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    How do you ladies handle camming and death of someone close to you? Do you take time off is so how long? Do you get right back to work? I am having a hard time getting back to work after my aun't passing last month.

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    Sorry to hear about your loss. I think you should give yourself time to grieve & remember all the good times you spent with her. Go back to camming when you feel you are ready. Going back too soon & having a really bad night=not good.

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    Take the time you need. Its hard to bring yourself to the point where you can entertain men with a smile on your face when all you feel like do is crying and grieving. So take the time to grieve- your fans will understand. I'd advise to keep them in the loop and let them know that you're going through a rough time, and maybe in the meantime while you're taking time for yourself, if you can, do up some videos to sell for offline tips (if your site allow them) or offer ways for guys to help supplement your income while you do what you need to do. Sorry for your loss and hope you can find peace. <3

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    I was on-cam, chatting with a customer when my mother called me and told me that my father had died. I think I worked sporadically after that and got back into a regular routine shortly thereafter. I just... did it.

    That was two years ago, this month. Its hard every single day. That's all I have to say. I'm sorry.
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    Thanks ladies. I will take time off. I just can't bring myself to cam yet.

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    Default Re: Camming after a close death

    Quote Originally Posted by Camgirltee View Post
    How do you ladies handle camming and death of someone close to you? Do you take time off is so how long? Do you get right back to work? I am having a hard time getting back to work after my aun't passing last month.

    I am still dealing with my grandmas death and therapy is the best way to get over the emotions that come up with it.

    but it takes time to get back on.
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    Default Re: Camming after a close death

    While it may be to soon to return to camming it can be very important to return to some sort of routine. Whether it's just doing the same things each day or maybe taking a volunteer job it's important not to get yourself to lost in grief while still honoring your feelings.

    If you find yourself having difficulty getting back to worki for an extended period of time it might be good to talk to a therapist for a few sessions.

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    I have a job as a courier! So that is taking up my time now. I got the job the next day after the funeral. I was happy to be hired. I love driving so this is my thereapy. Thanks goodness.

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