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    so at work on friday to guys came in i was having a bad night so i i was n a bitchy mood so i just grabbed the guy by the hand led him to the vip n told him 30 dollars well it worked he got a dance and tiped me 20 then after the song i did the lets keep goiin and he sayeds i got to get back to my friend hes the kind that will leave me here so ok we go out there and talk to his friend again and then its top of the hour 2 for 40 so i get him he starts to head back to the vip with me and his friend grabs him by the hand and tells him no we just got here the guy i was with was payn but his friend kept talking him out of buyin me drinks and dances we have a drink hustle too so what do u do about cock blockin guys his friend messed up my money i know i could of drained the other guy
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    that was very hard to read...LOL! Use periods please!!!
    As for an answer to your question, it's very hard to work a guy when his friend is jumping in and cock blocking. Usually there's no winning in this situation because guy's friend is going to follow you both around and tell your customer, "no, it's not worth it etc.." When this happens to me I will hunt down another girl and put her on my customer's friend and keep him occupied.

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    lol. sorry! hehehe
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    ugh. what is he, his friend's wife?
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    I think that's the most annoying thing ever!!! But Kaiarose gave the best answer. You have to get his mind of you two and on to something that will hopefully loosen him up. But make sure you bring over somebody fun, that knows he's being a jerk and knows how to get him out of it. Otherwise, he'll just end up being worse. This happens all the time, so good luck girlie

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    This is my solution to the problem.
    What I'll do is partner up with another girl friend of mine and we'll tag team the guys that came in together. That way their attention is OFF of each other.

    Then I'll ask some closing questions like: "So who's treating this evening? Is it your friend?"
    That way when it comes to actually closing the sale he can't say "Well... my friend is buying. So I'll have to ask him."
    I'll know that he's treating himself.

    Then I'll ask another closing question like: "What brought you in tonight?"
    If he says "The women, a good time, titties, etc." Then when it comes time to closing the sale he can't say "I just want to relax and talk to my friend." He ALREADY told me he was here for the women.

    Then I'll ask "Is there something you're not telling me?." Etc... As a saleswomen I want to learn what is stopping my customer from buying. That way I can negotiate. They're not going to tell me very easily. So I need to get it out of them!

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    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    This is my solution to the problem.
    What I'll do is partner up with another girl friend of mine and we'll tag team the guys that came in together. That way their attention is OFF of each other.

    Then I'll ask some closing questions like: "So who's treating this evening? Is it your friend?"
    That way when it comes to actually closing the sale he can't say "Well... my friend is buying. So I'll have to ask him."
    I'll know that he's treating himself.

    Then I'll ask another closing question like: "What brought you in tonight?"
    If he says "The women, a good time, titties, etc." Then when it comes time to closing the sale he can't say "I just want to relax and talk to my friend." He ALREADY told me he was here for the women.

    Then I'll ask "Is there something you're not telling me?." Etc... As a saleswomen I want to learn what is stopping my customer from buying. That way I can negotiate. They're not going to tell me very easily. So I need to get it out of them!
    I agree, double teaming sounds like it would work perfectly in this situation.

    Totally not trying to threadjack (sorry but, relevant!), but what would you say if the guy says "oh just here for a drink/came in for lunch/relaxing today" instead?

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    Personally, I've kept two guys occupied at once. When his friend starts hassling him to stay make some joke about how "next time it will be your turn" - or make it "his turn" right then & see if the first guy will pay.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sunshine16 View Post
    I agree, double teaming sounds like it would work perfectly in this situation.

    Totally not trying to threadjack (sorry but, relevant!), but what would you say if the guy says "oh just here for a drink/came in for lunch/relaxing today" instead?
    At that point there's not much to do but move on. I'll usually say something along the lines of "Okay sweetie, but if you change your mind, I'm the best desert you could get!"
    Just don't count on it.
    I always make sure I ask "What brings you in tonight?" quickly after I learn his name. That way if it's just to eat lunch, I didn't waste much of my time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    Personally, I've kept two guys occupied at once. When his friend starts hassling him to stay make some joke about how "next time it will be your turn" - or make it "his turn" right then & see if the first guy will pay.
    I think doing it that way is a good idea too. That way if one doesn't want to buy, you can just go to the next one.

    One of my goals is to get both guys in vip. One for me and one for my friend. That way, after a period of time in vip, we can switch guys.
    I find if a guy was willing to go into vip once, he'll go in vip again. (given that he's still at the club after round one)

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    Quote Originally Posted by renaissancelove View Post
    At that point there's not much to do but move on. I'll usually say something along the lines of "Okay sweetie, but if you change your mind, I'm the best desert you could get!"
    Just don't count on it.
    I always make sure I ask "What brings you in tonight?" quickly after I learn his name. That way if it's just to eat lunch, I didn't waste much of my time.
    Very true

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