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    Thumbs up So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found...

    Most of my customers in the past and love of all found me and wanting me to domme them i tell them im not a domme, but they say i have to look , and im powerful looking.. so in the past few weeks ive been exploring more in this area.. and so far ive collected 3 personal slaves that spend over 400 on me in the last 3 days online.. i wanted to share with others ... things ive found online to help me learn more... and wanted to ask any other fem dommes... how did you end up being a domme? I found it to be somewhat natural, however getting pass the point to explore in what to do next after the first few online meetings?? what type of games or training do you do? if i may ask.. this is the site that i found, http://www.arenablaze.com/index.php do you think its any good in your thoughts?? thanks again, and any advice or leads to helping me be a better fem dom, i would be thankful.

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    Default Re: So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found.

    Hey hun, let Me check the site and I will get back to you ok? Glad you are finding your Domme footing, It's a really fun ride....most of the time, lol.

    Also just a note, "fem domme" is a redundant phrase as the "me" on the end of "domme" makes it a feminine noun. And then "dom" is the masculine. Kisses.

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    Default Re: So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found.

    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Hey hun, let Me check the site and I will get back to you ok? Glad you are finding your Domme footing, It's a really fun ride....most of the time, lol.

    Also just a note, "fem domme" is a redundant phrase as the "me" on the end of "domme" makes it a feminine noun. And then "dom" is the masculine. Kisses.

    Thanks so much!!! WOW, i knew i would learn something from you. your the grestest thanks again.

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    Default Re: So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found.

    I am going through the same thing. Guys tell me I have a strong look, and when I first started camming, I told guys I am not dominant, and to search fetish categories. Well, I recently got a few very good regulars from being dominant. I don't think I am good at it but these guys seem to be giving me a chance. I found this on another forum, and copied it today.

    http://psosupport.com/forums/storage...rix%20List.pdf

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    Default Re: So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found.

    Alright I'm back 30 seconds later, I am already bored and skeptical. It's all very... me and my man sexy intimate bedroom funtime... *BARF* Girl you need to find yourself some REAL information hold on let me give you a link or five. This is less bedroom fun more, hardcore down to business learn your shit and be a Domme, not a domme. It's all about that capital "D" babe. Come play with Me and the big girls.

    *Also the search button in the forums is your friend...

    <a href="http://MistressArialandre.femdommesociety.com" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.femdommesociety.com/images/RetreatBanner.jpg" /></a>

    ^ Ok so join, go to Domme University, read the forums blah blah blah

    http://www.sexuality.org/authors/lauren/AboutBDSM1.html

    ^ Here you have just some general terminology, knowledge, a more academic view point, READ it.

    You know what let's go slooow. Start with those two amd then feel free to PM me with any questions ok hun?

    Mistress Arialandre over and out *whip crack*

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    Default Re: So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found.

    I need real info too! Lol let's learn together. I seriously need some help on this subject

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    Default Re: So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found.

    Lol I hope you are not making fun of us newbies! ahah I really DO need help so bad! This is something I don't excel at but want to learn...

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    Default Re: So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found.

    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Alright I'm back 30 seconds later, I am already bored and skeptical. It's all very... me and my man sexy intimate bedroom funtime... *BARF* Girl you need to find yourself some REAL information hold on let me give you a link or five. This is less bedroom fun more, hardcore down to business learn your shit and be a Domme, not a domme. It's all about that capital "D" babe. Come play with Me and the big girls.

    *Also the search button in the forums is your friend...

    <a href="http://MistressArialandre.femdommesociety.com" target="_blank"><img src="http://www.femdommesociety.com/images/RetreatBanner.jpg" /></a>

    ^ Ok so join, go to Domme University, read the forums blah blah blah

    http://www.sexuality.org/authors/lauren/AboutBDSM1.html

    ^ Here you have just some general terminology, knowledge, a more academic view point, READ it.

    You know what let's go slooow. Start with those two amd then feel free to PM me with any questions ok hun?

    Mistress Arialandre over and out *whip crack*

    YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!!! Im going to look over and read everything i can, and when i get some questions your the first im aiming for to ask... THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!!

    And yes let us newbies learn together... kissesss

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    I am going through the same thing. Guys tell me I have a strong look, and when I first started camming, I told guys I am not dominant, and to search fetish categories. Well, I recently got a few very good regulars from being dominant. I don't think I am good at it but these guys seem to be giving me a chance. I found this on another forum, and copied it today.

    http://psosupport.com/forums/storage...rix%20List.pdf
    yeah mine to their happy with me for some reason.. its the power look i have mostly i think.. most of the time im sitting their and just asking wtf is wrong with you.. and they love it.. beats me

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    Quote Originally Posted by starrgirl81 View Post
    yeah mine to their happy with me for some reason.. its the power look i have mostly i think.. most of the time im sitting their and just asking wtf is wrong with you.. and they love it.. beats me
    They asked so much for a few years, that I HAD to try it. Now I have some very faithful and high paying regulars!

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    Default Re: So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found.

    Oh hunny no no I'm not makng fun of you at all. We ALL had to start somewhere yeah, and I'm always THRILLED when I get to help the new girls out because I know that I will actually try My hardest to get them good information so that they can become the best they can be.
    So often newbies flounder around by themselves and with all of the spoilt princess wannna-domme "fuck you, pay me" floating around the Scene these days it's really easy for new girls to get derailed thinking that that's the way to go. So I'm all for helping out those that ask that really want to learn

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Oh hunny no no I'm not makng fun of you at all. We ALL had to start somewhere yeah, and I'm always THRILLED when I get to help the new girls out because I know that I will actually try My hardest to get them good information so that they can become the best they can be.
    So often newbies flounder around by themselves and with all of the spoilt princess wannna-domme "fuck you, pay me" floating around the Scene these days it's really easy for new girls to get derailed thinking that that's the way to go. So I'm all for helping out those that ask that really want to learn
    I was joking

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Oh hunny no no I'm not makng fun of you at all. We ALL had to start somewhere yeah, and I'm always THRILLED when I get to help the new girls out because I know that I will actually try My hardest to get them good information so that they can become the best they can be.
    So often newbies flounder around by themselves and with all of the spoilt princess wannna-domme "fuck you, pay me" floating around the Scene these days it's really easy for new girls to get derailed thinking that that's the way to go. So I'm all for helping out those that ask that really want to learn
    Actually your the FIRST person offering any help on this subject, and I'm sooo thankful for that. On other forums when I tried to ask for pointers on this subject, the women were not so nice about it. We all have to start somewhere, and honestly, I havn't been able to find the material I need on my own, and I do want to learn. So thanks again for the info you gave here! I will be taking time to study, and LEARN!

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: So im expanding on my abilities into the fem dom role...and this is what i found.

    Ive been an online Domme since 2006. I am naturally Dominant and Sadistic, I enjoy being bossy and teasing weak males. I understand my inherent power just from being female. Because I am a woman, I can make a man do anything - and most of them want women to be in control (as you have found out) - if they dont, they are simply misguided.

    The best advice I can give you, along with reading everything you can on Female Dominance, is this: what you want is more important than anything else.

    Now this is in fact (and unfortunately) a very new concept to a lot of women. We have been so brainwashed and used to complying with the wants and needs and desires of men that we have forgotten and often dont even know, what we want. Men NEED women to know what they want and have the balls to expect to receive it.

    You will find that you will really enjoy having a man weak for you and wrapped around your finger, and so will he. It is their natural way, it is the way they are wired. Everything a man does is in some way to attract a woman and to spend his seed - this gives you, a woman, ultimate power. He cannot have what he needs without you and since he needs something from you, you can make him jump through hoops for it.

    So, make him worship you, make his mind melt looking at your amazing body, dont give him exactly what he wants, make him work for it, more money to see more toes, closer, more money for more teasing, more money for more laughing at his tiny cock, more money for humiliating him about how he could never please a woman with that excuse for a meat stick, etc, etc

    Men NEED to be put in their proper place, at women's feet. They NEED guidance, they NEED control, they KNOW they are not what they are made out to be.

    Men have a very hard job, they have to uphold this idea that men are the superior race, that they are the strong decision makers when they all know deep down inside that they are in fact simply products of reproduction and work and pleasure if we WOMEN so decide.

    But that thing between their legs is their master. The beautiful thing about this, is WE are the masters of that thing between their legs.

    Control the cock, control the man.
    "Sex is currency. What's the use of being beautiful if you can't profit from it?" - Lily St Cyr (40's burlesque dancer)

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    ^ I feel a little warm and fuzzy about you right now... That post was great, lol especially after the night I had last night, there was a lot of worshipping, just how I like it.

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