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    Recently Ive been to a few clubs and got dances from girls. At first I went there just to check the place out, but I really enjoyed getting dances. However, it seems a lot of girls have no idea how to dance for women or feel uncomfortable. One girl asked me why I was getting dances and thought it was weird. Im thinking ok, you would rather dance for some nasty old man?? lol!! Do any of you actually enjoy getting dances when you go to a club as a customer?

    Another thing every time i go with a guy it seems no one wants to come up to us, I even make it a point to tip most of the girls on stage. I also noticed that they gave the guys better dances than they gave me which was also weird. If I give a girl a dance I get just as into it as when im giving one to a guy. Like they would give me an airdance at a hard grinding club.

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    I've never been to a strip club as a customer but some of the girls at my club give me free lap dances when we get bored lol. I don't see why the girls would be so weird about it. money is money no matter who's giving it to you right? maybe they thought you were gay?

    I know personally whenever I see a girl in my club I go right up to her ESPECIALLY if she's with a guy because I know I can get a dance or two from her and more often than not the guy will pay for it so he can watch the "girl on girl action"

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    I love getting dances when they're good. I also love dancing for girls and couples though.
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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    it's nothing odd. I LOVE IT. I appreciate a hard working, beautiful woman that is scantily clad writhing and slowly rubbing up on me. Not saying my clit starts to throb and my panties get soaked, but I do enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    Maybe they are unsure of why you are getting a dance, ie because you are into them or are a lesbian, or you are bored or whatever. For me I think getting a dance from a girl is a waste of my time and money if I were to go to a stripclub.

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    I've also never been to a SC as a customer...and I don't know if I ever will. I feel like I'd be way too conscious of the fact that the chick just wants her money, that she probably thinks I'm a weirdo, and that she is just putting on a total act. Which I understand, but I don't think I'd be able to enjoy a dance for these reasons...

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    I'm not really Into it. I also dont like dancing for chicks.

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    Other dancers always ignore me if I go to a club with my man/friends too. I've gotten playful lapdances before from friends at work and was surprised how much of a turn on it was! I wish women weren't such haters on their own gender in a SC. I was always prepared with a lot of tips, too, but all I got was bitchy looks.

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    I really don't like it.
    If I was with a group of guys, and they wanted to pay for it, I'd get one.
    I just sit there with my arms by my side all stiff.

    I wouldn't pay for it myself, because, I already know what I had to go through for that $20, no way am I just giving it away. Sorry if that sounds mean, but that's how I feel about that.

    and I really don't like dancing for girls that much either. Sometimes, they're worse than the guys.

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    It's fun when I have a few drinks in me. BUT not if the girl is uptight OR too slooty about it. I like a hot dance but I dont really want the dancer pulling down my top and going to town on my boobs or .... other things either. I like the happy, sexy middle ground.

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    I don't mind as long as she doesn't half-ass it and can keep me engaged and interested the whole time. It's hard to say though, because I don't believe in getting less than three dances from a girl and I also don't want to spend money on someone who is essentially like, "oh you're a chick I don't have to work hard for you..." Also, I've told girls I'm a dancer before and they avoid me for the most part after that.

    There was one time that I ran around a club trying to find the girl who was just on stage and we went to the back together and it was really fun because we were both kind of drunk and just hanging out giggling.

    Also, I like dancing for women because obviously they are way less gross than men are and I find are generally more respectful. However, girls at a table can be the hugest cockblocks ever because their boy won't get a dance and I'm sure that everyone else at the table figures that that girl will tell their girlfriends and then it will be an issue.

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    I danced for a girl yesterday who was so uptight about getting the dance that she made it really unbearable for me. Like, how am I supposed to give a good dance when she won't stop looking at her boyfriend with a "help!" look on her face.

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    I wouldn't pay for it myself, because, I already know what I had to go through for that $20, no way am I just giving it away. Sorry if that sounds mean, but that's how I feel about that.
    Yeeeess! This too. I am a cheap-ass about luxury expenses. I'd rather buy $20 worth of sushi. And just as you said, knowing how I earned those $20 makes me super reluctant to spend it on stuff like that.

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    Default Re: Do YOU like getting dances?

    ^ Im the opposite. Dont get me drunk in a strip club I will be the best customer. I love getting dances but I actually prefer to sit on the stage and tip crazy good and make all the guys jealous that Im getting all the attention.

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    ^ That's cool. I wish I could be like that. I have an annoying frugal element in my brain that doesn't allow for enjoying that kind of spending.

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