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    What do you say or do that gets a customer to get a dance from you? and how do you get them to come back? I keep geting the oh i dont go upstairs or maybe later.. Do you keep trying or do you move on...and I say I'll come back but then i will see them later on go with someone else. I feel like i should just stay with them until they say yes

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    blowjob ?

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    LoL Melonie!!!

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    Default Re: magic word to get a lap dance?

    It really depends on you (your look, your confidence, your delivery), the club (culture), and the customer (what he's looking for/wants). Take a look through Hustle Hut, there's tons of great one-liners that a lot of ladies have had success with.

    I wouldn't recommend staying with a customer until they've said yes, because you could be sitting with them for quite some time if they're just not interested, and that isn't fair to you, him, or any other girls working. Just take it in stride: nicely tell them to enjoy their visit and get up so you can move on to someone else.

    I take it you're pretty new, so while you're trying to figure out what sort of hustle works best for you, don't be embarrassed to just ask them if they want a dance. Build a rapport with a bit of conversation (keep it sexy!) and then segue into it. There's no magic word or formula for getting them to say yes, but confidence, eye contact, smiling, and looking your best are the easiest ways for you to up your chances.

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    I think it's good to have a couple of different approaches for different types of men. Are they saying no because your asking too quick? Most times that's usually the culprit. It is also good to never say "wanna dance". Saying something like "let's go play now" means the same as 'wanna dance' to you but to him means you wanna play with him and have fun. Not do your job and give dances. I don't mean "play" as in you literally play with him so I hope it wasn't taken in that context. I read the other day but can't quote it's rightful owner. But she said, "have you heard about our naughty rooms?" I thought that was a super cute way to say private room which can sometimes sound the same as "wanna dance". Sometimes if there's good convo going you can always say, "it's so hard to really hear each other and im really intrigued by this convo. let's go somewhere we could hear each other" and walk him right into VIP. I know it's hard, but try every different approach until you find the one that's most comfortable for you. Thus leading to more dances. Also, don't sit with them until they say yes because maybe they won't. Remember it's a privelage to be sitting with you. Give yourself a 20min at the max sitting time before you get up. That way it didn't waste a lot of your time and it's just enough time to really practice your hustle. Good Luck!!!

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    Default Re: magic word to get a lap dance?

    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    blowjob ?
    Well, yeah. Haha, just kidding, great post Melonie!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    blowjob ?
    actually it was so slow at my club a few weeks ago (and the customers that were there were so cheap) that a girl I work with decided to go around and ask customers if they wanted a blowjob. she was bored and wanted to see how many guys would actually say yes (i, of course, would never recommend any one to do this - even if it's for the sake of entertainment and you atually aren't going to give anybody head). no one said yes, several said they couldn't afford it. now THAT'S pretty bad, when even THAT won't get you a lap dance.

    to the OP, I don't think there's any magic words that guarantees you getting a lap dance. this question actually reminds me of all the threads guys have started in Customer Conversations over the years, asking what magic words or phrases there are to get a dancer to go home with them, to get a dancer to do a free lapdance, to get a dancer to spend countless hrs with them in a club and not charge for her time, lol

    there is no magic phrases, there are of course certain things you can say to improve your chances of getting a lap dance. but a lot of that depends on the customer (what is HE looking for? what personality type is he? does he want a lapdance or just spend time in VIP having a conversation?) and also the way you present yourself. you have to be a chameleon. you also don't want to use the same old "wanna dance?" line on every custy. there's a few threads over in Hustle Hut that talk about this. then there's also Avalon with Dancerwealth, which is a great resource for husling advice.

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    Thanks Elusive21!

    Miss Red, I teach an online stripper sales course that will teach you how to get him to say yes!
    I also have plenty of free articles out on the web I just published one called How to Get Him To Say Yes

    You can also sign up for my newsletter, which gives you articles and other links to stripper sales strategies. The link is in my signature.
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    a girl I work with decided to go around and ask customers if they wanted a blowjob. she was bored and wanted to see how many guys would actually say yes (i, of course, would never recommend any one to do this - even if it's for the sake of entertainment and you atually aren't going to give anybody head). no one said yes, several said they couldn't afford it. now THAT'S pretty bad, when even THAT won't get you a lap dance.
    ^^^ now THAT is downright depressing !!!

    Obviously my original comment was meant as a tongue in cheek joke. But I never dreamed that there are guys out there that actually can't afford a few $20 or whatever private dances with a BJ thrown in 'for free'.

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    i want to clarify that she was just joking, she wasn't actually going to go through with it.

    and yes, it is depressing.

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    I get about four out of every five guys I ask if I say "Do you want to have some fun?" idk, this line always works for me.

    When selling VIP, I always ask and if they are a little unsure I'll just tell them "okay we're going in the back" and then proceed to drag them over there. I find that if you just tell a guy "this is what we're going to do and this is the price" more than half of the time they don't really know how to say no so they go along with it.

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    yea ive been telling guys rather then asking them lately and it works sometimes..esp on guys that seem like they r into me from the start..i dont bother with the pervs anymore who just wanna try to get more out of you..and i think im starting to get some regulars it feels good!

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