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    I have a few questions relating to the topic.

    First, is it appropriate during conversation inside the club for a customer to bring up that he is submissive to a dancer, or should he wait for her to address the topic? The aspects I am most interested in are not too unusual; in particular, foot worship; financial domination (being her money slave); slapping; being mean to the customer; taking the customer to VIP and making him hold her ashtray while she sips on champagne, etc.

    Second, if it is appropriate, in what manner should the customer raise the subject and remain within the confines of the club rules? I would never want to assume that a person is into this type of activity. Personally, I usually seek out the dancer whom I believe has a dominant and aggressive personality. However, if she has the type of personality and does not mind the interaction, I would see no problem with it.

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    Default Re: Domination in the Club

    i wish i was in nola. you sound like such a fun custie you can just bring it up in convo, if she's not into it she may know another dancer who is.

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    I am going to take your advice and try it. Thanks.

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    Where I work you can usually ask a floor guy and they usually know which girls are into which things. I've worked Rick's in NOLA several times and know that the floor guys would be very helpful.
    I'm not a stripper, just a woman in a situation! Lol!

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    I would say it's appropriate to ask when ever you feel comfortable asking. You have to remember what your asking is not rude but rather fun for us...

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    It's appropriate when I say it is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SamanthaLasVegas View Post
    I would say it's appropriate to ask when ever you feel comfortable asking. You have to remember what your asking is not rude but rather fun for us...
    I am very glad that it is rather fun for some people. Perhaps it is more common than I thought. I am going to think of some tactful ways to bring up the subject to see if she might be interested.

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    It's unlikely that a dancer would broach that subject out of the blue. You should find an appealing girl, let her know what your desired experience is, and ask her A) if she's comfy with that and B) what activities are possible/prohibited in her club. I don't know how things are in NOLA, but in Dallas I've had a few customers like yourself approach me similarly (usually when I'm wearing my leather dress) and I've slapped/spanked/walked on them to our hearts content in VIP. On the main floor I wouldn't go quite that far- it's just too distracting to others and some onlooker might try to 'save' you lol. But some things are OK- another dancer in my club has a regular sub customer, and she parades him around the main floor on a leash sometimes.

    BTW, you just missed the Dallas Fetish Ball this weekend- I suggest you mark your calendar for next year and come visit ;]

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    Thanks for the tips. I took the advice and it worked out well.

    I will be taking a trip to Dallas in January and looking for a good place to go.

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    Default Re: Domination in the Club

    What about having the dancer be submissive, how many dancers let men spank them etc..

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    Default Re: Domination in the Club

    While I have had them ask me to, it is not anything I would ever do or assume I was allowed to on my own. Whole lot more trust issue involved with this reversed scenario. Plus, the lady would need to be concerned with possible bruising which could cause her issues for days when performing on stage. Even when asked to do so, it was more of a light smack that I provided than spank. Only response I got was "harder !" Repeat, do not do without asking and prior consent.

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