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    Default Customers that make you go "awwww"

    So, we have plenty of threads about asshole customers.
    What about the nice guys??
    I've been really lucky to meet some GREAT guys at work.
    Some are some of my best friends.
    Crazy to me that I'm still in contact with more of my regulars from Vegas than my girlfriends..lol


    Last Valentine's Day I posted something on myspace about bringing me flowers and chocolates to the club. Just kidding around.
    A guy ended up bringing me a giant teddy bear, chocolates, flowers and money.
    I had never met him before. We chatted for a bit and he let me know that he respects what we do. I didn't have to dance for him or anything. I never talked to him again after that, but he made my day.

    On birthday's, I've had regulars bring me in gifts.
    Even when I was pregnant, they bought me baby shower presents.

    The other day at work, there was a guy who kept telling me how beautiful I was.
    It's corny, I know, but it was sweet. He said he didn't know what it was, especially since he's not usually into tattoos, but he said I had the most genuine, sweet smile. I guess, at that time, I NEEDED to hear something sweet. It made my night.
    So did the money he gave me..lol.

    I know there are plenty more good stories....just can't think of any right now.
    What about the rest of you.
    I know not all guys are assholes in the club. What are some sweet things guys have said to you or have done for you. (Besides giving you 100's of 1000's of dollars...lol)

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    Bought me:
    - Flowers
    - Shirts
    - Jewelry
    - Perfume
    - CDs
    - Ordered in dinner for me
    - Homemade desserts

    Written me poems on the spot & done sketches.

    Actually I think one of the sweetest things a guy can do is simply to return to see you. :-) A guy I met last week returned because I started talking to him about Jared Diamond, which happened to be his favourite author. He didn't have money on him the first night & the club didn't take credit cards, but he returned the next night to spend time with me & buy dances.
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    There's one club where I regularly pay to stay off-stage. There's one club regular who most of the house girls know and like. He has a particular preference for brown-skinned women and he will request for me to "please" dance on stage while he is there. He will quickly hand me $50-$100 to go on-stage "just this once" while he is there and give other dancers money to tip me on top of that at the stage. He also will give me tip money whenever I ask if I can tip a dancer. Sometimes, I ask for $20 if I especially like the dancer's look or style or we both do.

    At a different club, a customer I've known for over 5 years always remembers my birthday and special occasions and always buys me a gift (I remember his bday and try to give him a small gift as well or I'll buy a round of champagne). One year, he bought me a pink Chi iron for Xmas because of an off-handed comment I made about how frustrating it can be to straighten my hair and not wanting to bring my own flat iron to work because it would probably get stolen. Because it is BRIGHT pink, it sticks out and has never been stolen after about 2 or so years of owning it. Yay!
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    Aw, these are awesome.
    I love the belly button comment.
    I hear that I have nice knees a lot..lol

    I also like when guys make dollar oragami. Like the rose.
    A lot of girls hate that (more unfolding), but I keep 'em.
    I think they're cute.

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    I love when a man is a real old-school gentlemen and really treats me like a lady.

    I had an (older) gentleman and few weeks ago. He straight up gave me $60 so I would sit and chat with him for 3 songs (because he knew this was my job and didn't expect to get my attention for free). He pulled up a chair for me, bought me a drink, didn't try to grope me while we were chatting and had great stories and only really lovely things to say. Once our 3 songs were up we went to the VIP for a few dances. He was so respectful and nice and charming, it really made my night. Touching is allowed at my club, but he really only touched my legs and back. After our dances he paid me, and tipped well.

    I LOVE men like this. Men who understand that I'm a lady, and a DANCER, and should be treated as such. I think this is the nicest thing a customer can do for me. I don't want or need gifts, but being straightforward about what you want from me (none of this 'come back later, maybe' bullshit), not pushing my boundaries, and speaking to me as a person instead of an object will always be my epitome of an "awww" customer.

    BTW - It's not that I NEVER get guys like this, I'll get maybe 2-3/week and they always mean I'll go home happy. This man just stood out in particular because he was very funny.



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    I had a customer bring me in a dozen roses once! I felt bad because I didn't remember his name though :\

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    Quote Originally Posted by aperfectseal View Post
    I had these 2 old guys one time make origami wieners and put them on the stage pointing up but I didn't realie what they were supposed to be and I said "Awwww thank you for the rocket ships!!! They are so cute!!!!" And the guys kept laughing and making more and I thought it was so awesome, until they told me what they were, haha.
    lmao, that's awesome!

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    Have a great one!!! Finally This past week, my 1 regular said he was coming in, so I asked when, and he never responded- thought maybe he got caught up with work, or something. He messages me at 6:30, (i work day shift) when I JUST finished getting dressed and ready to leave..I'm like AGH..he usually spends a few hundred and tips, and I told him I missed him but I'm already dressed..he said he didn't care, he likes me clothed too

    So I went upstairs and he got a few VIP dances, with me CLOTHED in regular clothes lol, must have looked freggin weird to everyone else but I was so happy..he said "Youre still YOU in your regular clothes, and I like you this way too" ..totally made my day, plus the $ helped too

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    the first guy i ever gave a lap dance to came back in the club with a rose for me, it was adorable.
    his name was michael... 5 years, and i still remember! : ]

    i love the older men who understand that they are supposed to tip you to sit and chat for hours. they always make my day. less work, more fun and stimulating conversation.

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    Default Re: Customers that make you go "awwww"

    I have a customer who is a bit creepy and doesnt have much money. I think hes a bit slow but I guess he tugs at my heart strings for some reason. Anyway he gave me a card the other day and had written what a nice and beautiful girl I am and it had $20 inside and he had written, "this is for flowers, or chocolate or whatever nice girly thing you like". I thought it was pretty cute.

    I have some pretty cool customers though. Ive got some nice little presents here and there and some pretty awesome big ones. But the best are the ones who just come in and say, "right Im booking you for x time and we are gonna have some fun. What do you want to drink? Heres my baggy go have a line and meet me at reception to book". They we just laugh and goof around. I like it when they just want to hang out and appreciate that dancing for extended periods of time is tiring.

    Of course compliments never get old either. Especially genuine ones, not passive aggressive idiotic ones that most customers come up with.

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