to myself.



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    During a lap dance break on the couches at a club you my know. Dancer kicks off her shoes and throws her feet up on my lap. I begin to lightly rub her feet of course asking the incredibly stoopid question:

    Me: Do you like foot rubs? (Duh)
    Her: (emphatic reply) OMG, I luuuuv them, I can have an orgasm just getting my feet rubbed.

    I doubt she had an O, but she got a good foot rub.
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    im into financial domination and manipulation and im pretty submissive. i don't find a certain girl...i think i just give off the vibes that im a sucker and can be taken to the cleaners.

    last girl i saw was able to read me and we were talking and she was like "we're going for dances after this drink" and we went. In the private area she said "give me your wallet" so i handed it to her, she opened it and saw i had $100 and took it. she gave me 5 dances and after that she said "come on, you need to go to the ATM" after that, she took my phone number down to contact me again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UrbanOzz View Post
    im into financial domination and manipulation and im pretty submissive. i don't find a certain girl...i think i just give off the vibes that im a sucker and can be taken to the cleaners.

    last girl i saw was able to read me and we were talking and she was like "we're going for dances after this drink" and we went. In the private area she said "give me your wallet" so i handed it to her, she opened it and saw i had $100 and took it. she gave me 5 dances and after that she said "come on, you need to go to the ATM" after that, she took my phone number down to contact me again.
    I think you're full of shit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    So basically .... I would LOVE to learn how to get feet guys, but I'm also good at dom type stuff too.
    If you sit across from a guy and rest your feet on his lap, wouldn't he naturally start to massage your feet? You should give this a try if you like foot massages.

    I don't consider myself a "feet guy",... more of a leg and breast guy, but I love giving foot rubs to dancers. I don't pay to do this, but I always end up buying dances from them.

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    My issue is that I get confused easily if I don't know exactly what they want. I don't want to get caught in ackwardness of me not quite doing what works for them , but them not saying anything. I'll have to get better at probing.
    Yeah, one time a dancer squeezed my nipples all of a sudden. It hurt like hell (not in an arousing way) and I almost yelled "What the fuck!" But, the pain, although intense, was short and subsided very quickly, so my anger passed.
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    ^ Hmmmm .... Maybe I could try that. A foot / leg rub along with some dances would totally work. It would have to be early in the night though. I have a super fast hustle style and don't really see this working well in the later hours.

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    I think half the battle or more is preparation. If you'd like to get foot/leg guys, maybe keep an unopened package of thigh highs in your dancer bag. You'll see it every time you get ready to dance, and you'll have it on your mind. Then, if you get one of these dudes, you'll have some new stockings you can put on just for him, and sell them to him when you are done playing, for some extra cash. Take good care of your feet too...make them pretty and presentable. When you do that, think about why you're doing it. You want them worshipped right? You want them to get you big money.

    I also agree with the idea of wearing a collar or choker to put the message out there that you are a little different/kinky. A dancer I know carries a flogger in her purse with the stringy/floggy end hanging out. No doubt about the message there.

    My two cents.

    Here's a thread I did a couple of years ago about this stuff...lot's of cool tips from dancers:
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=110330

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    I like to piss on midgets..don't judge

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    Sounds like an expensive fetish. ^^

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    ^ Hmmmm .... Maybe I could try that. A foot / leg rub along with some dances would totally work. It would have to be early in the night though. I have a super fast hustle style and don't really see this working well in the later hours.
    I'm wondering if this is why I don't tend to ferret out the fetish customers--I have a relatively fast hustle style as well (though I slow down once he's spending money, of course!).

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    Many strippers have told me that fetish customers are some of the best. Of course if the fetish is too weird the dancer will have to send them away but otherwise can be profitable. Just as an example, Miss D told me of this one guy who several times took her and another dancer to VIP and spent the entire time putting $20's between their toes so he could rub their feet while doing so. Many other stories that are edgier but I won't go into. The point being, from what I hear hear fetish guys are more focused on a particular act as opposed to being general mileage hounds. Miss D told me they are pretty rare but when found are very bankable.

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    Honestly, in my short hustle I include little key words and actions to work towards the various popular fetishes, and gauge the responses. I also always make a point to ask what they're 'into'. I'll usually confess something 'secret' about my sexual desires first - it makes the more comfortable telling me their taboos.

    Foot Fetish guys: Always rub my ankles when I'm dancing for them. Also while I'm hustling I'll cross and re-cross my legs a couple times, as well as maybe rub the bridge of my foot nonchalantly. If his eyes follow my hands, there's a good chance he's into feet. Men who don't like feet would rather stare at your breasts/eyes/mouth etc.

    Submissive: There are so many types of Submissive fetishes, and you can really never tell who has one. General statements like "Are you being a bad boy? Am I going to have to punish you" are usually responded to well by sub guys, but are still general enough to float if the customer is vanilla without any type of 'fetish'. If they agree to the statement above (or even respond with nervous humor) I'll order them to get me a drink. If that jives then the poor bastard is all mine for the evening.

    Dominating: I don't dance for these guys. I can't not be in control. It' not safe or enjoyable for me.

    Trannie/Cross Dressing: Men who have a thing for men dressed as women or even dressing up as women themselves are far and few between, but they are GREAT customers; most strippers freak when they hear a guy is into this, so they'll be loyal, and high spending. They also tend to be easily excitable. I can kinda pick these guys out pretty well (I dated a guy who liked to cross-dress once), so once I figure them out it's just a matter of getting them to confess. I find telling them my favorite movie is Rocky Horror is a good ice-breaker. Talking about other taboo stuff ("Oh, I love raping guys in the ass with my strap-on, it's so hot!") will get 'em talking too.

    Pedo/Roleplaying: A lot of guys want to fuck the high school cheerleader. Usually if a man tells me I look young (and tells me more than once) it's because he's fantasizing about me being young. I just take my cues from there. If the line I mentioned earlier "Am I going to have to punish you?" is followed by a "No ma'am" he's probably into teachers or his boss. This is a fairly fun, harmless fetish (if you can even call it that) to figure out. Guys will almost always tell you this upfront. Sometimes I'll ask a guy "Are you a Professor" and he'll say something to the extent of "I could be". Pretty easy to figure out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    I think you're full of shit.
    i don't give a shit. you're just pissed at me and hate me because we ended on bad terms because i
    a) never paid for your tits
    b) never bought you a birthday gift when i said i would.


    financial domination online is fun for a week, then it lacks substance. Real Time is a whole other story.

    So slander my name all you want and think what you want.

    back on topic:

    another fetish i have in the club is when the dancer keeps ordering me drinks when i'm with her so i get loaded.

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    4everresolutions, those sound like very good strategies.

    But, I still don't get how you can practice fetishes in the SC. The foot rubbing is easy. (Although, a dancer once told me the 'rule' was she could not take off her shoes, so we only took them half-way off, just enough for me to rub her feet.) But, how do you satisfy other fetishes in the SC? Is it just verbal, i.e., sex-talk while dancing for them? Even a VIP room isn't likely to be equipped with the 'toys' necessary for fetish play.
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    I have a foot fetish, just look at my avatar

    I constantly check out dancers feet, it's the main reason I go to strip clubs. If a dancer sets her feet in my lap while sitting with me I am hooked.

    Some dancers catch me looking at their feet and I guess they don't catch on to my fetish and either look uncomfortable or move their feet to where I can't see them. Then there are the girls who do catch on and show them off, again I'm hooked.

    I don't care for boots. My favorite shoes are clear.

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    But, I still don't get how you can practice fetishes in the SC.
    It's not tough, really, from a logistical standpoint--most clubs worth a damn have the requisite spaces, but finding a girl attuned to my particular fetish is something of a challenge; they frequently lack the finesse and sensitivity necessary, so I trend toward more experienced girls, usually in the late twenties/early thirties, but it's still hit or miss.
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    Quote Originally Posted by UrbanOzz View Post
    i don't give a shit. you're just pissed at me and hate me because we ended on bad terms because i
    a) never paid for your tits
    b) never bought you a birthday gift when i said i would.


    financial domination online is fun for a week, then it lacks substance. Real Time is a whole other story.

    So slander my name all you want and think what you want.

    back on topic:

    another fetish i have in the club is when the dancer keeps ordering me drinks when i'm with her so i get loaded.
    And yet you sent me an email a few days ago begging me to make an amazon wish list so that you could buy me gifts periodically.... hmmmm funny.......
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    [QUOTE=UrbanOzz;1992788]i don't give a shit. you're just pissed at me and hate me because we ended on bad terms because i
    a) never paid for your tits
    b) never bought you a birthday gift when i said i would.

    and I definitely don't hate you, quite the contrary.......
    Quote Originally Posted by AznExtasy View Post
    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    You can say that again.. not just on here but men in general. Guys are so damn lame, the only way they can halfway make up for it is by opening their wallets.

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