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    Last night I had a customer who took out and tried to hand me his ATM card so I could " take out whatever I need". I didn't accept, and instead told him he would have to take the money out and give it to me himself. After a little back and forth about it, some how the subject was changed and I ended up not really getting tipped much from him at all. My question is, should I have used his card? I didn't know if using it would've been appropriate or not and I was a bit uncomfortable about doing it (although I sometimes get uncomfortable just asking for tips in general so I end up overthinking whether things are just me, or if anyone else is doing it etc.) Thanks so much!

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    Default Re: How would you handle this??

    Maybe he was into financial domination.
    If so, you definitely should've taken out "what you needed".

    HE told you to do it, so it shouldn't have been a shock when you drained him...lol

    I really wish I'd get a guy that wanted me to take out what I needed...lucky girl.

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    Thanks for the response! I just felt like maybe I would've been taking advantage of him, or that my manager may get upset, but later on I was definitely kicking myself! lol.

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    Default Re: How would you handle this??

    You have the same problem as I do... I feel bad for guys.. I don't want to take advantage etc... however in this situation, you should have!! I would have had him go with and then just told him how much you should get.. I would have half jokingly said, "ummmm $500??" and see where it went from there..

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    I use to do that too...in a different way.
    Guys would accidentally give me more than was owed and I was always honest.
    Gave them back what they gave me and told me that it was too much.
    It NEVER paid...lol

    At least this guy was letting you know that it WAS okay.
    Maybe he'll come back and offer again.

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    I had a guy like this. Take out the money. Keep taking it out till he tells you to stop. That's what he wants you to do.= ]

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    Yeah I am trying so hard to not feel bad, especially when I see other girls who don't make way better money. Thanks so much for the answers!! xox J

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    Quote Originally Posted by xoAnnaBanana View Post
    I would not have personally used his card. That seems wrong to me. And afterwards, if you were to withdraw X amount of money, he could (and most likely would) cry wolf about how you stole his card. Rather I would have said I need $500 so go withdraw it for me, then I would have taken his hand and guided him to the ATM.
    Thats how I feel. I wouldnt care if he told me to use his card, I wouldnt do it, even if he came with me to the ATM and said to use it. Thats his property, his name, and his credit line. I dont want to get into trouble for using someone elses card.. as lame as I sound. The best thing to do, is to make him take a walk, grab his hand and lead the way. I 've done this, before they can say "no" you grab and walk.

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    Default Re: How would you handle this??

    i've never had one of those guys, but i've seen it happen. never seen it blow up in the girl's face. when you go, check the balance before you try to withdraw anything. consider if the club's atm has a limit (a lot of them only allow 200 at a time).

    and um, it's not like illegally using a credit card or something. you can't withdraw without knowing his atm number.
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    ^yup.
    i love it when that happens- it's happened to me a couple times and every time i make out like a bandit- hey he told me to. he came in to spend, and i'm sure as hell not gonna get in his way of doing so, so no guilt here.
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    I would have said "what's your PIN?" grabbed 1000 dollars and given it back to him

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    Default Re: How would you handle this??

    given him back his card I mean...not the money

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    Default Re: How would you handle this??

    That can be a tricky situation. It's true, it can't be stealing if he gave you the ATM pin number. When someone in the strip club offers you a great deal, take it. You are there to be spoiled. That man is our "model customer". You are not taking advantage of men when you are in the club. They know why they are there and they know why you are. Be bold it will be profitable. Good luck for next time there's an open wallet!!!

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    I guess what I meant more was, the club may back you up if you were given the pin and not treated you as if you were stealing the money from them. As you said (xoAnnaBanana) would truly be the best way to get it done; just it's not always that easy. Maybe it would be best to ask the manager at your club what to do if your in that situation again.

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    Thanks so much girls!

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    Lets stick to reality here. We are all in the business of making money. But you have to use good judgement. Who's to say that he has not committed Identity theft and the card is not his??? I would not have done it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xoAnnaBanana View Post
    I'm pretty sure it still can be stealing even if he gave you the pin number.

    The card owner is the only person legally authorized to access their bank account with a credit/debit card and PIN number.

    Your name is not on the card and your signature is not on the back of that card.
    How many clubs keep camera footage for a long enough period of time that he'd be able to prove you stole anything?
    How many people pay enough attention to what goes on that there'd be witnesses to say "Oh yeah, she was the one pushing the buttons while he stood there and she took xxx amount"?

    Can it technically be stealing? Probably.
    But I'm pretty sure the customer would be able to do anything about it legally.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tarahdice View Post
    Lets stick to reality here. We are all in the business of making money. But you have to use good judgement. Who's to say that he has not committed Identity theft and the card is not his??? I would not have done it.
    then someone gave him the number. and in the time between giving it to him and him arriving at the club, they could've called their bank to report it stolen. if they're dead, it doesn't matter too much. if they're tied up in a basement or something, well, a stripper using their atm card is probably the least of their worries.
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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    Maybe he was into financial domination.
    If so, you definitely should've taken out "what you needed".

    HE told you to do it, so it shouldn't have been a shock when you drained him...lol

    I really wish I'd get a guy that wanted me to take out what I needed...lucky girl.

    I will have to agree with Avery.

    I'd say that ya should've taken out WHATEVER you want. not what ya needed...that's just me though....perhaps I wrong for thinking this way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JadenJ View Post
    Thanks for the response! I just felt like maybe I would've been taking advantage of him, or that my manager may get upset, but later on I was definitely kicking myself! lol.
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