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    oooh
    i came across this http://www.sugarsugar.com/blog/

    its gooood

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    I don't know about that 'nothing' part.

    Some of these guys expect an awful lot even without the sex. Like you have to sit there for hours on end, pretending that the guy (and his friends, and his clubs he goes to, etc., etc.) are fascinating and exciting, when in reality they are boring as all hell. Or worse, the guy is one of these braggarts who never shuts up about how great he is, how the President of the fucking USA, or whothehellever, relies on his every word etc., etc.

    That's actually very hard work.

    I couldn't do it. Even if I didn't have to fuck some fat rich old lady, if she was boring I'd be dying to get the hell away from her within 15 minutes. Spending an entire weekend with her would be sheer torture. But I am not a patient man; not when it comes to boring people anyway.

    Not to mention the fact that for a lot of women, maintaining the kind of physical appeal it takes to keep a SugarDaddy happy takes a lot of effort. Working out regularly, dieting, spending a lot of time and effort on dressing and makeup and such.
    QFT. Having SD's ended up being much more work than working in a SC. What makes it even more difficult is that the transactions are much less clear than at the SC. So you might spend a lot of time with the person and not actually get any money from it.

    Took me about a month to burn out.

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    ^ thats exactly what i was wondering about today. do you just hang out with them and expect them to give you what they think is a reasonable amount of money /gifts that might never turn up? i dont want to date losers for free.
    im still skirting around this SD issue. im not meeting up with anyone unless im clear how its gonna run

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    ^ I posted the SD thread on the first page of this one. Read through all of it!!

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    its probably an art in itself getting the money out instead of free dates. kinda like sitting with a custy in the SC who has no intention of buying dances

    ^ i read through most of it! its 19 pages....... ima digest it slow

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    Quote Originally Posted by anouk.oui View Post
    its probably an art in itself getting the money out instead of free dates. kinda like sitting with a custy in the SC who has no intention of buying dances

    ^ i read through most of it! its 19 pages....... ima digest it slow
    Yes. Having an SD can really suck if you're not up to it. I'm way too independent to suck up my pride and pretend I need someone's money outside of the SC. I seriously burned out after like a month.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SuperFlyGuy View Post
    And now for the male perspective, lol! Granted, I'm single and not looking to manipulate the situation for straight-up sex, unlike many guys on those sites. But I do enjoy younger woman and have had many very nice relationships, yes relationships, w/people I've met on a few of the SD sites.

    Took me awhile to realize this, but not everyone is looking for the same thing. Some guys and girls do want sex for $$$. Others want arm candy/companionship as the OP said. As in real life, everyone is different and everything is negotiable. So when starting a dialogue w/someone new, one of the first questions I'll ask is whether they're just looking for an "arrangement" or if they want something real.

    After that, like anything else, it's just a matter of meeting up and testing the chemistry in person. Hooked up with several of these girls on the first date, in fact, leading to some nice relationships lasting for months. Becoming friends and lovers, neither of us had to ask for anything. Everything was based on genuine feelings for each other.

    Seldom was $$$ ever exchanged because to me, that would make it feel too much like a business transaction. So instead, we'd travel together, go to shows, nice restaurants, and shopping trips. But there were many nights spent at home too, just playing pool, watching movies and making love. We'd even do local stuff sometimes like mini golf, festivals, the zoo, etc. All told, I wasn't spending major $$$, but we shared some very nice times together.

    Again, what I'm saying is that it all depends on the people involved. And surprisingly, this is how it goes, even on the SD sites. Just today, I spoke w/three young ladies from two of the sites. I'll be meeting the college student this weekend, and based on our discussion, we seem to have a lot in common, and she's looking for a relationship. The single mom is looking for the same as she's in an uncomfortable living situation w/her ex. And the girl in UT is looking to connect w/someone from the site and then relocate.

    So all of the guys out there aren't the same...and neither are the ladies. Hope that helps, and good luck in finding what you're looking for!!!
    See, I don't get this either. The site is called "seeking arrangement" or "sugar daddy for me" or whatever. Its all about those arrangements.

    Any girls you are talking to on the site are telling you they like you because its strategic. If they just wanted to meet a nice guy, they would go to Okcupid or match. Now, you seem an affable enough fellow, and have proven success. So whatever works for you, fine.

    But its just as annoying to be on a site like that and have everyone looking for traditional dating, as having the guys looking for cheap hookers.

    Honestly, I think those sites are crap. Ladies, you are giving men way too much control here. They are waving that carrot in front of your faces and you come scrambling. At least in the SC the transaction is clear.

    I had one guy that was great, but there was sex involved, which is fine with me. Tried another who was awful. Never again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    Yes. Having an SD can really suck if you're not up to it. I'm way too independent to suck up my pride and pretend I need someone's money outside of the SC. I seriously burned out after like a month.
    guess we just gotta take it slow and see how we go. it would be nice but im not expecting great heights of everything for nothing. just curious i guess
    i prob wouldnt last long coz i hate socialising...

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    See, I don't get this either. The site is called "seeking arrangement" or "sugar daddy for me" or whatever. Its all about those arrangements.

    Any girls you are talking to on the site are telling you they like you because its strategic. If they just wanted to meet a nice guy, they would go to Okcupid or match. Now, you seem an affable enough fellow, and have proven success. So whatever works for you, fine.

    But its just as annoying to be on a site like that and have everyone looking for traditional dating, as having the guys looking for cheap hookers.

    Honestly, I think those sites are crap. Ladies, you are giving men way too much control here. They are waving that carrot in front of your faces and you come scrambling. At least in the SC the transaction is clear.

    I had one guy that was great, but there was sex involved, which is fine with me. Tried another who was awful. Never again.
    Thanks for the props, and I totally see your point. Although I can't speak on the motivations of those women looking for an actual "arrangement". The ones I've had relationships with from these sites have told me that guys they meet in the bars and on sites like OkC are immature, unmotivated and not very established. So they're looking for higher quality. And they appreciate that I'm not the typical balding, overweight and often married guy on the SD sites just looking to trade $$$ for sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Six View Post
    I'd guess that most people in the world who would welcome a person who showered us with gifts and attention in exchange for nothing.

    Ummm excuse Me? "Nothing"? Why is it that when it comes to money suddenly a girl isnt worth anything unless she's on her back with her legs in the air and nothing else counts. I am intelligent, funny, opinionated, I give hours and hours of entertainment, THAT'S what I want to give instead of sex. Jeezus. Nothing, my ass...

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    ^ DJoser had a great retort after that guy posted.

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    Ya I saw that after I posted, I was too pissed off to keep reading.

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    ^Lol, that happens to me too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    I am intelligent, funny, opinionated, I give hours and hours of entertainment, THAT'S what I want to give instead of sex. Jeezus. Nothing, my ass...
    Cool! That's what I have to give too. I am also intelligent, funny, a great conversationalist and can provide hours and hours of entertainment. I have that to give instead of money and from now on that is what I will expect to exchange for lap dances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Ummm excuse Me? "Nothing"? Why is it that when it comes to money suddenly a girl isnt worth anything unless she's on her back with her legs in the air and nothing else counts. I am intelligent, funny, opinionated, I give hours and hours of entertainment, THAT'S what I want to give instead of sex. Jeezus. Nothing, my ass...
    I opted not to reply to the other guy, since I didn't really care, but since you quoted me...Did I say anything about providing sex? No. My original response was to someone who wished for a SD that only wanted company. Wouldn't everyone love to receive money in exchange for being taken out? I find the concept of expecting money for "providing hours of entertainment" (aka hanging out) to be ridiculous. Calling it "very hard work" is laughable.

    I'm not saying there shouldn't be SDs or you shouldn't go seek one or whatever. Do whatever you want.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Ummm excuse Me? "Nothing"? Why is it that when it comes to money suddenly a girl isnt worth anything unless she's on her back with her legs in the air and nothing else counts. I am intelligent, funny, opinionated, I give hours and hours of entertainment, THAT'S what I want to give instead of sex. Jeezus. Nothing, my ass...
    Quote Originally Posted by The Six View Post
    I opted not to reply to the other guy, since I didn't really care, but since you quoted me...Did I say anything about providing sex? No. My original response was to someone who wished for a SD that only wanted company. Wouldn't everyone love to receive money in exchange for being taken out? I find the concept of expecting money for "providing hours of entertainment" (aka hanging out) to be ridiculous. Calling it "very hard work" is laughable.
    There's validity in both of these. In my opinion it would really come down to a case by case basis.

    At the end of the day though... This isn't backbreaking labor in the sun. Nor is it sitting by the pool counting the hundreds. To pretend that it is either/or is laughable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jester214 View Post
    At the end of the day though... This isn't backbreaking labor in the sun.
    You're right--they're different. I'd prefer the backbreaking labor.

    After some of the people I met during my short stint in SD world, I'm not exaggerating.

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    ^I can imagine...

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    lol. if you don't think it's real work, there's no convincing you. if you don't want to spend money, don't. it's that easy. if someone else wants to spend his, well, tough shit. deal with it. different people value different things.

    when i go out to eat, i tip over 20% just to be given my food and left alone. other people expect a server to come back over and over again to kiss their ass and listen to their bs stories, then only tip 10% because it's not really work. pretending that listening to someone's bullshit isn't hard work IS the hard work.

    people who are generous usually just like being generous. they don't think about life the same way stingy jerks do.
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    I just recently signed up for a SD website and I'm a little nervous because nobody knows that I dance and I sure as hell don't want people knowing I'm on a SD website but I posted a pic of my face anyway because I don't think I would get too many hits otherwise.

    so far so good thoug

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    update: I got a ton of responses. plenty to weed through as I figured. some weird things ("I'll pay you to do a rape fantasy with me") and of course guys not looking to pay for dates but also a bunch of serious offers

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    i got a reply from a somewhat decent sounding guy who wants to fly me up to the gold coast to hang out.

    but i dont know id rather get to know them home base before i commit to travelling someone who could turn out to be a psycho. i think ill just wait till he comes to sydney.

    i figured some blue's opinion is not worth listening to in this case, theyre the one in the SC who will waste your time to chat for hours then try and huste you home for $100.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anouk.oui View Post
    i got a reply from a somewhat decent sounding guy who wants to fly me up to the gold coast to hang out.

    but i dont know id rather get to know them home base before i commit to travelling someone who could turn out to be a psycho. i think ill just wait till he comes to sydney.

    i figured some blue's opinion is not worth listening to in this case, theyre the one in the SC who will waste your time to chat for hours then try and huste you home for $100.
    seriously try to find something a little more local or ask up front how much he'll pay you and ALWAYS get the cash up front. I had one of my regulars totally BS me into going out for coffee, he said he'd give me 50 bucks to go out for half an hour before work and he didn't even give me the 50 dollars. I asked for it after and he was like "oh shoot can I give it to you at the club?" and he never did. I was LIVID about that. I can't imagine flying out somewhere to waste time and not make any money.

    plus don't you think it's a little weird that he wants you to fly so far away from your home? tell him you would be comfortable meeting him close by

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    Quote Originally Posted by anouk.oui View Post
    Im not sure which category this fits sorry...

    I was looking at the sugar daddy threads and thought it would be nice.

    My idea of having a SD is having an established, intelligent and mature man take me to dinner, galleries, social events and in exchange for my company [arm candy] he gives me gifts or cash, takes care of school expenses etc.

    am i jaded?

    i signed up for seekingarrangements and all the men there speak of wanting the same thing i email them and theyre like no thanks you dont want sex. and im like damn right?

    can someone explain to me how this works, and how do you go about finding and keeping someone who is satisfied with the conditions above?

    or am i being a silly billy blondie again
    And the man gets what again from such an arrangement? There's no lack of very good looking women who are more then happy to have such a set up with a wealthy guy willing to pay for such things, but what he gets out of all that is you on his arm for social events? You would have to be a true 10, have a PHD in physics (bio physics preferred...), and a JD, and be an amazing conversationalist for it to approach worth the type of $$$ you are talking about, for no sex at all.

    You are asking for an awful lot from some man in exchange for not very much frankly, if one is looking at it from a strictly $$$ for services type set up.

    A high end escort service could supply great looking arm candy all day long.

    I have some very wealthy friends in FL who are not great looking, a tad older, and either too busy or not interested in commitments, who have such arrangements, and I have noticed they seemed to "supplement" the sex with others if they had one they enjoyed that didn't include sex. One friend introduced me to his non sex "friend" and she was stunning beyond belief, had an MD from a top school, was owned several clinics in the southern FL area, but he's a fun guy to hang out with and worth hundred million + easy, and she was married oddly enough.

    It's all good to me if it works for them, and it seemed to, but he still had to get his sex some place, and he does.

    I think you're being unrealistic, but I don't know what you look like, what you have to offer, etc, etc for what amounts to a very expensive date you know will not end with any sex.

    I don't go on dates expecting anything at all, but I also don't pay for people's rent, school, etc,

    Just a male POV. Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    And the man gets what again from such an arrangement? There's no lack of very good looking women who are more then happy to have such a set up with a wealthy guy willing to pay for such things, but what he gets out of all that is you on his arm for social events? You would have to be a true 10, have a PHD in physics (bio physics preferred...), and a JD, and be an amazing conversationalist for it to approach worth the type of $$$ you are talking about, for no sex at all.

    You are asking for an awful lot from some man in exchange for not very much frankly, if one is looking at it from a strictly $$$ for services type set up.

    A high end escort service could supply great looking arm candy all day long.

    I have some very wealthy friends in FL who are not great looking, a tad older, and either too busy or not interested in commitments, who have such arrangements, and I have noticed they seemed to "supplement" the sex with others if they had one they enjoyed that didn't include sex. One friend introduced me to his non sex "friend" and she was stunning beyond belief, had an MD from a top school, was owned several clinics in the southern FL area, but he's a fun guy to hang out with and worth hundred million + easy, and she was married oddly enough.

    It's all good to me if it works for them, and it seemed to, but he still had to get his sex some place, and he does.

    I think you're being unrealistic, but I don't know what you look like, what you have to offer, etc, etc for what amounts to a very expensive date you know will not end with any sex.

    I don't go on dates expecting anything at all, but I also don't pay for people's rent, school, etc,

    Just a male POV. Good luck.
    I'd advise you, and other people with like-minded POV's, to stay out of this thread. As I've said before, the SD issue is very different from escorting and whatnot. There really are guys out there who are willing to pay for a beautiful woman's company/conversation. Yes, even without sex and without a PhD in biophysics and without being a "10".

    I would know--I've met them (as have many women on this board). They aren't super common, but they are definitely, definitely out there.

    So anyone with no helpful information who merely wishes to criticize women looking for SD's can keep their thoughts to themselves.

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