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    I now have a day job as a messenger. So now my boyfriend is asking me if I am going to hang up my lingerie and stop camming! He has made little remarks about guys seeing all of my body. So I am thinking this camming is something he does not like! I told him I will do it when I am not tired from my day job. I think he is jealous and wants me to stop. Have any of you been through this with a boyfriend??

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    My boyfriend claims to be cool with me camming, but he has made a few comments about it here and there. I finally told him look, this is my JOB. This is how I help pay bills and buy what I need and WANT. I told him to let me know if he wants me to stop (I was not serious about quitting) so he can pay ALLLLLLL the bills AND buy what I need and want. He hasn't bothered me since..

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    Haha...my man say's "Boo, you need to get to work"
    Not in a pimp kinda way or nothin, he just sees when I'm procrastinating and trying to put it off

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    wow 2 different views. Men are something else.

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    Mine is always like, 'if you don't want to then don't do it and we'll figure something out, but if you do want to - get to it!'
    he's really supportive and just snoozes on the sofa until I'm ready to go to bed. He'd like it if I told him more about what I do 'cos he finds it a turn on but I'm not too comfortable talking about it as foreplay! He does do shows with me occassionally but finds it a bit difficult to perform to order. Actually, I always used to try to explain to him how it makes me feel, and he didn't get it at all and just 'wanted us to find it sexy together'. Since I let him do a few shows with me he's been bugging me a lot less!

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    Mine has no issues with it.
    In fact, one of his teammates bought a show with me, purely to try and annoy my dude . . .
    When he told him, my dude just grinned and said thanks for putting fifty quids worth of food on OUR table mate!
    The joke was doubley on him, because by that time, I was so annoyed at being recorded all the time, that I had started recording ALL my msn shows . . . His included.

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    My husband is ... well the no comment type.. he helps me make litle clips here and their, take pictures... did a show with me once.. never again ... helps me laugh at small penis humilation guys.. which is cool.. but to him my job is really nothing.. he doesnt really give me my own space here... kinda fucking sucks.. cause i used to make alllllot more money before i moved in with him.. to germany .. yeah i feel like im whining... i love him but i love to buy my own things to...

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    If your boyfriend is paying the bills, putting clothes on your back, feeding you and gives you money to take care of yourself and your family then why bother? If not, Do you really need our opinion? You should know better.

    My motto: Money now Men Later.

    This is coming from an escort with a boyfriend and yes he knows.

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    Mine is supportive and doesn't have a problem with it

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    I think mine barely has a clue. I am kind of angry at his naivety and ignorance at the moment.

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    Mine hates the entire sex industry as a whole so he is highly against it (hypocrite though since he contributes to it in one way or another). We had a 1hr debate on the sex industry last night and i learned exactly how closed minded he is. Is that going to stop me? Nope. My life, i do and live it as i see fit. He lives with it cause he knows if he tries to stop me its gonna make me walk and he doesn't want that. So i guess we agree to disagree.

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    Default Re: What does your boyfriend think?

    Well, I do not have a boyfriend. I am a "single" type of girl. Maybe I have commitment phobia or I am just not ready cause the last "official" boyfriend I had was like 10 years ago and I'm 24. *sigh*


    But if I had a boyfriend I would care about what he thinks, I am at the point though, where if I ever do be in a committed relationship then I better be sure that he is "hubby" material and that the next step for us would be the "marriage thing" hahaha So if he is important enough for me to give him all my time, energy, and commitment, then he will be important enough for me to listen and understand his concerns on decisions for our future. It is a two way streak though, meaning he should hear and understand my concerns about what I do and and why I want to do it, for what-ever reason.
    But it would be a compromise thing, relationships are all about communication and understanding on both parts. You both should reach a decision where each person is, if not happy, then at least content with it. Because if one person is truly against it or or miserable with a decision then it maybe a bumpy road in the relationship that could lead to a dead end.


    But this is just my opionion, I think about when I do finally settle down, that I will have to tell my dirty little secret and regardless if it is my past or present he will have to respect that. If not, then maybe I am not the woman for him or he is not the man for me. Doesn't mean he is a bad guy or vice versa, it is just what it is.


    But for now my motto is like Kayla .... Money Now, Men Later, but then again I am not in love nor am I even serious about finding it.....

    P.S. I do understand everyone stance on it however, and love and relationships are never an easy or always explainable decision since feeling are involved.
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    My bf doesnt mind, he likes to watch me in free chat sometimes because we dn't see eachother during the week. he said it makes him a little jealous but then at the same time he feels like the shit cause he gets to have me. I like that he see's other men admiring me. It shows him how lucky he really is.

    Our situation is perfect for me cause all week he's 2 hrs away and I don't have any distractions cause he's working too. And on the weekend its our time.

    I def love money more than I love him but he never has to know that cause i will almost never be in a situation to have to choose between the two.

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    Mine is MOSTLY supportive. I mean, he has to be considering that webcam is what we do to pay the bills (both of us). However, there have been some tough times.. a few weeks ago he was feeling VERY insecure and jealous, clingy and dependent... I was almost at the end of my rope. But we talked through it and at the moment he's cool with it and very motivated, pushing me to put in hours when I'm being lazy, etc.

    He IS hubby material, in fact we're getting married next year, so I respect his opinion much more than someone I was just casually dating. If he told me up front that he wanted me to quit, I would. I'd be pissed off for sure, but in the long run I think I value my relationship more than webcam and the money that comes with it (I have other work-at-home ventures that I can always fall back on).

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    I recently decided to start camming, and I told my boyfriend about it, and he was is totally fine with it. He even offered to move stuff around my office, so I have somewhere to cam while my kid is sleeping. My bedroom is next to his so I can't do it in there.

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    I just started camming, and my bf doesn't know yet, but he wouldn't mind. He's supportive of everything I do. Currently he's dying, on another continent, so I need to get money for a plane ticket ASAP to get there to spend some time with him. So, I guess I'll be working 10 hours a day...wish me good luck, girls. :/

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    Aw, sorry to hear about your boyfriend honey.

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    So glad I have a girlfriend at the moment.
    I'm blessed The whole idea turns her on. But, my ex bf had a problem with it at first. It isn't easy to swallow when they see their lady with a second life, but if you explain to him this is a fantastic way to make money, and achieve your goals etc. Just share with him as much as you can, maybe he will come around.
    But, like I always say to my sig "I don't love these hoes" HAHA! Good luck hunny!!!

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    Sorry about your boyfriend. Thanks ladies I really love to consider others feelings. It is what makes us human. I just wish he would cam with me. He would love it. But he is too religous.

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    Thank you, ladies.

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    i know something about the "too religious" type as well. he was more of a hypocrite though.

    "so baby, it's ok with god for yoooou to partake in street pharmaceutical sales, but iiiii can't do something legit like take my clothes off for money. oh yeah, god hates me more than you" *sarcasm*

    this was some years ago. he eventually came around, oh, now that we are not together anymore, and he sees me happy with money. real men holla when i'm finished getting money!

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    I havent told the guy I'm dating about it yet either.. I'm nervous too because I brought up the idea about stripping once and he was very much agaisn't the idea of me doing that, so I'm not sure how he would feel about camming.. The problem is that we only started dating at the end of July and now he is gone for about 10 months to Iraq (in the Army) but things are starting to get serious with us (we talk for over an hour a day).. I just went to get out of debt by the time he gets back and hopefully I can just do that with camming and then quit when he returns.. That's the plan at least.. He is def hubby material and I am not one to jump into relationships quickly..

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    ^^^ Please please promise me you will NOT tell him until he is home. I'm sure you won't, but I know so many women who will spill the beans long distance(Whatever the topic may be). If he is hubby material you guys will work it out. But, whatever you do... do not spill the beans until return. It's far better for his mental well being!

    A Big HUG for you love. Thats a sticky situation, but fret not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlphaGal View Post
    ^^^ Please please promise me you will NOT tell him until he is home. I'm sure you won't, but I know so many women who will spill the beans long distance(Whatever the topic may be). If he is hubby material you guys will work it out. But, whatever you do... do not spill the beans until return. It's far better for his mental well being!

    A Big HUG for you love. Thats a sticky situation, but fret not.

    yeah I agree he has enough on his plate just going over there.. and honestly I'm not sure at this point if it's something I necessarily have to tell him. I don't really have a choice anyways since I quit my job, im already tied into camming =) Im just gonna go with it and hope for the best! I'm a firm believer in "whats meant to be will be" so if he finds out and it breaks us then it wasn't meant to be.. (but I really really hope that doesn't happen)

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    Think.....Lovely.....Thoughts!

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