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    Hi! I want to dance, but there are only a couple clubs in my area. I had my eye on one near here and read the reviews for it and it seems like a pretty decent place.
    My question is, would it be appropriate to go into the club and not only observe the girls who work there, but also ask them about it to get a better feel for it? Should I tip them? Would it bother them?
    I feel like these are all such newb questions, but by the way some of you guys talk about them, strippers can seem like bitches! SW has been immeasurably helpful, but I'd like to talk to some girls there.
    Any advice?

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    I am newbie too... Even experienced strippers ignore newbies or other dancers they just focus their work and they can not help u. New girls keep comin my club still. I have been workin last 2 weeks however i dont even have time to help any new girl AT my club...i have to focus my own thing and i have too many customers waitin me out there

    Instead of tippin and try to get closer with them just go manager and talk to him let him know u want a job.This would be better. I dont thinks so dancers would help u they would not care and dont have time for this.


    When u start working for a while nobody s gonna talk to u be prepared, Actually u dont need to talk with another dancers too much u will be pretty busy and focus customers.. hangin out with another dancers not gonna help u make more money... instead go talk with customers.

    Bring your own stuffs,dont ask anyone to anythin they wont share with u anyways. I see another newbie dancers who tryin to compliment dancers regardless .. i think this is unnecesarry and never follow anyone like a lost puppy at the club. Smile make your money dont worry about friendship .


    No no baby oil or lotions dont even bring them at the club... these stuffs make stage very dangerious.

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    That's very helpful. Thank you, missplayful.
    Sounds like dancers are one-woman wolf packs

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    Hey! I'm new, too. When I wanted to feel out the club I want to audition at, I went in and spoke with a manager. I also sat at a table and watched two stage dances, but I didn't try to talk to any girls. Definitely if you plan on staying a while, be prepared to tip, especially if you want to talk to a dancer. I think it's kind of rude to just go and watch. Most importantly though, go talk to the manager, and make sure you look really hot when you do so! Good luck

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    Checking out a club as a "customer" is a great idea! It allows you to get a feel for what you're getting yourself into. I agree with leila to bring a little cash to tip when talking to the girls. Other that good luck!

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    If a girl asked me about dancing and it was slow/I wasn't busy then I'd explain to her the basics.

    I've gone in to clubs as a customer and asked about the club and most girls are very willing to give me honest answers. I usually give them $20 if they sit with me for a song or two.

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    strippers are more friendly when they see money so I'd definitely tip them and try to ask a couple questions. sit at the stage and if most guys are putting one dollar on the tip rail, tip three dollars down and they'll be GLAD to talk to you

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    It definitely wouldn't hurt to go into the club and check it out. I would recommend talking to a waitress, and asking her to find you a "cool" dancer that wouldn't mind talking to you about dancing. Tip her and the dancer for their time, because they are at work and could be hustling from legitimate customers rather than helping you out. Definitely talk to the manager too, he can give you the club rules and regulations.

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    Default Re: Talking to girls in the club

    If you really feel like you don't want to just go try it ( obviously simply working a night would be the very best way to check out a club ) , then yeah , go in and tip a bit and ask a few questions . You can talk to the manager while you are there . Bring your heels and be ready though. That' what's killer about dancing. You can get started and get paid IMMEDIATELY ( this is what keeps me addicted to it ). Your location says "New Mexico" .... I want to go to Albequerque i a week or two. If that's where you are , please share the info you find!

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    Default Re: Talking to girls in the club

    I usually do this when I try somewhere new. But I always take them for a dance or at least give them money for their time. Its also helpful to pick a girl who seems friendly and who has a similar look to you so you can know your own earning potential. Also take whatever she says with a grain of salt. Remember you are her competition.

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