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    As long as I've been dancing I still don't understand why a guy would cock block his friend from getting LD's.

    The only thing I can think of is ...

    He doesn't have money ... or ... Envy (he doesn't have a girl on his lap or sitting next to him) ... in either situation, why should his friend have fun when he can't.

    What do you ladies think?

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    ugh this is so frustrating

    the reasons you mention seem likely, along with the feeling that they 'have to look out for their boy', they dont like you, or they are just douches.

    yea its frustrating.

    i hate these guys. usually when in a group if i am just hustling one guy i will try to drag them away as soon as possible.
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    in my (very little) dancing experience its usually because the guy doesn't see the point in a lap dance. he's the one who you always hear saying "it's a tease. I don't get anything out of it" so he wants to control everyone around him. the cockblocker thinks he's right about everything and gets pissed if anyone thinks differently from him.

    whenever that happens I'm like "oh sorry I didn't realize your boyfriend got so jealous" and walk away

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    It has to do with control. I envision a group of guys making a pact before they walk into a strip club: "whatever you do don't buy any dances".

    I'm a thicker girl and guys are always trying to cock block me because I don't suit their personal taste yet their friends love me.

    It's about control and poor self esteem. They don't have control over their own lives so they have to control their friends.

    Some guys go into strip clubs thinking they are playing a game to win something. Or go in deliberately to NOT buy dances because they feel dissed by girls at the bars on a typical Friday night.

    I always chime in that most of the girls at strip clubs are working on Friday and Saturday night so we have no clue what they are getting at.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    ugh this is so frustrating

    the reasons you mention seem likely, along with the feeling that they 'have to look out for their boy', they dont like you, or they are just douches.

    yea its frustrating.

    i hate these guys. usually when in a group if i am just hustling one guy i will try to drag them away as soon as possible.
    When I've tried dragging the custy away, the cock blocker steps in. And in the case where my custy is weak (no other term to use) he will listen to his friend. I'm like ... WTF?! Are you boys together or here for girls and LD's?! Of course I'm just thinking this. Sometimes I can manage to get the custy away and other times his friend wins. It's not a pissing contest guys. I think some of the guys that go into SC's are just straight out women haters.

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    I am so sorry but if they dont wanna get dances WTF they wanna do? these guys should kicked out!!! why why why they come to strip clubs then... go local bar get your fuckin drink and dont bother me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    in my (very little) dancing experience its usually because the guy doesn't see the point in a lap dance. he's the one who you always hear saying "it's a tease. I don't get anything out of it" so he wants to control everyone around him. the cockblocker thinks he's right about everything and gets pissed if anyone thinks differently from him.
    Gawd I hate those guys. If a LD is a tease and there is no point ... why the fuck go into a SC? Oh yea ... the control thing. Ugh!!



    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    whenever that happens I'm like "oh sorry I didn't realize your boyfriend got so jealous" and walk away
    ROFLMAO!! I love it! I'm gonna have to use that line ... thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    It has to do with control. I envision a group of guys making a pact before they walk into a strip club: "whatever you do don't buy any dances".

    I'm a thicker girl and guys are always trying to cock block me because I don't suit their personal taste yet their friends love me.

    It's about control and poor self esteem. They don't have control over their own lives so they have to control their friends.

    Some guys go into strip clubs thinking they are playing a game to win something. Or go in deliberately to NOT buy dances because they feel dissed by girls at the bars on a typical Friday night.

    I always chime in that most of the girls at strip clubs are working on Friday and Saturday night so we have no clue what they are getting at.
    I've heard of guys making a pact before going into a SC. WTF?! They're such losers that they have nothing better to do w/ their lives than to go into a SC and treat dancers badly. I guess I could look at this another way ... how sad of a life they must have that they HAVE to act this way. Maybe I'll have some compassion, rather than feeling like kicking them in the balls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by missplayful View Post
    I am so sorry but if they dont wanna get dances WTF they wanna do? these guys should kicked out!!! why why why they come to strip clubs then... go local bar get your fuckin drink and dont bother me...
    I feel this way too about the people that just hang out ... men and women. When the hell did a SC become the local hang out joint?! Frustrating!!

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    I know why drinks are pretty cheaper than local bar and they can see lots of half naked or naked girl for almost free or for couple bucks. I think STRIP clubs should not offer very cheap drinks like 1 dollar beer 3 dollar mixed drink etc...If drinks can be expensive or no special nights like that cheap ass people wont be at SC...

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    This has come up in other threads. Often the guy doesn't have money & their friends don't want to loan them money... which is fine. Figure out which of them has money, divide them from the rest of the group, then "conquer".
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    Bros before hoes mentality. Majority of the group is broke and pissed they can't afford to do anything so they don't want to look like the broke one sitting alone fending off girls while the ones that do have money go play. This is the most irritating thing ever. I hate it when there is a bachelor and his boys are expected to pay and they keep asking him" dude, do you really wanna go?" Duh, that's why he's bringing it up. It's like his friends want him to beg and they look for the slightest bit of hesitation on the bachelors part to justify not coming out of their pockets

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    Usually its because the guy is asking his friends for money and they don't want to oblige. I can understand that; it's their money and if they don't want to lend it then that's fine; find someone that wants to spend it all on his friend.

    The worst is when a customer is back in VIP and his friends routinely check up on him after two hours. It's commendable I guess because they are making sure their friend doesn't get sucked up and end up maxing out all their cards but fuck it's annoying to be dancing and a friend walks in going "hey we gotta go."

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    I'm going with the pack mentality, super frustrating if you can tell "your" guy is into you and his buddy is like umm no.
    you may not get the sale anyway. so i say with a big non confrontational smile and body language. "i didn't ask you i asked HIM"sometimes this works because the guys is like yeah, she asked me I'm in control fuck you guys.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    whenever that happens I'm like "oh sorry I didn't realize your boyfriend got so jealous" and walk away
    funny, but does it end up with you getting the dance?
    i'd soooo use this if it works!

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    I totally witnessed the pack mentality last night. Hell, they even had to decide together where to sit and just stood in the isle for a bit looking lost ... and there were plenty of tables to sit at. Someone couldn't just make a decision and sit. They had to check w/ each other. Are they all dating or what? LOL! Needless to say I did not go up to that group. I was thinking about this thread and the only thing that came to mind was COCK BLOCKING. No thank you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    so i say with a big non confrontational smile and body language. "i didn't ask you i asked HIM"sometimes this works because the guys is like yeah, she asked me I'm in control fuck you guys.
    That's an awesome technique! I'm gonna have to use that someday! Thanks

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    seriously, even actual gay guys are cooler than this in strip clubs.

    i've never had one of these guys getting asked for money. they just hate women. they're probably "nice guys" irl, and they're bitter, not realizing that not all women are the same, and women who become strippers aren't into the same bs games as the girls that string them along irl. we just want money. i've seen so many guys spending and offering to spend on their friend too, and the friend was cockblocking. i've seen guys take their friend's money, then just pocket it instead of getting dances like his friend wanted him to. what kind of friend is that supposed to be? like dude, let's go to an amusement park, my treat. no thanks man, how about you go and just give me the 50$ you would've spent on me. it's supposed to be about sharing a fun experience, not about someone spending money on you. what douchebags.

    they're just assholes.

    they're also the reason i refuse to work at clubs that have cheap drinks or no cover. it's like getting a guy to tip the hostess when you go to a room. it's not just to pull money out of him, it's to gauge how much he's willing to spend on you, how generous he is. i don't understand why clubs do that shit. the more bargains you cut, the more you have to cut, and they blame the economy even though there are still plenty of people willing to spend real money...they just don't want to be around drunk, belligerant assholes harassing dancers and making a scene.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gypsyvalkyrie View Post
    funny, but does it end up with you getting the dance?
    i'd soooo use this if it works!
    if it's a large group of guys you'll hear a big "OHHHHHHHH!!!!" after you diss the cockblocker and then go back around a few minutes and there's a 50/50 chance of getting the dance

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